Does cowardice really have a bad reputation? A lot of people in the class laughed at me

Choosing an effective way to make friends is more useful than using force, first of all, you can let go of your courage to make friends with people, there is nothing embarrassing, people with a normal mentality like to make friends, but when you are in an environment that is not right, you can choose an appropriate compromise atmosphere, or try to change him yourself, people have many ways to live, cowardice is indeed very bad, if the real character can not be generous and cheerful, then at least be an optimistic and elegant person, first of all, their own atmosphere should be positive, and secondly, they will not be affected by the criticism of others. If you're doing it right, then don't doubt it.

Secondly, someone may bully the weak because of cowardice, but you have to look for the teacher's protection, according to your point of view, the age should not be very big, when you are bullied, you should tell your parents and teachers, if the other party wants to retaliate and repeatedly teach you, you can call the police, if you don't change, just bring a longer knife, someone will surround you and take it out, remember not to cut people, no one will fight because of that little bit of broken brotherhood like elementary school students. However, this is a hypothetical situation, and you should never do it unless you are forced to do so.

In short, be generous and make enough friends, make more friends, play more with your friends, make friends with your friends, so that the cycle will not only be cheerful, but you will be cheerful.

Yes, no matter what hardships you encounter, no one will take your tears seriously, only wipe them away and go on.

There are many ways to complain, and writing a letter to yourself is also one, and crying is not the only way. Moreover, not so many people are actually paying attention to themselves.

Oh, that's what I said, it's good to release it by chance.

People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden.

In life, people have different personalities, not everyone likes to be strong, they don't like to be cowardly, but everything is not absolute. Your situation is deep in your heart, the biggest manifestation is that you are not confident, in fact, you are not cowardly, you are always doing trouble in your heart, overcome your inner fear, you will be brave!

Human kindness is the foundation, is the source of communication between people, do not think this is a disadvantage, but an advantage. When thinking about problems, you need to use reverse thinking, you think you are being bullied, but from another point of view, the other party is strong, but the tree is big, he is easy to fail, but he can save his strength. Being alive is a kind of happiness, although there are some unsatisfactory, but there are still many beautiful yearnings in life that you need to pursue and realize.

Cheer up, dare to face life, you are the best!

To have self-confidence, let yourself become more and more accomplished, your inner self-confidence, you will be strong, and the temperament shown to others is also a strong temperament, inferiority will be a lewd temperament, which is equal to the weak, so they bully you, and the aura is too weak. Got it?

See each other in the same way, but you must have your own confidence in yourself, and you must have a confidence that you can despise everyone in the world.

You can't say that, they don't have the right or deserve to bully you.

I was also an honest person in junior high school, and I felt cowardly. Later, after experiencing some things, you will be lively, and if you have more friends, you will have self-confidence and will not be cowardly.

I am who I am, fireworks of different colors.

My fate is the same as yours.

31 And a king shall marry a princess, and put an apple on the princess's head, and whoever will shoot it will have the opportunity to marry her.

The first man shot the apple and he said, "i'm Robin." ”

The second man also shot the apple, and he said, "I."'m Houyi. ”

The third gentleman accidentally shot the princess to death, and he said, "i'm sorry..."

32 When a man was doing an internship in a mental hospital, a neuropathic man came after him with a kitchen knife, and he turned around and ran until he reached a dead end, thinking that this was the end, and the patient said, "Give you a knife, and it's time for you to chase me."

33 Flight attendants advise passengers to wear seat belts.

The last time the plane made a forced landing, the people who didn't wear seat belts fell and their flesh and blood were blurred. ”

Asked: "The one with the seatbelt??" ”

Answer: "It's okay, they all sit well, just like living people." ”

34 A new sculpture was built in a school--- a girl holding a book in her left hand and a white dove in her right hand. The school leaders make the names of the call open to the students in the school. For a while, there was an endless stream of replies, and one of them had the highest voice: Reading is a bird!

If you want to hear it, listen to the "female hooligan concentration camp" Teng Xun Wei Bo, and many more.

Yu Ji said: "I want to live, the king." The overlord said, "But there are 100,000 horses outside, and if they take you......."Yu Ji: "I can endure 100,000 people, I still want to live." The overlord cried: "100,000 horses, in addition to people, there are also horses ......."”

Not a word. I went to the hospital to see a doctor, waited for more than 3 hours, saw the patient for 3 minutes, and prescribed more than 300 medicines.

Hehehe, some of them will also send me one.

If you feel that you have to say it, you will be happy.

Just find a stranger.

What does it matter if we don't know each other and are weak.

If you just want to vent out.

Just play ball or run.

It's very practical, because yesterday I just went for an hour.

I feel sad and flustered, and everything is gone.

Hello, don't have any worries about doing anything, move forward boldly, there is nothing that can't be done, and your fate must be in your own hands.

It's nothing, everyone has a bad side, and if there is, change it.

If not, it will be encouraged.

Find a netizen you don't know and talk to on the Internet, so that you won't be afraid of anything.

