How much opportunity did you face when you succeeded?

The biggest opportunity? It should be my current job, I left my last job, stayed at home for a month or two, didn't look for a job, only brushed my resume on Zhilian and 51, and then went out to play with my daughter-in-law, and received an interview in the process of playing**, arranged for me to go back to the interview after playing, and then everything was a natural interview process, and so on, I was happy to be hired, because the workload and salary ratio of this is very good, it can be regarded as a success.

I'm a very introverted person, and I always have been. When I was in college, I basically didn't know anyone except my classmates in my dormitory, and even I didn't know anyone in my dormitory. When I was in class, I trembled when I was called by the teacher to speak, and I trembled when I talked to strangers, so I was very nervous.

This situation lasted until the second semester of my sophomore year, and I was about to go out for an internship. The school organized a mock interview, but I didn't dare to go, and then I found that I couldn't do this, how could I be independent in the future, and how would I face this society? One cannot be cowardly in fear, but strong in fear.

So in the last two months of my college career, I forced myself to face it bravely when I should face it, not to be cowardly when I should not be cowardly, and I forced myself to be the first to go to everything, forced myself to speak, and slowly got used to it. Now two years have passed, and I am currently working in a foreign company, and my personality is still introverted, but I no longer have social phobia.

In 2012, in the second half of the second year of high school, I chose to drop out of school to work in a rebellious period, and my relatives and friends wanted me to continue studying, but I felt that my grades were too poor and I couldn't calm down to study, and even I decided to leave school after listening carefully in class. With the introduction of a relative, I went to work as an apprentice in a shop that sold hardware and plumbing equipment. After doing it for half a year, because my parents kept persuading me, and I felt that there was really no future for continuing to do it, I returned to school in my third year of high school.

Although the grades were still not good, in the end I was only admitted to the junior college. But I still learned a lot in college, and now I find that the difference between reading and not reading is really big.

The luckiest thing in my life is to meet my husband, I can meet him in the vast sea of people, slowly get to know each other, and finally fall in love with each other, I think it is a very happy thing. I've had a few boyfriends, but my husband is the most competent of all my boyfriends. I've always believed in one thing:

The person you're marrying doesn't have to be the person you're in love with. But I didn't expect my love interest to be my marriage partner. He can tolerate everything about me, even if I lose my temper, he lets me beat and scold casually, what he fears most is that I get angry and hurt my body.

For work, I think the happiest thing is that you really like your job. Then you will be able to put enough energy and enthusiasm into it, so that your productivity will increase, and then you will wait for a promotion and a raise, and you will be promoted without being prepared.

Recently, I think the luckiest thing is my CET-4 score, which passed with a score of 425 and my score was 426. I was really happy when I checked my results, because my English scores have not been very good, and I didn't feel good after the exam. I thought I was going to take the test again, but I passed it thrillingly, and I really felt lucky.

It's almost the New Year, and I get off the night shift. On the road, I met a raccoon cat who just let the car hit and died, I am a cat lover, I can't bear to let the cat be pressed by other cars, so I picked it up, and the next day I found a small park to bury it, and then bought a house during the New Year** won a special prize, a car of 80,000 yuan.

1.Goujian, the king of ancient Yue. After the defeat of Goujian, the king of Yue, he was forced to go to Wu as a slave and suffered humiliation, but Goujian did not give up on himself, but just endured it silently.

Finally, one day, King Wu saw Gou Jian's loyalty and let him go back to Yueguo. After his release, Gou Jian seized the opportunity, regrouped, strengthened the army, and finally destroyed the state of Wu.

2.Li Ka-shing seized the business opportunity and borrowed a huge amount of money to buy a large amount of land when he was not wealthy. This is a move that most people don't do.

Li Ka-shing saw the opportunity and seized it. It was this investment that ordinary people would never have dared to think of, and 20 years later, he made a fortune and became an Asian real estate tycoon.

3.Chaplin, the world-famous comedy master, made his debut on stage at the age of 5, showing his outstanding artistic talent. On that occasion, his mother's voice suddenly became hoarse during a performance, and she had to leave the stage.

At this time, there was chaos in the venue, and the stage director had an idea, thinking that Chaplin had performed in front of his mother and friends, so he suggested that Chaplin perform on stage instead of his mother.

The little Chaplin was not frightened, facing the audience, calmly and unrestrainedly, he sang a song, and then he sang and danced, and performed several programs, especially when he imitated his mother singing the "Irish March" with a hoarse voice, which was imitated vividly and won warm applause. It was precisely because he seized this chance that he was able to embark on the road of art in the future, and eventually became a household name in the world comedy master.

