He and his girlfriend are first love, I don t want to be a third party anymore, but I really love hi

Academics are important, put your studies first, put your feelings aside first, don't mention the breakup first, it's a bit of an escape

During the period of preparation for the college entrance examination, you should study carefully and at the same time give him a certain amount of space to examine your relationship

He can't always be like this, he always has to make a decision So, give him time During this time, focus on the college entrance examination This is a turning point in your life, and you must pay attention to it Remember: in studying, you can get as much as you give Emotionally, you may not have results if you pay a lot So, be rational about your emotions

Even if you ask to break up, you may not be able to get out of this relationship immediately, and you will have to bear a lot of sadness and sadness So, let this relationship go first, that is, do not refuse or fight

Time will give you the answer He will definitely give you an attitude After the college entrance examination, talk to him well

I think that we are all too young, so it is easy to think that we will love the one we love now until we die, and when we grow up a little more, we will find that it is not love, but a temporary infatuation, although we have been happy, but we can't have it, any emotion without a material foundation is a dangerous building in the air, and sooner or later it will collapse. Therefore, it is most important to study hard and find a good job in the future.

Don't be sad, you have to be grateful, don't hate him, because it's not his wishful thinking, you also have the responsibility to hide the beauty of the past in your heart, and then face the future happily, be content.

It's not unreasonable for people to get along for so long, and it's very immoral for you to take a kick in the middle.

Just imagine, what would you think if your husband was with another woman? Will it be painful?

What if that woman really loves your husband like you?

Don't destroy other people's families.

Too young to decide anything.

He doesn't love you, and he doesn't love her. It's a lot like me back then.

Don't think about it, as long as you want to forget it, you can forget it soon. Believe me.

Love yourself.

Your story reminds me of when I was young and frivolous.

-It's time for the college entrance examination, study hard, and make progress every day!! It's yours, you can't run away, you can't do it if you want to... So...

Don't you think such a man is very irresponsible? That's right in front of you, but do you know what he's like in front of his girlfriend? Do you think you know him well enough?

Why can't you let it go, just because of those things that were once good? Do you think you know how to love, you don't even know what is most important to you at the moment? What does the gaokao mean to you?

You don't understand at all, at such a stage, if a relationship can increase your motivation, you can maintain it, but if not, then resolutely give up, of course, the love you pay is expected to be rewarded, and when the college entrance examination is over, it will be another day, and when you enter the university, you will find how narrow you are now, and you will regret it. Come on, for yourself, study hard, not for others!

After reading it, you've been tricked! If you are sure that A loves you, then why is he still entangled with another woman, maybe you really love him, but you are just one of his lovers. You are not his only one, but he is your only one, can you give him a local lover for the rest of your life?

Obviously it can't be!

Either you leave him, or he chooses only you. Let him give you the answer! Good luck!

Your question is really something I haven't heard of, and I don't know what to say, to be honest, I'm single, and I haven't thought about a question like yours!

If you like it, love is selfish, why endure?

aThere can be you, and there can be something else. Don't you think.

Since he has a girlfriend and you don't want to be a third party, then try to date Gu Jun.

Don't rush to make a decision, time will tell.

Instead of struggling to love the person you like, you should accept the person who likes you.

Ask yourself which one you think is good, and analyze it rationally.

Don't be a third party, and don't choose to be with people you don't like.

Fall in love with someone you shouldn't love Marrying someone who doesn't come home and what do you belong to.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with choosing someone who likes you.

If you don't get a marriage license, you will take the initiative to attack and take down your sweetheart.

Blind and blind! Don't want both, find one you like.

If you want me, I'll choose the one who likes me.

No one is going to encourage you to get involved, because if everybody thinks that, the world is going to be messed up, and everyone is morally going to condemn you, but, okay? Ask your heart by admitting it, does he have the courage to give you happiness?

If you love him or he loves you, then preferably after his divorce

Affection between friends is allowed, but affection between men and women is not allowed.

It's not good, be yourself, cherish what you have now, it's not yours, you can't grab it no matter how much you rob it, don't fall deeper and deeper.

Since he is married, don't bother, no matter how good it used to be, it will pass.

Knowing that there is a pit ahead, I insist on moving forward

This advises you not to have a problem because a local third party will really have a problem.

Don't destroy his family, it's unfair to his wife, and it's demeaning to you.

The two of us are in a similar situation. It's just that I don't have a boyfriend. Hehe.

If you don't see anyone for a day, you're going crazy. That's really a very warm kind of reliance. I didn't think about what I was going to do in the future.

Just know. Love is a day. Even if it ends up tragically in the future.

also content. Have you ever loved it? What else is there to ask for in this life?

Don't go to deal with him. Go with the flow. Hehe.

You can't end the good thing early, right??

Oh look at if you really love your boyfriend if you don't have to be like this clam tease don't cheat on a person who loves you okay ?

Either break up and don't cheat on him It's cruel

And think about what it would be like if Yu's boyfriend was with another woman

The third party, towards the abyss of pain, but most of the third party has no good end, I hope you will correct your mentality as soon as possible and find someone who loves you.

If someone gets married, you can stand on one side!

