What is it like for a boyfriend to have a cleanliness fetish?

Cleanliness is a unique fetish among a small group of our population. Cleanliness is actually a type of mental illness and a type of obsessive-compulsive disorder. In life, I or a friend around me has a cleanliness habit, which is a very normal phenomenon, people with cleanliness habits love cleanliness very much, and there is no room for a little sand in their eyes.

Always keep cleaning every day, and be satisfied when you see the spotless appearance of your home, otherwise you will force yourself to keep cleaning, otherwise you will feel very uncomfortable. <>

I don't know about the experience of having a boyfriend who is clean, but as a male compatriot with a little bit of cleanliness. The feeling of experience depends on the degree of cleanliness of your boyfriend, and everyone can tolerate the cleanliness in general. It's nothing more than that the home is cleaned very clean, the dirty places are not touched, and those who can clean with their hands don't talk nonsense.

But severe cleanliness is a bit serious, and heavy cleanliness can't stand being dirty while making others clean all the time. For example, shoes are washed every day, and clothes are changed two or three times a day. The table must be clean when eating.

The trash can must be changed frequently, and you must take a shower when you come back from outside. This kind of heavy cleanliness is really fatal. <>

If your boyfriend has a cleanliness fetish, if it's mild, it's fine, and there's basically nothing to worry about. But if your boyfriend is a heavy cleanliness addict, then you are in danger. There's a good chance that being together for a while might drive you crazy.

Because heavy cleanliness is really too delaying in life, if you don't clean his heart, he can't be calm, and he is basically cleaning every day, which is terrible to think about. In addition, you should try to change your boyfriend's problem and wish you happiness in the end.

I really feel this thing deeply, my boyfriend belongs to the kind of person who is very special and has a habit of cleanliness, but I happen to be a person who is not very familiar, but I love to be clean, but I don't like to clean up, you know? People who fart can't accept it.,I don't like to clean up.,My room is just messy.,And then every time he goes to my house.,When he sees my room messy, he scolds me.,That's it.,The boyfriend who has a cleanliness habit is really annoyed.。 But a boy who has a cleanliness fetish in those days is also good for many girls, she can take care of you, although she thinks you say you, but she will still help you clean up.

I'll tell you a little bit about it, it's me going out to dinner with my boyfriend, and sometimes I forget to bring paper, but she definitely has a lot of tissues on her. And definitely will bring a handkerchief, I don't know why she wants to take it away anyway, but, she's not like other people, just go out to eat, even the restaurant seats have to check the kind, she still not only will pick the restaurant environment, if the restaurant looks clean, she will never let me in, and I just like to eat the kind of person who likes to eat roadside stalls, he doesn't allow me to eat every time, boys with cleanliness will never allow you to eat roadside stalls, every time I see the kind of skewers from roadside stalls, I want to eat, You just can't eat it.

And the most important thing is that my boyfriend's shoes can't be a little dirty, this is the most troublesome problem in my country, you say he can't be dirty, he doesn't allow me to have dirty places, and it just so happens that I like to buy white shoes, he is easy to get dirty, and then I don't like to wash it If he sees my heart every time he sees that my heart is long, he will scold me, I am not allowed to wear that shoe, their obsessive-compulsive disorder is really too powerful, cleanliness obsessive-compulsive disorder.

But in fact, it is not a very bad thing to have a cleanliness fetish, I am used to her having a cleanliness fetish, I think everyone may have a boyfriend, married people are used to it, occasionally it is also a benefit, there are really cleanliness fetishists, people have been around you for a long time, you will not get sick often, and you are also, very good at paying attention to hygiene, that is, the kind that is edified, if there is something unclean, you will now, that kind of frequent attention, this is a kind of edification around for a long time, in fact, it is also beneficial.

My boyfriend has a habit of cleanliness, and sometimes I feel very speechless but it is a happy thing, so that the house is so clean when it is disturbed.

Actually, it's okay, at least decent, you can't stand it when you encounter sloppy, haha.

1. My boyfriend has a great habit of cleanliness, so I can choose to negotiate with my boyfriend to let him minimize or change his habits of cleanliness to avoid conflicts between the two of them because of this matter.

The fact that a boyfriend has a cleanliness habit is actually not a bad thing, which shows that after this boy is very particular about hygiene, there are some things in life that can be completed by the boyfriend. But if you can't accept the cleanliness fetish, then chat with your boyfriend and communicate about these things about the cleanliness fetish, hoping that the boyfriend can try to avoid this problem, or reduce his cleanliness habits, and strive to change himself for his girlfriend. In this way, the relationship between the two people can be further developed.

Second, my boyfriend has a great habit of cleanliness, so I can also choose to have a habit with my boyfriend, so that the two people will have common living habits and will not have too much estrangement.

Either you choose to adapt to your boyfriend's habits, then you have become a cleanliness addict, and you can complete it according to your boyfriend's various requirements, and get used to his life. This method is a kind of torture for oneself, and it is also a more mandatory requirement, which is more difficult for some people. But if you spend more time with your boyfriend and gradually adapt to this kind of life, and you have become a little clean, then it means that you have adapted.

3. My boyfriend has a great habit of cleanliness, if his boyfriend really can't change and can't accept it, then he can only choose to break up decisively.