Talk to me! Be all ears.

Just find a confidant or someone you don't know on the Internet to talk about.

It varies from person to person, personality still has to be changed, that's the problem of roommates, as long as you are not embarrassed, others will not think you are embarrassed, and you should bear with it.

When it's time to break out, don't put up with it all the time, if you keep putting up with it, he'll think you're a bully, and he'll get even worse.

Don't care too much about other people's opinions and opinions, just live your own life. Otherwise, you will be at a loss, because everyone's views and perspectives are different.

To be honest, it's hard to change your personality, unless one day you suffer a big blow or change, or you can always be like this, you can go to Syria for a year or two, you must be surprisingly bold.

I'm the same way, when I was in junior high school, I was beaten by a few classmates at school, and since then, whenever I encounter a similar situation, my heart will be pounding, and the first thing I think of is not arguing with others, but what to do if others beat me, as if I can't get out of the shadow of my childhood. And afterwards, I will think about how useless I am, and I won't be able to sleep for a few days. I don't dare to talk about this kind of thing to anyone around me, for fear of being laughed at by others, so I can only suffer myself.

I won't laugh at you, humility is a virtue, you should pay attention to what you say and do in the future, and don't leave them a chance to give you face, okay?

If you fight, the end will be even more unbearable, and maybe the patience will be over.

If someone else bullies you, you should defend yourself.

It should still be ruthless, but it's not good to be too ruthless.

Of course, you have to learn to be strong.

No, it's just going to bully you together.

Endure what you can, and endure what others can.

Go your own way and let others say go!

Don't care about other people's feelings, be yourself

Why watch how others live, everyone is an individual, and everyone has their own way of living.

Why do you need to care about others, be yourself.

It is right to be kind, and it is also right to be kind to others. That's your righteousness, not rushing out and fighting with others.

Sincere dedication is something you can do, and a good reward is not up to you. Of course, you can also not give, I think that it is better to pay than not to pay, although it does not necessarily bring good results, but I do what I want, I will feel at ease. It still makes sense to insist on kindness, or you will insist on not being good.

You have your own strengths, you admit your cowardice, and many people can't do it. Everyone has a cowardly side, and since you can be brave enough to admit it, then you can also accept it completely. When you fully recognize its existence, when you no longer strongly reject it, you will find yourself changing.

It's still yourself who really helps, good luck.

I think you do need help, in fact, you don't have a problem, but your friend has a problem, I agree with what you said, as the old saying goes: "Things gather by like, people by groups." "If you say you're wrong, you're wrong about making friends, and you're wrong about choosing all the wrong friends.

In a circle of friends who don't learn and don't know how to do it, you are out of place and not suitable for there, metaphorically you are a sheep and they are wolves, and everything the sheep do is wrong in the eyes of the wolf. And the sheep is the most vulnerable in the wolf pack, so the value of his existence is to be bullied. A sheep is in a wolf pack, how can the values of the sheep be accepted by the wolves!

So the sheep always can't find themselves, and gradually lose themselves! Leaving them is right to find a suitable group, which may be uncomfortable at first, but the general direction is right, then it is a matter of time. Your last words are your awakening!

It's that people have such experiences, have courage, have confidence in yourself, show them Zhengming, look at problems from a different angle, everything is multifaceted, try to see the positive side, don't be discouraged. Hope to adopt.

What are you afraid of, it's not a difficult thing It's not a difficult thing to have a shadow because you didn't get out of that fall I'm afraid that it will be like last time It's actually nothing As long as you have the courage to work hard to overcome the shadow, you will definitely be able Don't worry, this kind of thing has to be done slowly I believe you are fine.

Say to others: "Laugh at your mother's chicken, Lao Tzu will ride, and take care of your mother's chicken".

It's good to learn and show them that you can do it.

This question is not difficult to answer, but it is difficult to do, it requires you to find yourself from the heart, and people are most afraid of losing themselves. It doesn't really matter what other people think or think, what matters is how you feel, and you have to learn to be selfish. The "selfishness" here is not really "selfishness".

It means to love yourself a little more, so that you will slowly become happy, and only when you are happy can you bring happiness to the people around you. That's why there is a saying: love your neighbor before you love yourself.

Slowly grasp the meaning of this, and I think you will slowly and successfully free yourself.

The landlord may be able to interact with people.

If the force is too poor, the situation is a bit serious, and it will inevitably bring disadvantages to your future work and life. The landlord said that he was isolated by the people in the dormitory, and it may be his own reason, generally speaking, it is just not good at words, and this will not happen. It is recommended that the landlord reflect more and reflect on what is wrong with his body!

I also want to be confident, but it's only temporary, and most of the time I still feel helpless. It's not that once you are confident, you can be confident again and again.

In fact, there are many introverts, you don't have to be too deliberate to force yourself, don't be too perfect, be honest with others, and you will get better slowly. Be confident, OK

This is also the case for me, a person who is really lonely and uncomfortable, huddled alone in that little corner, and my heart is full of panic.