Why do many people like old stuff?

People are a kind of contradictory movement, on the one hand, they like the new and hate the old, and on the other hand, they are nostalgic. Nostalgia is divided into two mindsets:

1. I miss the things I am familiar with, and when I see these things, I will recall the ups and downs of the past, and it is also to deepen the spiritual memory of life.

2. Admiring the history that you have not experienced.

For those elderly people who lack a sense of self-worth, most of them can only rely on nostalgia and recalling their extraordinary deeds to enrich their hearts. For the elderly, this is a normal psychological phenomenon.

For those who have been ordained by the trials they went through in their youth and are now late bloomers; The courage of the newborn calf when he was young and not afraid of tigers has created his current ability and success. Nostalgia at this time is more like a positive energy, they are not only the motivation that will bring us forward. More importantly, they have a very significant meaning in our lives, and such nostalgia, nostalgia for them, is right.

For some young people, nostalgia for the good and happiness of the past may be your subconscious.

is guiding you to escape from unpleasant realities. Because they are dissatisfied with the status quo and can't do anything about it, or don't want to face it, they devote themselves to nostalgic time.

Either way, there is a certain feeling for nostalgia.

A person who likes nostalgia is, first of all, an emotional need. Because there is a feeling in nostalgia, in the fleeting time that cannot wait, it will always leave an indelible mark. For a person's nostalgia, it is not necessarily that this person has disappeared from real life, but that the feelings of this person in each other's hearts may have become a stormy blur or a looming alienation in the passage of time.

Nostalgia is both an aftertaste and a reflection in every detail. And from such a behavioral habit, people may also slowly digest and resolve, and many doubts and pains linger in their hearts. Nostalgia is like a painting, which can be vividly displayed in the mind, just like the bits and pieces of yesterday.

Nostalgia is like the past that is still in the ears, in the lingering nostalgia, it is better to cherish the life of a person who is indispensable and fleeting.

Nostalgia is a very common psychological phenomenon. Some people like to reminisce about the good things in the past, and often thinking about good things will make their mood very good and make their current life better. Nostalgia is the norm!

But some people are addicted to the past and become overly nostalgic. Such a person is most likely in a state of mind that avoids the status quo. The current state of life is not what you want, and if you can't realize the ideas in your heart, you will indulge in the past.

Such a person does not like to show his inner world, often others can not understand, so, he is quite mysterious, very attractive, his feelings will not be very straightforward, are more tactful, more idealized thoughts, self-thought, meaning expressed to such an extent, others should be able to understand! It is often easy to misunderstand! Obviously, most people may be chronic, and they don't feel acute, unless they have an outburst!

In addition, this person should have fallen out of love, or had a secret crush, and he is very affectionate, so he will be nostalgic, which can also show that he will be a very emotional person.

Personally, I think that with the passage of time, the growth of people's age, as well as the increase of life and work experience, it is inevitable to encounter large and small troubles and confusions, people should be the most fragile or sensitive at this time, and it is also the time of nostalgia, nostalgia is actually a way for the body to resist the reality of troubles and relieve stress. Because old things feel more intimate when used.

Nostalgia. Nostalgia is an analgesic that soothes the torment of human beings caused by the nature of liking the new and hating the old. "Old"For urbanites in the new era, it is in a different sense"New"。

Nostalgia is a way to de-stress, but it's addictive, like going from a place of pain to a place of relaxation at a leisurely pace.

Nostalgia. If there is a new thing in front of you, there will only be a sense of novelty, and there will be feelings for the old thing after a long time (hehe). Imagine that someone who has been with you for a long time and someone who is not so familiar with you is always good.

The same is true for one thing.

Everyone goes through different stages of life, and at each stage, your insights, moods, and thoughts do not reach a new level. Whether it is for the better or for the worse, it is not the same as before. And as time goes by, there are some people who are more and more nostalgic for the past, and more and more nostalgic for the people and things of the past.

Such people are not uncommon in life, and it can even be said that it is human nature.

Nostalgia is a kind of feeling, and it is also to recall the past and find the original intention. And the way of nostalgia, with vague and incomplete memories, is not enough. Especially for the elderly, preserving and cherishing some old items can effectively see things, think about people, think about things, and retrieve those long and forgotten memories.

For many people, an old object may mean a story, an emotion, or an unforgettable love-hate relationship. It may seem like an old item or even garbage to others, but for someone, especially someone who likes nostalgia, it may be very meaningful and difficult to give up for the rest of their lives.

As far as this matter is concerned, there is nothing to make a fuss about. In a sense, liking nostalgia is not a bad thing, nor is it a regressive thought. Because everyone has a different past, there will be people and things that are worth remembering and lingering in their memories.

Whether sad or happy, sad or resentful, love or hate, right or wrong, more or less, there is always something worth reflecting on and summarizing.

Therefore, liking nostalgia means remembering the past, seeing things and thinking about people, for the memory that is about to be forgotten. At the same time, it is also to be grateful for the past, grateful for today, and cherish tomorrow.

Each old object carries a deep or shallow memory. It is not necessarily the object itself that is reluctantly discarded, but the meaning of the object's existence.

Nostalgia, that is, nostalgia. Nostalgia is a psychological phenomenon and an aesthetic act.