If one person can not fully adapt to the life of another person, then two people will have all kinds of contradictions and conflicts in life, and these conflicts can not be solved by emotional things, after all, he is a habit of people. If two people can't change after getting along for a period of time, then in fact, breaking up is a relief for both people.

can only adapt to the other party's life, this kind of behavior is not well changed, and he can slowly make him less of such a serious cleanliness habit in life.

If you love your boyfriend, you have to accept your boyfriend's cleanliness and break up if you don't.

You can directly say to your boyfriend that I hope he is a little special to himself and doesn't have a habit of cleanliness.

In fact, to put it nicely, it is to love cleanliness, and to put it ugly, it is too picky, in my opinion, I can't bear it. Because of the cleanliness fetish, whether it is a boy or a girl, the requirements are very high, and whether it is for himself or others, it is invincible high, once others can not meet his requirements, he will be unhappy, so it is very tiring to get along with this kind of person.

If I had to choose, I would definitely not choose to date such a boy because I am not such a particular girl, but if I find such an object, he will definitely not be able to stand me, and I can't stand him either, then the two of us together must be an endless accusation, saying that a relationship between two people has long been quarreled and destroyed.

I think that if I live with such a man, I will be in a very big trouble for my life, and I prefer a simpler life. I can also be intimate when the two of us are together, not so many rules and regulations, so much attention because he is too clean to speak, he is not very acceptable to things like holding hands, hugging, and kissing. Because he thinks there are so many germs in it, they hate being in close contact with other people, they hate hugging, kissing.

Then I find someone to fall in love with me, not to let him respect me, then we must be sweet together, he will have a world of his own, and then we need to cooperate with him, so how can it. Life, if it makes me such a person, then I don't think this relationship has any meaning. Because I think it's really going to be hard for me to fit into his world, and if I were to become like that, then I don't think the relationship would have any meaning.

After all, I want to fall in love, not to change myself.

Yes, because such a boy loves cleanliness very much, and living with him doesn't need to do a lot of things himself.

I wouldn't choose a guy with a cleanliness fetish as a boyfriend, because it's very uncomfortable to fall in love with that kind of boyfriend.

I won't. Because I can't stand this kind of behavior, I'm going to break down.

Boyfriend is emotionally clean, in this case, you should consider whether to continue to get along with this person, if you feel that two people really have no common language, you should choose to separate, otherwise it will hurt you a lot.

Your boyfriend is emotionally clean, so since he chose you and you chose him, you should be clean.

You should keep an appropriate distance from the opposite sex in your daily life and give your boyfriend enough security.

If you meet this kind of boyfriend, it is better for two people to break up, because it is very tiring to fall in love with this kind of boyfriend, and there will be a lot of conflicts if you don't break up, so it is good for two people to be separated.

I think you can get along with him in a measured way, if he is particularly worthy of attention in some places, you don't get too close to him, and you can get along with him with proper respect.

When you get along with him, you need to pay attention to your own hygiene, and you also need to change your boyfriend in terms of ideology.

You can make yourself very clean, so that you will have a good relationship with the other party, and the other party will not feel particularly sloppy.

When getting along with him, you should ensure that it is clean, and you should also let him dispose of his own supplies, so that the two of them can get along better.

You should try to meet some of the other person's requirements, and you should also maintain the same life status with the other person in your life, so that you can get along with your boyfriend.

In fact, being with this kind of boyfriend is sometimes quite painful.

There was a time when my boyfriend also had a certain cleanliness habit, so at this time he basically couldn't touch his things casually, if you insisted on touching his things, he would become very angry and unreasonable at this time, all the things you touched he would be very serious to wipe clean with a tissue, and then put there at the end of the serious warning to you, you can't touch these things again.

Introduction to cleanliness:

Generally speaking, cleanliness is too much cleanliness. It is good for a person to love cleanliness, but if he pays too much attention to cleanliness and affects his normal study, work and life, especially social interaction, he is a hygienic disorder.

There is a distinction between severity and severity. Milder cleanliness is simply a bad habit. It can be corrected by desensitization**, cognition**.

The more serious cleanliness habit is a mental illness and is a type of obsessive-compulsive disorder. A psychiatrist should be sought for help. Cleanliness is not exclusive to girls, some boys suffer from it, and some boys even worse.

I think you should be as familiar with his living habits as possible, because there is no way to change him, you can only follow him, if you really can't stand it, the two of you still choose to separate.

When getting along with your boyfriend, you must try to keep it clean and tidy, so that the two of you will get along more sweetly.

For such a boyfriend, I think you should really consider each other's feelings when getting along, tolerate each other in your living habits, and make changes yourself.

If that's the case, then I think you should consider the other person's feelings when you do anything, and you should also improve your living habits, so as to promote the relationship between you.

I think you should live according to your own lifestyle, you can make some changes appropriately, you choose to tolerate him, and he should understand you.

You can only change yourself appropriately and try to cater to him, because it is very difficult to change a person who has a habit of cleanliness.

Since the boyfriend has a strong habit of cleanliness, the matter of tidying up the house and taking care of the housework should be left to him.

It's a more painful feeling, because two people will have conflicts over some things, and the other person's life is too clean, or you are very uncomfortable.

I feel very uncomfortable because such a guy really has too many things going on and all the time. He is all disinfecting and can't stand falling in love with such a boy.