He said that he didn't want to be a third party, and he said he was sorry, but he was still building his own happiness on the happiness of others! Not all the third parties in this world are willing to be them, and no one wants to be this role. At least others are still scolding themselves for being ashamed in their hearts, but you are here to say sorry for the object, to excuse yourself, to be honest, a little despised for you too

I'm going crazy now, and I hope you can help me.

I am a girl in a massage parlor, when he met me, it was his most painful time, when he and his wife's relationship had been shattered, he had a daughter, more than a year old, when we were just together, it was very sweet, he didn't dislike me, and also helped me see a doctor, which made me really moved, his wife also knew that I was with him, and sent messages every day that he wanted to divorce, but the fact was that his wife didn't want to leave, he wanted to divorce at the time, and I also wanted to live a good life with him, maybe it was a long time together, and his divorced heart began to waver, He thought that his daughter was still so young, and he was afraid that the children would not be happy after the divorce! So I haven't left, just like I spent a year with him in a foreign place, and now things have gotten worse, he now feels that his wife is pitiful, I don't know why I am obedient to him, and I am willing to do everything for him, but the result is this, his wife once sent him a message saying that he was going to steal people, but he can still forgive his wife, just beat his wife, he never beats a woman, the first time, but after the beating, he feels that his wife is pitiful, in fact, the most pitiful person is me! Not only was I pointed at my nose by others and said that it was his lover, but I also had to share the person I liked with others, and the two of them were together in the open, but now they can only be secretly together, I used to go, but I couldn't help but run back, I don't know what to do!

He said he wouldn't leave me, but he couldn't promise me. What should I do?

Love is conditional!

Let's go to work, when your boyfriend comes back, you can talk about it, talk about your heart, and go to work now. Time will dilute everything, it's just more painful. Find something you love to do. Come on, I wish you the happiness of finding you!

Then you think like this, what you like doesn't necessarily have to belong to you, and it's useless to like it, so it's a mistake to take it away.

It is recommended that you do not destroy other people's feelings, so that you will not have happiness, give up liking for him, and reacquaint yourself with someone worthy of your love.

You like a guy who has a girlfriend, and you don't know him well, which proves that you only like his surface, not his heart.

If you don't want to be a third party, just tell him directly, you like him, you have to express your thoughts, you don't have to destroy other people's feelings, you just let go after telling him.

It's better to give up, don't let yourself become a third party, that's an immoral thing.

Since you know that he has a girlfriend and you know that it is wrong to be a third party, then you should give up on him and let go as soon as possible while the two of you have no feelings for each other.

Then you just have to wait, if the guy breaks up with his girlfriend, then you can go.

But you decided to go to the third party. In this way, even if they are together, the boy's heart will become bad, or you can wait or analyze the odds that they will break up.

Since the boy already has a girlfriend, he shouldn't be a third party who intervenes, which is not good for the boy and his reputation, if he really likes it, just bless him silently.

Why is it not a third party, he already has a girlfriend, you still like him, don't you enrich the third party, you know that you are wrong, but you always defend yourself.

It's true that you love her now, people will change, and after a long time, even you don't know how you have changed. Your girlfriend doesn't believe that you will love her for the rest of her life, but it is enough for you to love her with all your heart and soul now, and no man can guarantee that he will love her for the rest of his life. Your girlfriend may not love you very much, so she said that, and if she wants you to leave her, if she really loves you, she won't care so much.

No matter what you say, this is not worth believing, except for practical actions, even if you say that the tongue is useless, it is better to put it into action than how to say how she believes, the language is very thin, only sweet words like most of them can't go far, after all, there are so many love words, there are so many promises, and you will always get tired.

Because you are just talking, true love is to be proved by actions, not just by nice words and promises, you may not have done anything wrong, but an exaggerated promise really can't give girls a sense of security.

Because he thinks you can't be trusted.

Don't say anything, just give her a sincere heart.

Cherish the present, don't care about the past, what he wants to tell you, you don't ask him and he will tell you to chase the answer and cherish the present.

As long as it calms you down, I'm willing to help you.

Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach. For those who do not love themselves, what is most needed is understanding, renunciation and blessing, and too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms from the other party. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy, don't let these become painful.

Love is the only one, since she loves her ex-boyfriend, how can she really love you?

Love depends on feelings, not by analyzing which is good and which is bad to love, and the more rational the girl, the less likely it is to stay together.

There's nothing you really can't put down. You take a cup and pour boiling water into it, and you feel so hot that when you can't hold the cup anymore, you put it down. Everyone has a first love, but everyone knows that this is the first time, but the possibility of being the last time is very small.

Maybe going through this pain will make you grow and make you understand what true love is. Isn't that a good thing!!

Didn't you say that it is really difficult to give her enough time to choose the person she loves or the person who loves herself, and I am in this situation now, so I understand the helplessness and pain in her heart! However, to be honest, she may not choose either in the end, and would rather be single than be in an awkward atmosphere between the two! If you love her, start with the details and try to move her!

What is there to be nostalgic for a half-hearted person? See one love one!

Now that you know this is your first love, you understand what it means.