I have a netizen who told me about his troubles and asked everyone to help and guide him.

It's a good thing he has friends like you, hehe. I think through your narrative, he is indeed a very good boy, but the reason why he is in this situation is what you said at the beginning, he is more introverted, he has a lot of ideas, and he is very right, and he hopes to have a lot of friends to talk to, including friends of the opposite sex, but he only told you through the Internet, and did not tell the people who really live around him, you don't say how others know your thoughts. There are indeed a lot of girls in normal schools, and there are not many of them, what kind of boys do you want girls to be with, you like to draw, design and make, sing English songs, etc., very good, so do the girls around you know that you will do this?

Have you ever sung a song for the girl you like? So, my advice is to open your heart, not only online, but also in the real world, to share your feelings with the people around you, trusting that you will meet the people you are waiting for...

There are many boys of this type, many of them are due to the influence of the family, or the environment in which he grew up, and he is very enthusiastic in his heart, which is a good thing! Usually help others more! You have paid more, you have been affirmed by others, others will be happy to make friends with you, your enthusiasm can not only be put in your heart, to show it, let him participate in some lively, more people activities, let him feel the happiness of getting along with others, over time, he will be influenced by everyone and like to join everyone, to discuss problems, to have fun.

Then you will be able to let go and make friends with others.

Communicate more with the people around you, care more about other people's lives, you will find that you are surrounded by happiness, all friends, you care about others more, when you are in difficulty, there will naturally be many people who come out to help you, there are friends who go all over the world, nothing can be resisted by yourself, you can enlighten him from this aspect.

Why bother about such a little thing, as long as you don't be so shy when dating, find more things to do that can make you embarrassed, so that your face will be thickened, and you can naturally talk to others. It's a psychological thing, and I think it's best to relax and not change it deliberately.

I want to talk to that friend of yours, my, I'm a sophomore, I'm a girl, I have a bunch of brothers around me, trust me to help him!

Ah, how is it the same problem.

Passing by, I am bored and want to chat with the person who adds.

He has a very narrow range of communication, and the reason is clear at the beginning, because he always feels that all the friends around him are superficial, and they are not sincere enough, so it has created that kind of shadow in his heart, in fact, everyone has advantages, and he and these friends around him have never known each other, and how do you know that none of them are sincere? Because he himself always keeps his distance from others, how can he not get to know each other a chance? Withdrawn people are more assertive and lonely and like to be stuffy in their hearts when they encounter anything, and properly say what is on their minds So that they can be like living with everyone In this case, they can know which is a really good friend to him To give others a chance is equivalent to giving himself a chance First of all, tell him not to deny others all so many classmates or friends It is impossible not to be sincere Let yourself open up first He is actually a very good boy He will be very promising in the future

Everything is difficult at the beginning, and it is natural to take the first step.

You're so nice, friend, you're so cute so you can help him.

Isn't it true that he has such a friend? It's lucky to have a friend like you!

Let him see a psychiatrist.

Typical depression.

It's not that others are far away from him, it's that he doesn't feel the love of others.

Suggest that he practice speaking against the wall.

Actually, this kind of character is quite good, why change it? Introverted and shy boys are more popular with girls!

It would be nice to have more contact with society.

I have the same personality as him, introverted and less talkative, and he is still very kind, but he is better than me, more handsome than me, at least he is still in school, and he can be with many people, but I am different, I don't have a job now, my girlfriend is something I dare not think about, I am really depressed at home alone, some of my friends are working, I am in college and I am in my sophomore year, and I am living such a low life when I was young. My body is not as good as before, and I am still a disability, my God, what should I do?

Actually, it's good now, I'm just like him, but I'm missing out on a lot of things, and I'm going to tell him to do whatever he wants, and don't be depressed.

It's actually very simple to want to pick up a girl, you have to be thick-skinned, you may belong to the kind that will blush when you see a girl, in fact, you fall in love with that girl, write a love letter to him, maybe it will be seen by others, in fact, it's nothing to say it, pickle girls just rely on what others say, it doesn't matter if you're out of love, you're looking for a new one, more than a few times of falling out of love, you'll find that there will be more friends, some can't be lovers, they may become best friends.

Can't he talk to you too???

Have you seen him or her Are you geographically close Is it possible to become a husband and wife Think about it carefully If it is not possible, let it go The feeling will fade You will slowly let him go.

For the sake of your mental and physical health, it is recommended that you do not fall into online dating.

Continue to like it, bury it in your heart, and when you see it, you will eat a pound.

How many people know that online dating is not real.

Even if you know on the Internet that he or she is a handsome guy or a beautiful woman, you are more excited for a while and think you like it very much.

But is it realistic? People are good-looking, or can speak, behave very elegantly, and be very talented, who knows what kind of medicine he sells in his gourd, why is it so good, the real world does not look for a partner, and he has to go all the way to the Internet.

Besides, the cost of online dating, the risk is very high, I don't know the bottom line, and in the end, the loss is very large.

Make yourself lose your soul for a day for a virtual person. Alas, having said so much, I hope you understand.

Keep liking it, you can still stop disliking teeth all of a sudden.

Online dating is unrealistic, after all, the Internet is virtual, persuade lz not to fall into it, this is not good, it will hurt, oh, if your netizen meets you in reality and gets along for a while, then you can develop a relationship that may be successful. good luck

It doesn't matter if you go to him or he comes to you. As long as you feel that you can be together, then it's worth the effort.

