I ve been with her for more than 5 years, should I still hold on 10

Updated on society 2024-04-17
79 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you love her, you respect her choice. I guess you want her to be happy too, don't you? Then bless her!

    Maybe she wasn't sure about your feelings so she didn't agree to you, or maybe she really had someone in mind. But if she's just wandering in her mind, and you've been wanting an answer, then tell her"You love so give up on her and hope that she will live happily and meet again as friends in the future".In this way, you can also give yourself a step down, and you will not embarrass the other party.

    If her heart is just wandering, maybe she will be moved to cry or be sure of the feelings in her heart. There is still no difficulty in being friends in the future, and this is also the best solution for you and him! (I wish you all happiness).

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you can't let it go, you can let it go This girl doesn't like it, you just don't feel for you, and it's useless for you to do too much Don't waste your time, learn to give up, some things are not destined to be yours.

    Put your mind on work, you need a lot of experience to start a company, so put your mind on entrepreneurship

    Your fate hasn't arrived yet, everyone will experience love many times in their lives, let go and start anew

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is a feeling that if you don't get it, it's the best.

    If you can be together, you will be together for a long time, I think you may not really be the type she wants, and you have been insisting, this will only miss your own future, you can treat her as a friend of course, not a lover, it will be much easier, try to have another girlfriend. You'll find out more.

    Love is a matter of two people, not one person. Is it pleasant for two people?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You've worked hard, and you can see how much you love her, but I think you should give up. How many five years are there in life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    She doesn't love you. If you like the feeling of pain, you've endured it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This is a question that should be asked of oneself.

    See if you really love her.

    If you decide it, you will love her.

    Then boldly chase.

    Even if you can't catch up, there's nothing to regret.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    ...This one. This one. You can only do it yourself, haha.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Crush, I believe most of them have been, mine is 8 years, I feel that the most beautiful thing in the world is to see him laugh, I don't see him for a few days, I don't feel my heart beating faster when I see him, I don't dare to look at him directly, and I'm embarrassed to talk to him. secretly wrote poems and said some words of secret love, and his early spring was exposed. As time and place changed, I learned to let go of something, and that wonderful feeling would disappear.

    I thought that if he were mine, he would definitely come into my life, and if it wasn't mine, I would just put him in my heart, and I would never touch the beautiful memories that were well preserved. Pain is sometimes a kind of happiness, depending on how you understand it. Without missing life, it will be tasteless!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you have come here, you should tell your fellow countryman all the pain in your heart, tell him how you feel, this is also a kind of responsibility for yourself and this relationship, if the answer is no, then you can also let go of this relationship. Don't contact for a long time afterward. Until you have all found your heart.

    You should make such a last-ditch effort.

    In fact, there are many things in life that will bring life back to the original point, and you don't need to complain, many times, our hard-working life may disappear overnight, maybe overnight, you will have nothing. That's fate. What we do is that no matter where we are or what kind of predicament we are, we should not give up hope and love of life fanatically.

    You can be sad, you can cry, but don't let this emotion creep in indefinitely.

    Wonderful is your own business, and there is no shortage of chasers around a wonderful person.

    I'll send you two sentences.

    What you can't get is not necessarily not excellent, because time has accumulated too much unwillingness for us, and because emotions have accumulated too much beauty for us.

    Love does not necessarily have to have results, love that ends without fruit must also learn to appreciate, the beauty of secret love, and the regret of fruitlessness will become the best memories.

    Either way, there has to be a fresh beginning.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's long overdue, at least you should know what the other party thinks of you, and the result will be clear.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Go? How 5 years have passed. You know better than anyone else. If you leave, you will go after you. Don't chase after you, the person is gone.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Learn to let go, people can't always live in memories.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you can't let it go, you have to let it go, and you have to endure the pain.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    She doesn't love you, and there's no point in forcing you to stay, and you'll forget about it after a long time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When you meet someone who appreciates you and you appreciate her very much, you will be relieved, and you will feel that so many years are not worth it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you love her and feel that she is your life's pursuit, then it is also a decision to work hard for her for 5 years and improve your level.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Maybe she feels that each other is still young, and she doesn't know you well enough, and she doesn't know how to maintain the relationship between each other, and she still knows too little, so she postponed it

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you know her, you really love you, and you love her, then you have made the right choice. If you don't know much, then your choice is to take double risk (maybe she changed her mind during this period, ......).So you have to think clearly.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's hard to determine your choice, I have a friend, similar to you, two years later, the girl said that she had another love, and you can't predict the change in feelings after 5 years, I think it's better to be cautious about such things.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Incorrect, life is to experience again, there is no need to be nostalgic, no one can be sure what will happen in the future, this is very unrealistic, you are not responsible for yourself and her.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Five years has changed too much, and if we didn't have the heart to stay together, I don't think there was any need to wait so long!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You love her, she loves you, it's enough, to love someone is to give your sincerity, love is waiting for her, don't hesitate, let go if you don't love.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    How old is she, what is she going to do.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Not necessarily, it depends on whether the relationship between you is deep