4.Zhuge Liang, whose name is Kongming, was a famous politician and military strategist in Shu Han during the Three Kingdoms. Zhuge Liang rarely had great ambitions, and often compared himself to the great statesman Guan Zhong and the military man Le Yi in the Spring and Autumn Period.

Therefore, he lived in seclusion in Longzhong while farming, while studying, watching the world, waiting for the opportunity to come out, known as "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon".

Liu Bei participated in the suppression of the Yellow Turban Rebellion and formed a small military group, but was repeatedly defeated by Cao Cao and was forced to take refuge in his own territory. In order to develop his own power, he searched for talents everywhere. He "looked at the thatched house three times" and asked Zhuge Liang to come out of the mountain to assist.

Zhuge Liang incisively analyzed the political situation at that time to Liu Bei and put forward countermeasures, which is the famous "Longzhong pair".

5.Napoleon Bonaparte, French 18th century statesman, military strategist, emperor of the First French Empire and the Hundred Days. But he turned out to be just a small lieutenant artillery officer.

In 1793, he went to the front and took part in the campaign against Toulon. When the front commander of the revolutionary army was facing the strong defense of Toulon, Napoleon immediately seized the opportunity and quietly proposed a new battle plan to the commissioner Salichetti. When the commissioner was at a loss, he saw that Napoleon's plan was very innovative, and immediately appointed Napoleon deputy commander of the siege artillery and promoted him to major.

Napoleon seized this opportunity, carefully planned and fought bravely at the front, fully demonstrated his courage and intelligence, and finally conquered Toulon. He was awarded a meritorious service and was exceptionally promoted to major general and brigade commander. finally became famous in one fell swoop, laying the foundation for his later rise to the pinnacle of power.

When I face opportunities and challenges, we are: Opportunity: I have found a job that suits me and I am happy to work. The challenge is: I want to grasp this job well, and I want to challenge more people. Source wide reed

When the petals of opportunity fall on the shoulder, some people gently pat the shoulder and scatter the petals at the foot; And some people will pinch it carefully, pick it up in their hands, observe it carefully, collect it carefully, and take care of her carefully.

There are opportunities in people's lives. Opportunity can't come by chance, as long as you pay attention to it, you will find him. When opportunity finds you and isn't ready to accept it, it slips under your nose.

In the early days of China's reform and opening up, land was not as expensive as it is now, but Li Ka-shing took a long-term view, seized the business opportunity, and took out huge loans to buy land.

In this way, Li Ka-shing has become what he is now. Similarly, in the boyhood of Hilton, the world's hotel king, there was a gold rush in Denmark, and everyone flocked to pan for gold, but he built a hotel, and everyone else had to stay in his hotel. Don't miss the opportunity, time is not waiting for me.

Good at finding and seizing opportunities in setbacks. Once upon a time, there was a man named Tengan in Japan who used to run a sake brewery. One of his fellows was upset with him, so he grabbed a handful of lime and threw it into the jar.

Teng'an was very annoyed when he saw this, and just as he was about to pour out the wine in the altar, he found that the ashes in the altar were gone, and the wine in the altar was clearer than before.

Teng'an seized the opportunity to make this kind of wine, and later more and more people liked to buy his wine, and the business became bigger and bigger. Nixon, the former American **, once said: "Fate does not give us the wine of disappointment, but the cup of opportunity."

Let us operate without fear, with joy and dominate our destiny. ”

To grasp the opportunity, it is very important to think rationally. Don't blindly follow others, there are opportunities but no ability, and opportunities cannot become opportunities. A Chinese PhD student studied abroad with his professor.

One day, the professor was holding a small piece of carbon and asked him to do his best to make it very thin. A week later, the carbon brought by the Chinese doctor had turned into a few millimeters of carbon flakes.

The professor looked at it and said, "Can it be thinner?" Another week later, he brought a thinner piece of carbon than before. The professor asked, "Can it be thinner?" Dr. China said, "You better find someone else to do it."

So, the professor just took a college student and asked him to do the same thing, and that person taped it a few times so that it could become extremely thin, and after working under a microscope three thousand times, it produced the thinnest carbon to date. That college student went on to become a Nobel Prize-winning physicist.

Practice has proved that how important it is to grasp the opportunity and be rational? In a fit of rage, the previous efforts were wasted, and the cooked duck flew, and the success that was about to come was lost.

