No one likes to be lonely, but why do many people not know how to cherish it when they are together?

People who don't know how to cherish are because they have never experienced loneliness and how difficult it is to be alone, so when someone is with him, he will not cherish it.

Because when two people are together, it is easy to have conflicts, and if they can't be resolved in time, then it will make two people go their separate ways.

People often know how to cherish after they lose, and it is easier to come and not to cherish, and it is difficult for people to think of loneliness when they are happy.

Because they are often together, they don't feel the pain of parting, they don't feel lonely, they don't care in their hearts, and it's hard to cherish them.

Mainly because when I am not lonely, I feel that I can live a good life, I don't know how to cherish it, and I know that it is precious when I lose it.

No one likes to be lonely, but there are some things that we don't know how to cherish when we get them, and we feel that other things are very beautiful, and only after losing our own things can we feel that things are beautiful.

Written on the front: This article was written on the night of the Mid-Autumn Festival last year. Because he wanted to repay his debts, he was forced to go to the capital Beijing to seek development in order to pay off his debts.

On the night of the Mid-Autumn Festival, I was walking alone on a street in the capital, and I opened my mobile phone and saw that in the family group, we posted that everyone went out to play together during the day, had a picnic on the ground, and went to eat hot pot that night, so happy. Seeing this scene, I felt envious, and I couldn't wait to fly back to my hometown thousands of miles away and have a drink with my family.

The following is the main part of last year's text:

I don't know how many people in this world will have a sense of loneliness, maybe 500 million, maybe 10 billion, maybe even 70 billion, everyone will have their own sense of loneliness. Who would really like to be lonely, just forced, just helpless, just don't want to be disappointed.

I know that there are many young people working hard in big cities, and everyone has to endure this loneliness. Therefore, many people will take advantage of the holiday, or a chance opportunity, to go to the small town in the south of the Yangtze River or other beautiful places, so that they can revel in it, unable to extricate themselves, which can keep them away from the usual administrative hustle and bustle, personnel noise, fame and fortune, and deceit. Unfortunately, they have to return to that noisy place after all.

People have joys and sorrows, and the moon is cloudy and sunny. For the first time in 25 years, when I was forced to come to this place that didn't belong to me, I felt truly lonely for the first time in 25 years, when I was forced to come to this place that didn't belong to me, and to shuttle alone in this bustling and bustling metropolis. The misfortunes of life left my family of three scattered in three different places, separated by a few different days.

When I saw the ** and little ** that my relatives posted in the crowd at home yesterday, I couldn't wait to fly back immediately. But when I think of my father who is far away in Xinjiang and my mother who is alone at home, I only have indescribable sadness and helplessness. I was standing alone in a dark corner, but there was light here.

This light is the support of family, the encouragement of friends, one's own unwillingness, and hope for the future.

Loneliness is like an invisible pair of hands that can lift you up to the sky or push you into the abyss. In everyone's life, there is always a period of time that belongs to you, God isolates you from the outside world, arranges for you to have a dialogue with your soul, this is a difficult process, this is also the essence of life. That's why we need to relate to each other in order to gain understanding.

But true understanding is impossible, those who often strive to seek the understanding of others end up in vain, rather than reluctantly through interacting with others to eliminate loneliness and resolve helplessness, it is better to retreat and accept this loneliness and helplessness, and learn to conquer it yourself.

No one really likes to be alone.

Li Yu doesn't like: go up to the west building alone without a word, the moon is like a hook, and the lonely Wutong deep courtyard locks Qingqiu.

Xu Zhimo didn't like it: only by climbing to the top of the mountain can you see the scenery over there.

Shakespeare didn't like that people who had not been hurt would laugh at the wounds of others.

so,try to conquer it~