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In the middle of the night, he obviously hadn't slept yet, I cried because of what he did badly, and then he ignored me and soon fell asleep, I was even more sad and cried harder, at this time I felt very humble, but I could only bear it silently.
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Accompany the boy you like on New Year's Eve, know that he just treats himself as a buddy, listen to him call the girl he likes, get through** and be happy with him, and know that he hits himself just to say New Year's Eve blessings to the girl he likes, hey, it's New Year's Eve together.
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When I love a lot, I care about him when he says he's snubbed. When I want to be angry with him, but I don't dare to be angry with her. I'm afraid of losing her, I'm afraid of going crazy and complaining about myself.
The person who loves more in love, the person who gives more, is often the most humble person.
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When you love someone, when you don't love, you can't be a threat, once you love and invest in your feelings, it's the most humble at this time, especially if people don't love themselves, they always feel that they are not good enough, not sensible enough, not considerate enough, ask too much, and even if they don't like to eat what they eat, it's their own fault. Later, I thought about it, but it was not my fault, but love. It's when you love the wrong person.
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I really like someone, I really want to be with him, and I try again and again to adapt to some of his words and behaviors that I can't accept, so I give in again and again, believe in his assurances again and again, and comfort myself again and again that he didn't mean to, after several disappointments and sadness, I finally can't hold on, and now I look back and think about it, I am really humble to the bones.
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When you find that you can't keep up with others no matter how hard you try, when you find that you have to think twice about everything you do, when you find that you are usually so proud that you look down on others, and when you have to ask others for help in the end, it's really, humble.
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I'm personal, Leo Woman, and I like an Aries man. I've known him for more than a year, almost two years, and I used to like him very much, and then when he had a partner, I had an awkward relationship with him. I didn't tell him explicitly, but he seemed to know what I thought of him, and we reconciled after he and his girlfriend broke up a few months ago.
But because I'm not in a school, I usually don't have much time to communicate or anything.,I recently talked to him and me during the holidays.,Anyway, he's all kinds of arcs on me.,I was also angry and deleted him twice.,In the end, I was reluctant to humbly take the initiative to add it back.。 Now he talks to me like a kind of oblivion, looking at me with the kind of annoyance that I don't understand what I've done. But I still like him, and there's nothing wrong with liking people.
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People can have an inferiority complex, but they don't necessarily have to live as a humble person.
When comparing yourself with others, especially when others are much superior to you, it is easy to feel inferior, but it does not mean that you are humble. Because we have feelings of inferiority, we can try to make ourselves better, work on our weaknesses and shortcomings, and let ourselves improve little by little, from weak to strong. But if you feel that you are a humble person, maybe you have to ask, do I myself look down on myself?
A humble person feels that he is very bad, bad, and dark in all aspects of life, and he wants to find a crack in the stone to hide. But it doesn't necessarily mean that you are really much worse than others in every way, but you will feel that your existence is ashamed, bad, and humble, which stems from what kind of person you are in your own heart? So a few questions you can ask yourself?
Do you feel important? Do you think you're worth it? What do you think is the meaning of life?
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01 Think of yourself as worthless and have no self-confidence in doing things.
I saw a netizen on the Internet who said:
I feel that I am so worthless, I want money but no money, I want to look good, I want to have no figure, I want ability but not ability, I feel like I can't do anything.
I have a bad personality and a short temper, and I fantasize every day, I feel like I'm really a failure, and I don't know what to do in the future.
In fact, this kind of person is a typical person who lives in humility, and feels that nothing is going well, so he will always give up on himself and feel that he is inferior to others.
In fact, only when a person finds his own value will he slowly find his own self-confidence and establish his own positive cycle in life.
And a person who does not recognize his own value will often feel depressed for no reason and feel that he has little meaning.
People who think they are worthless and lack self-confidence will stay in their own empty world, becoming more and more humble, thus falling into a vicious circle.
In fact, everyone will have their own value, don't look down on yourself too much, no matter what happens, you can't be willing to fall.