No job is stable, the so-called stability is only relative, your girlfriend is actually not bad, look at you for four years together to know that your relationship is deep, and you love each other, otherwise you won't be together for so long. Your girlfriend is actually not lazy and self-motivated, at least she wants to start a small business after quitting her job, instead of relying on you to support her. What is there to do if everyone struggles together, how much money can be earned from a stable job, and it is not necessary to earn more than 10,000 yuan a month by doing a small business.

Don't take a stable job as the standard, as long as two people work together to make money to improve their lives in the future. As for your family, you can communicate with them and talk about it well, after all, it is your girlfriend who will accompany you in the future, not your family, can your family accompany you to old age? Follow your feelings, believe in your choices, don't be influenced by the external environment, and think you are good.

It's cruel to abandon her after 4 years, she is equivalent to giving you all her youth.

You should have a good talk with your family, after all, marriage is a big event in your life, and if you miss it, you won't pull it.

Please, you can find a job slowly, people are gone, but you can't find it if you want to, cherish it.

Why don't you tell your girlfriend what you think? You improve together, or you help her improve, maybe it's better than you alone in this trouble, if she doesn't want to give up like this, she will definitely find a suitable job, two people have to work together to be happy, come on, I wish you happiness, don't give up easily.

Fool, it's easy to find a job, is it so easy to find a caring girlfriend?

If you think your feelings are real, you care! Then go with her and get married when your family is satisfied! If you care about income, a job, and the same thoughts as your family, then you might as well find another one!

Don't delay other girls, because your relationship is not real!

You can always find a job, and you have to find a girlfriend for another 4 years... Hehe.

...You haven't worked yet, you haven't met a better one, maybe now you will regret it later with her, it's hard to say.

Marry her, don't give up!

1.Explain your situation directly to everyone.

2.You're a bystander, look at it coldly.

3.Doesn't matter.

4.You also talk about it, you have to have a strong sense of justice.

5.I have to see if I have lost my own things.

I sincerely forgive you to solve)

You're out of the group......People are social animals, and when everyone is doing something, you can make some time to spend with them. Watching a movie together or something, and a few people talking about another person who is not there, it is necessary for you to say a word or two, and of course, don't have too withdrawn hobbies. Otherwise, after a long time, others will naturally have the feeling you said.

Go straight, find a group to talk to yourself, and add it. That's it.

Do a good job in interpersonal relationships, clean those who are pure, and be calmer.

First of all, you have to feel yourself. If you don't like it, force yourself to be together without happiness. You still have to do it as you wish!

You're right. Finding a wife does not need to be based on whether she looks good or not. What matters is that person's heart, whether she really likes you and wants to live with you for the rest of her life.

There must also be filial piety, responsibility, and love. Good people are the key. Try to find out if there is a suitable one.

Your family will also help you introduce you because you are in a hurry. If you don't like what they're introducing, tell them you know you need to hurry. If you come across a good one, you will pursue it.

23 years old! Actually, it's still young! There's no need to get married so early!

What's more, the landlord can still find it by himself!

Let's be realistic! There are 3 sisters on the other side, is there more people! If this is something to worry about after talking about the object, it doesn't mean that she is alone!

Although it is said that it is a door-to-door door, right? But overall, it depends on the feeling! Besides, the landlord himself has his own plans!

Then slowly look for shellfish towards your own plans!

It's one thing to be anxious at home! It's your love and happiness that matters!

There is a saying, In this life, either you don't get married, if you want to get married, you can get married! And so as not to regret it!

Although life and feelings are lived!

But who can guarantee smooth sailing for the quality of love!

At least I found someone who had feelings, and I could still tolerate it to some extent, and there wouldn't be too many contradictions!

The landlord has his own circle, so he should think more about himself! Find your own soulmate!

Life is short, love is a very important part!

So we all have to get it right!

What kind of kiss is this? It's all nonsense, and it's not helpful.

The prerequisite for marriage is that two people are not far apart, at least in a city.

Make this clear to your family and ask them to help find someone in the same city.

There's nothing wrong with pursuing reality, but take into account your own practical conditions.

Local girls are naturally more convenient than those in other places. However, it is important to know that the region is only a factor that is very backward in choosing a mate, and I think you should give priority: whether your personality is compatible or not, whether you are good or not, economic ability conditions, etc.

It doesn't matter if you're ugly and pretty, but at least you have to have a feeling, at least you don't hate him, otherwise your life will be very unsatisfactory in the future.

In fact, this casual fate in other places can be forced without medicine

In fact, love itself needs to be determined and considered by yourself, not by others, this kind of thing, it depends on what you think in your heart, love has no regional differences! It still depends on what you think, to see if you really love this girl, if you do, you don't have so many worries!

If you don't agree, no one can take you, you can't force it.

Between two generations, in the war on marriage, the winner is always the child.

The key is to capture people's hearts.

There is nothing in the world, and mediocre people disturb themselves.

It's best to have love If you don't have someone you like, it's better to find a local one, after all, you don't have to worry about other things, and it's good to slowly cultivate your feelings!

Do you understand why he didn't mention marriage? Is it an evasion of responsibility? Did you do anything wrong yourself? It's normal to quarrel, it's like biting your lips with your teeth, it's not easy to live, why not care a little more and give a little love?!

Have you quarreled before? If you start arguing recently, it means that people don't want to be with you anymore, and you are no longer in his heart.