This deficiency is the recklessness of lack of patience, the wrong choice of giving up opportunities, the bad root of lack of thinking, the irrational handling of problems, and the lack of forward-looking scientific judgment.

What are the opportunities? Opportunity is "seize the opportunity + believe in yourself + have the courage to challenge = success".

Looking at the successful people in ancient and modern times, the reason why they have been able to achieve results that ordinary people cannot achieve is not only because they have extraordinary strength, but also because they have seized the opportunity.

So, does success depend on opportunity or strength?

001: How important is opportunity.

As the saying goes, times make heroes. In today's terms, even a pig can fly when standing on the tuyere.

If you don't seize the opportunity, no matter how powerful a person is, no matter how hard you try, you can only be unknown. In the early days of reform and opening up, real estate tycoon Li Ka-shing seized the opportunity in time and dared to borrow huge sums of money to acquire a large amount of land when his own economy was not well-off. Facts have proved that Li Ka-shing has a sharp and unique vision, and this investment that is beyond everyone's imagination has made him rich, and he has since become a well-known real estate tycoon at home and abroad.

The importance of opportunity is self-evident, and seizing the right moment can save us a lot of effort and greatly reduce the time and energy we need to pay.

002: Strength is indispensable.

Opportunity is important, but that doesn't mean it's dispensable.

Without strength as a foundation, once the wind weakens, the pigs on the tuyere will quickly fall down and be crushed.

In reality, how many rich second generations and second generations of officials have a higher starting point than others, and their education is much superior to that of ordinary people, and they originally thought that they would be able to inherit their father's business and carry forward the career of their parents' generation, but the fact is that they not only do not have the ability to support their parents' hard work, but instead make a mess of their own lives, and some even go to prison.

Without strength, no matter how good the conditions and opportunities you have, you will not be able to succeed for a long time, and at most it will only be short-lived.

At the end of the day, strength is more important than opportunity, opportunity can make us succeed faster, but strength can make us smile longer in front of the market.

The opposing view is that it depends on opportunities, and I think opportunities are very important, and many people do not meet them, and the "encounter" here refers to opportunities. For example, when I was in the third year of junior high school, I heard from my classmates that the essence of the class was very good, and the high school entrance examination was about to begin, and the questions were all about the high school entrance examination, because its teachers were all experienced, and it was because I grasped a good opportunity to enter the essence of learning, so I was admitted to a key high school in the high school entrance examination. To this day, I continue to study here.

In short, our view is that opportunity is very important.

It can only be said that there are opportunities and may not be successful, and it is difficult to succeed without opportunities. People who have opportunities are not necessarily successful. According to a survey, 75% of people who win a high lottery prize in a certain place within 10 years have a harder life than they did before they didn't win.

Because there is a chance to win the lottery, but there is no ability to manage money or plan, when the enjoyment or money is spent and then not able to return to the original life, it is a misfortune.

Success is what everyone wants, whether it's academics or careers. Success brings joy to people.

How can you succeed? The great inventor Thomas Edison once said that genius depends on 99% diligence and inspiration! To succeed, you have to work hard. It is impossible to succeed without hard work.

Before Edison invented the durable light bulb, he had done more than a thousand experiments, but there was still no way to make the filament withstand high temperatures. Someone next to him said, "Forget it!

If you can't find it, forget it. You've done so many experiments and can't find them, so don't waste your efforts and do something else! But he said, "

I had to find a material that could withstand the heat, and I had to find it. He finally invented the durable electric light bulb, which made people all over the world happy, and was hailed as one of the greatest inventions of the 20th century.

We need to learn from his spirit, if he is not persevering efforts, it is impossible to invent a durable light bulb, it can be seen that success requires conditions, as long as the conditions required for success are met, success is easy.

Seizing opportunities is also one of the conditions for success. Let's take an example! When Bill Gates, the richest man in the world, was keenly aware of the huge business opportunities in the emerging computer industry, he dropped out of Harvard University and joined his own.

A friend opened a computer company called Microsoft, and his friends and relatives were against his approach at the time, but Bill Gates said that time will prove that I was right to do so. Now, the wide application of computers in all walks of life has brought great changes to people's work and life, and Microsoft has become one of the largest software vendors in the world!

There are many more conditions for success, such as one's own scientific and cultural quality! Without a good basic knowledge, you can't succeed despite hard work and a godsend! And without the help of others, it is also extremely difficult to embark on the road to success!

To succeed, it takes effort and opportunity!