Everyone's value is different, so we should think about our own life value from a different perspective, strive to play to our strengths, try to avoid our own shortcomings, and walk out of our own way.
Don't live so humblely, at least you're alive. As long as people have life, they have value, people should value themselves, believe in themselves, and don't let others define your value.
The value of life is equal, no matter what the situation is, we must affirm our own value and be responsible for our own life.
02 I'm embarrassed to refuse others and don't dare to express my position.
Someone on Zhihu asked a question like this:
I was always embarrassed to reject others, afraid to express my position, and always afraid of offending others.
As soon as I encounter these situations, my mind goes blank, I act very nervous, and I often do a lot of things that I don't want to do, and I feel really bad, but I don't know how to change myself.
In fact, a person who pays too much attention to other people's opinions, is always embarrassed to reject others, and does not dare to express his own thoughts will only live more and more humble.
This kind of people who dare not say "no" to others can actually be encountered often in life, and they generally have a relatively low opinion of themselves.
It is difficult for people to reject others, whether they refuse or accept it, they will make themselves uncomfortable.
03 Refusal to step out of your comfort zone and fear of accepting new things.
A person who lives more and more humblely always likes to stay in his comfort zone and is afraid to accept new things.
A person who always stays in his comfort zone is not unwilling to change, but afraid of change because he does not know what kind of change it will bring him.
But if we live in our comfort zone all the time, we can't change our vision, and we can only choose within our own limited scope.
Refusing to step out of your comfort zone is actually a refusal to grow, and you are afraid to accept new things, which actually reflects your extreme lack of self-confidence.
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The state of humble people is that they think very low of themselves and think highly of others, and even when others say something that is not too serious, they feel that they are because they have done something wrong.
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Humble is to describe the lowly and small, the status is low. A person, in his life, will inevitably encounter some setbacks and blows, under these setbacks and blows, some people, will use their strong psychological quality to resist the past, so as to achieve their own career. And some people, under some setbacks and blows, bear such and such grievances, thus making themselves timid and becoming speechless.
Therefore, these people who seem to be a little too humble must bear it in their hearts.
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Humble people always feel that they are bad, bad in all aspects, and do not see any good in themselves.
But the humble sometimes become very conceited, and on other occasions they boast as if they have a lot of honors.
In fact, conceit and inferiority are linked together, and they can't control this degree, so sometimes you feel that they seem to be very conceited, in fact, conceit and inferiority are connected together, and they can't control this degree, so sometimes you feel that they seem to be very conceited, and sometimes they are very inferior.
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The humble have a sincere and kind heart, not seeking comfort, but full of sorrows. They are never arrogant, self-righteous, humble and open-minded, kind to others, and helpful.
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Humble people will not be looked down upon by others, such people have no confidence in themselves, and they will even speak submissively, and it is difficult to become friends with others.
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Humble people always please others, always care about other people's opinions, always suppress themselves, dare not resist, never live out of themselves, such people will be very painful.
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Humble people tend to have low self-esteem in real life and are not confident. They are all looking at other people's eyes in their work and life, and they have no ego.
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A lowly person who is submissive in everything and has no opinion of his own. Sacrificing one's own interests for the sake of others. There are no principles and no bottom line. I'm tired of living on my own.
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Humble people often show a depressed mood and depressed mood. Low self-esteem, depression, often walking with the head down, no friends around, very low sense of existence, generally accompanied by depression.
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Under normal circumstances, humble people are psychologically larger, when they were young, they have suffered a relatively large trauma or a bad family background, or other reasons, so that they lack self-confidence, and always feel lower than others, so after a long time, he will form a humble psychology, see no one can be straight, can not raise his head, always feel that he is not as good as others.
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Humble people are people who have low self-esteem, and they feel that their status is very low, so they can't hold their heads up in front of people.
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A humble person is someone you like very much, you are nice to that person, but that person ignores your goodness.