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    As long as you love, as long as both sides wait.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It can't be said that it is correct or not, and it is not wise anyway.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Is she going to be with you?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The point is that you are a man or a woman, if you are a girl, you don't have to insist on it, there are few girls for 5 years, find a good one, if it's a boy, you don't have to insist, 5 years can't touch a girl's heart, unless she hates you, keep a distance from you, otherwise she will give you an answer, saying that it is not suitable or something, an explanation.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Such a tasteless pursuit is interesting! Sometimes it's not the longer you are pursuing, the better, look at the surrounding scenery or have unexpected gains! There is no grass at the end of the world!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You should ask yourself, the reality is, do you insist on any more results? You've been doing it for five years, but what about the progress in the past five years? Do you think you can change another five years or a few years? I wish you to get rid of your troubles soon and be happy every day.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you are true love, you should stick to it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I've been running marathons for 5 years, and you don't feel sad to give up.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    There are some people who have no fate, and you will never be able to wait. It should have been given up three years earlier.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If you keep refusing and not letting go, give up, she doesn't feel for you, you can silently bless her.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Give up, she doesn't love you, why cling, hang yourself from a tree.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Give up, it's no fun, and you will only hurt yourself in the end.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Give up, don't continue, it's you who hurt, and my friend is the same, the deeper you love, the more it hurts.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Give up decisively. People who can't wake up and pretend to be asleep can't move people who don't love you. That's what life is all about. You deserve better.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Change yourself, improve your gold content, and then your vision will improve.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Does that girl belong to her? How old are you?

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Give it up, how many 5 people are there in life and consume this woman.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    I'm going to do my best, but I can't, give up!! Don't hang yourself from a tree again.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    If you still have patience, you can persevere, if you don't, you can give up, don't waste your limited youth, there is no grass at the end of the world.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Persistence It is possible that she is testing whether you are sincere.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Give up, there is no grass at the end of the world.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Either become a monk or start a new life.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Elder brother! I'm going to wait 9 years, and now I'm going to wait 4 years.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Or insist, see the hearts of the people every day.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    This is good for him, you really don't like him, is it possible to fulfill him and wronged yourself? When it is broken, it is broken, and this kind of thing is better to cut through the mess quickly.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    If he really persevered for five years, it means that he is sincere! Even if you reject him, this affection will remain in his heart! If it's your first love, it's a great feeling!

    I like a girl for 5 years, although it's just a crush... In the end, because she went to school in other places and couldn't be contacted anymore, she slowly gave up! But now that I think about the old days, I still feel happy!

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Emotional matters, you can't settle down, make it clear to him. If he still insists on doing so, you don't need to force it, just let it be.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Someone like him shows that he is still mentally immature, and it is appropriate to let him suffer some frustration or blow, and he will not hate you but thank you, at least if I were him.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    There is no right or wrong in emotional matters, if you don't love him, everything is right to sit on.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    That's a good thing to do, because you don't have feelings for him, he won't hate you, and even if you combine it and break up sooner or later, it's better to break up now, because you're still young and have a chance.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    If you don't have a particular aversion to him, try to accept him.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    A man hanged from a tree for a woman is not worthy of your love!

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    White lies are good, you are also a good girl, if you don't love it, make it clear, there are very few girls like you.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    You should be honest with him about what you think. I think if he really likes you, he will respect your decision.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    What more do you want from such a man, love you and pay a long time for action, that is true love.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    There is no need to be like this, live the old life.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    I don't think you should be like this ...

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-07

    It's going to be sad, probably not, after all, he likes you.

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-06

    Are you sure you don't feel anything about him?

  65. Anonymous users2023-12-05

    Wouldn't it be more upright for you to make it clear?

  66. Anonymous users2023-12-04

    It's been five years, and people are so good to you. Men, sometimes you can't be too realistic. If you don't think it's suitable, you should break up in half a year. The girl's five years of youth have been given to you, so why do you say that you can divide it.

  67. Anonymous users2023-12-03

    I don't think you need to be together, there will be a lot of contradictions when you get married like this, married life is not as simple as you think, instead of arguing every day in the future, it is better to break it off now and pursue happiness separately. Dragging like this will hurt both of you!

  68. Anonymous users2023-12-02

    It took five years to find out the problem, and you have only yourself to blame.

  69. Anonymous users2023-12-01

    I don't like to pull down, so many people like me.

  70. Anonymous users2023-11-30

    Don't play emotional kidnapping, it's not good for both people, find the reason, let go when it's time to let go, like is selfish, love is mutual.

  71. Anonymous users2023-11-29

    After passing, you will understand, give up.

  72. Anonymous users2023-11-28

    So does she know? If you don't know, you should confess! But if you know it and ignore it on purpose, then let it go. At least I don't have any regrets.

  73. Anonymous users2023-11-27

    After fulfilling the reason and working hard for the lonely heart, don't be nostalgic when you should give up, otherwise it will hurt you.

  74. Anonymous users2023-11-26

    When there is no continuation, it will be disturbed. Go to confess first, if you don't succeed, give up, it's even worse to hang like this all the time.

  75. Anonymous users2023-11-25

    Give up, brother, it's yours who came early.

  76. Anonymous users2023-11-24

    The twisted melon is not sweet, and it should be stopped in moderation.

  77. Anonymous users2023-11-23

    Unrequited love is your own suffering, so why bother.

  78. Anonymous users2023-11-22

    Try to love other women

  79. Anonymous users2023-11-21

    As long as you're not married, anything is possible.

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