For the sake of brothers, is it worth it to miss your love again and again?

In the world of feelings, there is no absolute right or wrong, if you are the person you really like, why not work hard to pursue it, and at the same time, if you can, compete fairly with your brothers, who can win the heart, who will get true love.

No, if you really love her, just confess it, don't care about other people.

If that girl chooses your brother, then you can give up.

If you choose, you take it.

To your brother, so can be said.

That's her choice, and I don't have the right to interfere.

Feelings are not something that can be made! The second girl you mentioned didn't end up being happy....Why didn't you tell your brother that you liked that girl? There may be 3 people who confess their happiness in the end, and 3 people who do not confess and are miserable.

It's great. Fair play, if it's a brother, he'll understand you, if not, is this a brother?

You treat others as brothers, and others also treat you as brothers, and this is a brother

Oh my God, great.

If you want to continue to be a great man, let him do it.

I recommend fair play.

I gave up the boy I liked for the sake of a good friend of my cousin.

Actually, that's stupid.

Because you don't have confidence in yourself.

I don't think I can give her happiness like this.

Why be cruel to yourself like this?

A lover will live with you for the rest of your life.

Brother will not. If you talk too much, you may be banned.

- Fair play, don't give up!

Why are you all such brothers?

Speechless, no opinion.

Do you still love him as you did before? And does he have feelings for you? If both are yes, I think we should wait.

People will not meet many people in their lives who can make them tempted, miss the opportunity, give up waiting, and regret it later. Maybe this time there may not be an ideal ending, but at least you will have no regrets when you look back on this relationship in the future. Otherwise, there is no need to wait.

Missing out is a thing of the past, it is a lesson, you should learn this lesson, and after finding the person you love, you should strive for your own happiness. Don't wait any longer.

If you think that he is doing well now, happier than being with you, then I suggest you give up; If you feel that you have what it takes to make his life better than it is now, then I suggest you wait, not just wait, but strive for your own happiness!

Don't give up an entire forest for a piece of grass, but if that person is worth your wait, and if it's interesting to you, that's a different story.

You can wait, but you don't have to wait where you are.

Don't lose a piece of the sea for a small river.

Think about it, is that person worth it、??

It's not worth it, because your approach is just too wrong. Or you think you're doing the right thing, but have you ever thought about how the other person feels? In fact, there are many things that can be solved by more communication between the two parties, and there is no need to complicate things too much.

Can you be sure that the other person will be very happy after you sacrifice yourself? If you can't, give up and seek other solutions. Hope it helps...

It's worth it, if you love someone, what's not worth it? Besides, how do you know you're going to lose him in the end? When he thinks about it, it may be clear, and then firm, it's not impossible, and the probability is not small.

It is worth it, and if you really love him, you should be happy with his happiness.

In fact, you have misunderstood the meaning of the word "love", if you don't love yourself while loving the other side, you will not become you, but the shadow of the other party. I don't know what you need to lose him and sacrifice yourself so badly in order to make him aware of the problem, so it's worth it and can't draw conclusions, it's better to talk about what the problem is for.

It's not worth it, just say it.

You also have to figure out whether your love can be eaten, and if you can, then you can throw away your career.

Have you ever heard of Saion's loss of horse, do you know if it is a blessing? Whether it's worth it or not is not for others to say, the main thing is whether you feel happy or not.

You don't have to look at what you create is worth it.

You have to find out first whether your love is solid.

What love and what career?

The specific situation is still written out by you!

Losing your original character? How do you know it's not part of your personality? It's not a chemical reaction, it's a physical manifestation at best.

You try to fix what you think is not perfect for the sake of someone you like, but the essence of human beings will not change. Whether a person will get better or worse depends on whether he wants to change, work hard, or forge ahead. The person I like is just a catalyst.

What's more, the so-called good and bad are just people's subjective judgments. The Xi Shi in the eyes of a lover may be a pile of cow dung in the eyes of others. Even if there is confusion, it is temporary.

No one can fool their own hearts.

Because love loses its individuality, then love will also be lost. What other netizens said was okay, but it was actually a misunderstanding. Those changes are all behavioral, their own personalities.

Love is like a catalyst that brings out the hidden attributes of a person. More often than not, love is an excuse, an encouragement, an awakening that allows a person to discover his true self.

OK... For example, I didn't study very seriously and didn't pay much attention in class, and my average score was always around 60. Ever since I fell in love with a girl, she did well in her studies, and one semester she had to be assigned to a class after the final exam, so that I could watch her every day and follow her movements.

Decided to study seriously! Then I was lucky enough to be in the same class with her. I'm going to go to high school, and I'm going to have to work hard to go to the same high school with her.

Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true... Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had...

What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ... At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly...

Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers... When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world...

So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy. If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love.

If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world. The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together.

Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy. It's right to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person

After getting married, some people can't help but think of their partner as the most important person in their lives, especially women, who have to be "as good as a person". But psychologists point out that this attitude of "losing oneself" in a relationship is not beneficial to marriage, and partners who are too close will be unhappy. The latest issue of the journal Personality and Social Psychology reports that psychologists have found that there is a kind of "emotionally conditioned self-esteem" (RCSE) in lovers to varying degrees.

It refers to the fact that a person evaluates himself according to his or her position in a romantic relationship and loses self-awareness and objective judgment. Some extremes will even think that if a partner can't prove their worth, they're worthless. Chip Nee, an assistant professor at the University of Houston and director of the Interpersonal Relationships and Motivation Research Group, and his colleagues conducted a series of studies on this psychology.

The results showed that those with high RCSE scores, although very dedicated to feelings, rated themselves very lowly. In the process of relationship development, people with high RCSE are also prone to manic and paranoid behavior. If they encounter setbacks such as breakups and divorces, they can become anxious, depressed, and even hostile.

Instead of calming down and analyzing the situation and thinking about the best course of action, they react impulsively right away. Dr. William Hankin, a well-known sexual psychologist at the Kinsey Institute of Sexuality in the United States, also pointed out that the opposite of RCSE is to maintain oneself in the relationship between husband and wife, which is one of the secrets of a happy marriage. After getting married, many people not only give up their ego, but also ask each other to give up their ego, and ask two people to integrate into a "third body" established for marriage.

It's like some women buy clothes every time, the first thing they consider is whether their husbands will like it; Or when going out for a round meal, men will put their wives' tastes first and give up their favorite hamburgers; What's more, some wives say 'my husband said' and can't make up their minds about anything. Dr. Hankin cautions that this practice of sacrificing oneself for love is not advisable. First of all, it goes against the original intention of love.

As the saying goes, what you can't get is always so affectionate, and sometimes you don't know how to cherish it.

It's with you, if you want to continue the other party, and you have this meaning, then cherish it.

If you don't think she's in the same mood as before, then communicate well.

Just say you can't forget her.

It's a sure thing to fade, so let's re-cultivate it slowly.

She can't forget about you, so I hope you can spend time with her.

If you want to marry her and go home, you have to seize the opportunity.

She's given you another chance to cherish it.