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I don't dare to express my thoughts, and I have no confidence or sense of existence when I speak.
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What is a humble person like? A humble person is himself, he has no self-confidence, and modesty is also one thing, and some people are humble, because he has no ability, so he is humble.
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Humble people always have low self-esteem, and they always help selflessly whenever their friends ask for anything, and they never think about whether they can do it! Always afraid of losing friends, lonely and alone!
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In fact, in the world of feelings, humble people can often give up their principles, or blindly tolerate each other without a bottom line, even if the other party has done something unforgivable, they can also forgive each other.
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In the world of feelings, humble people are often unprincipled, have no bottom line, indulge each other, and feel that as long as the other party can love themselves more, then everything can be tolerated.
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What does a humble person look like? The first person is not confident, and well, he can't raise his head in front of people. Such a person is a lowly person.
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Humble people feel inferior in everything they do, submissive, and pitiful.
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Humility does not mean that humility is not the same as humility. In some ancient cultures, lowly people were usually slaves, enslaved, miserable and pitiful people. In contrast, the Bible emphasizes that the humble are honored.
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The one who feels humble is the most humble person, it doesn't matter if he is looked down upon, he has nothing to say if he looks down on himself.
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Now the humble person, in fact, you can know what she thinks now, and everyone can actually see these things when they do these things.
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Those who have a long rod to enter the city gate are not allowed to enter at the beginning; If you are stubborn, you will not enter. Nothing came out. There is an old father in Russia, who said: "I am not a saint, but I have seen a lot of things!" Why not cut it in with a saw? So he intercepted it. The foolishness of the world is beyond its reach.
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I have seen a person who, at his humblest level, can reach into a trash can to pick up food, drink water from a water bottle thrown away by others, wear old clothes and shoes thrown away by others in the trash can, sleep in a bridge hole, in a park, on the side of the road, etc.
When he put his hand in the trash, maybe he thought that as long as he could live, there was hope, and he would save his life first. If you stay in the green mountains, you are not afraid of no firewood, and if you are alive, you will have the hope of making a comeback and starting again!
Ten years in Hedong and ten years in Hexi, when people have bad luck, they have back luck, and they have their teeth when they drink cold water! So he was unwilling, he had to fight against fate! But it is often the head that breaks the blood and the blood is lost!
In the end, he had nothing, his wife abandoned him, and he became a real loner! The arrogance in his bones makes him not admit defeat and not bow his head! He's going to play another game with fate!
When others laugh at him, his face is expressionless, and he knows that those who laugh at him will have a day like him, but sooner or later! When others bully him as a fool and a madman, he will also explode, because he is also a human being, and he also has seven emotions and six desires!
Humility does not ask for the mercy of others, does not ask for the sympathy of others, he has to rely on himself, even if it is to pick up a piece of steamed buns, he eats steadily, does not owe others favors, and there is a kind of arrogance in his bones at any time! Don't admit defeat! The incorruptible is not subject to the food that comes from the mouth, and he does not need mercy!
Once he has the opportunity, he will have great achievements, and he will return to Hedong from Hexi and make a comeback! Back to square one!
If a person lives for the sake of life, anything will happen, and arrogance will not live.
I didn't do anything all day, just hugged my phone and waited for her to contact me, and when we chatted, I felt very happy even if her reply was cold.
This kind of person has to wash his hair every day when he wakes up, because they feel that they have too much dust and bacteria on their heads after a day, and they don't want to touch their hair if they don't wash it.
Everyone will have a breakdown, so you should still know how to look away, at least not let yourself be too depressed, and how to comfort yourself when you collapse, don't think too much, don't worry too much.
At that moment, to be honest, I feel very sad, I feel that the big tree that used to shelter myself from the wind and rain is withered, and I have to straighten up and be the next big tree of this family, sheltering my relatives from the wind and rain. And now there are fewer crazy people going out with friends, maybe the heart will slowly collect some at this age, I think it's a good thing, what kind of age should be.
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