Nostalgia is a special psychological phenomenon, an emotion or knot. It's because of a person I've met before; or a certain era or event that you have experienced; or somewhere where you have had a life experience; or a longer period of attachment and nostalgia arising from the thoughts or memories of an object involved in the above phenomena or an object.

Nostalgia should refer to two levels: one refers to private nostalgia (such as nostalgia for one's old friend, hometown, or first love); One refers to the nostalgia of the public (such as nostalgia for some classic works of art, etc.).

Although nostalgia is a special psychological phenomenon, if it is not manifested as an excessive "pathology", it is still a healthy and normal psychological expression.

Because people have emotions, especially when someone has experienced a special era, or a special event, or met a special person, and has left a deep impression on them, they often show special feelings and reactions to the aforementioned things in their daily life; And it may also breed a special nostalgia because of some kind of implication (suggestion) or contrast in real life.

Most men will hate their wives or girlfriends going over old accounts with them, and think that turning over old accounts is a sign of being stingy, cautious, and calculating, but why do women like to turn over old accounts? But the man didn't know.

In the second year of my marriage, my wife always quarreled with me over a little thing, lost her temper, and always liked to settle old accounts with me.

Once, she went over the old accounts with me again, at that time, I didn't go home for a week, and then she called me and cried and said to let me go home, so I asked her: "Then you still go over the old accounts with me?" ”

She said: "You know, why I always go over old accounts with you, because of the previous things, there is no real past in my heart, because I love you, so I endure the present, but whenever a problem arises, people will think of those bad things that make them sad." ”

In fact, many things are a knot in my heart, and I have not untied it, in fact, every time I give you a chance, I hope you can do better, and then I find that when you have not changed, I will feel disappointed, every old account, is an emphasis, you know? ”

Most girls have feelings, for old things, as well as things that have been used before, they always remember and always have her feelings, so many women always can't forget old things. Always will love it.

Because women are the most nostalgic for the past, they like to recall the past. Nostalgia for the old feelings, easy to be sad, see things and think about people.

It's not the old things that I like, but the good times that the old things give. Every old thing she left behind had a memory that would be unforgettable for her. Loving the old stuff is just the memories it brings her, loving that time.

It is human nature to like the new and hate the old. The current one is not as good as the previous one, the previous one carries good memories, antiques are valuable, and people have history.

Nostalgic people love old things! And not a woman! I feel that people who miss the old are generally swollen feelings! Cherish this girl!

It's not just women who are nostalgic, men are also nostalgic, it's people who miss the old. Because man is an animal with feelings.

That's because this woman likes to be nostalgic! There is nostalgia. It's just individual women who have such hobbies.

It may be a memory, a story, a feeling, a ...... missing

It's not that women like old things, it's just that women are careful and are reluctant to throw anything away.

Personal hobbies, there are nostalgic plots, and I'm really helping you look forward to it

It's not that I like old things, and I feel a sense of nostalgia in my psychology.

Old things can be used again.

There is a sense of longing and comfort.

Some people like the old object may be because the value of the old object is high, the current social change is particularly fast, people's lives are getting better and better, and now the things created are not cutting corners, or the quality is not up to par, so the things created before are not only low, but also the quality is particularly good, especially strong, and is deeply liked by the older generation.

Old objects are left because of friends or their relatives, old objects represent a kind of friends or relatives feelings, every time you encounter difficulties to look at the old objects, you will have the motivation to continue to overcome difficulties, when every time you look at the old objects when you are sad, you will have a good mood.

Some people like to collect these old objects, probably because this is their hobby, the old objects are much more complicated than the general handicraft procedures in terms of workmanship, and the old objects are particularly important in the hearts of those collectors, and the old objects are their treasures.

Personal preference, I have to say why I like it, probably because this old object is very in line with this person's aesthetics, or because of the historical significance and value of this old object, etc., I also like some old objects.

I remember when I went to see my grandmother's house to play, she had a box, a very old box, there was a hairpin in it, that was really old for the time being, very simple style, nothing before the inlay, it should be made of copper, yellow, very weighty, the top is a porcelain inlaid with cumbersome patterns hairpin, I liked it at first sight, so I took advantage of the grandmother's inattention to play.

I heard that it was given by my grandfather, who was almost killed when he met a Japanese on the other side of the bridge when he bought this hairpin.

In my opinion, there are many reasons why I like this hairpin, one is that this hairpin should be my favorite object in the Ming period, I look at this hairpin and think of that turbulent era, inexplicable yearning; Second, this hairpin style is also deeply liked by me, simple and simple, and very generous; The third is that the story behind this hairpin makes me feel very touched and meaningful.

But I was so naughty at the time, playing with it as if I didn't know to put it in **, if it was still there, I would definitely collect it.

The reasons why I like old objects are not abundant, and some people like them because of the historical significance and high value of art or old objects. Otherwise, there would not be so many old objects that were auctioned to such a high level, and they would not be put in the museum for people to see. And retro is a fad in itself.

More than 5,000 years of history and culture in our country, there are a lot of historical relics left behind, whenever we walk into the museum, what is displayed in front of us are old objects. These old objects include cultural relics, folk customs, ancient books, furniture, calligraphy and paintings, ......Various. Old objects carry the memory of history, the traces of time, and the old objects are not only nostalgic, but also the witness of history.

With the demolition of the countryside, some old objects have slowly faded out of our sight, but there are many people who like these old objects. It gives the loved ones a ...... of nostalgia and eternal memory