After 10 days together, they quarreled for 9 days, should such a relationship break up

My boyfriend and I are in the 3rd year, the first year we were romantic, the second year we kept arguing... Now the two of us are like one person.,Think back to the time when we always quarreled.。。 It's weird.

Hehe. Although I still mess with him all the time, he has learned to let me. So I can't quarrel anything

Women can't get used to it, the more they get used to it, the more they will be finished.

Pampering should be appropriate.

She doesn't have love for you, you have to make sure she's tired of it, or if you're not getting along the right way? Maybe it will be good for you to be apart for a while.

There are so many stories between you that we have never met, and even your friends don't know

What I want to say is: when you really want to leave, you don't come here to ask everyone, and since you ask, you are looking for a reason to continue to be with your wife Quite simply, you still love him, and if you love her, you have to tolerate her, including his shortcomings, because she loves you just as much. I believe that I love you deeply.

Calm down, all of you. Leave each other for a while, think carefully about whether it is because of responsibility to be with her or because of love, give yourself a little space, if it is because of responsibility, then disperse, because responsibility cannot support a family. If you have love in your heart, then stay together because you love each other.

You are too indulgent to your woman, there are two if you have one, you can't always be at her mercy, give up on her, find a person who can live a lifetime again, and love someone again.

Are you living together? Living together is too close, and the relationship is prone to subtle changes, try to respect each other and, and keep a little ambiguous distance.

Hehe, you've been doing it for two years? We were divided for a year.

Don't be responsible. Let's break up. It's so immature. Your parents didn't let you be beaten by a woman when you gave birth to you!

Your partner is indeed very immature, or cares too much about you in disguise.

But you probably haven't talked to her in a long time, right? I don't want to beat the mandarin ducks, it's better to find the root cause, after all, we have been together for 2 years. If we didn't have a common language, we wouldn't have been together for so long. Communication is the best way, brother, I don't advocate you to give up.

Feelings are things, it's good to let it be, boys can bear it, but you must not hit girls. You quarrel and still have feelings for each other, you don't feel it, don't quarrel when it's time to disperse, talk to her and see if it will get better.

It's normal for couples to quarrel with each other, but it's important to get it right. Let's take a look at it with life.

First of all, as the saying goes, "a small noise is pleasant, but a big noise hurts the body". Wisdom quarrels, we must learn to use "cold reception" as a solution to emotional conflicts.

When one side has a tendency to cope with the cold, in order to avoid "cold and cold", it is necessary for both parties to understand the following points in advance: clear thinking differences.

First of all, both men and women must be clear about each other's way of thinking when dealing with problems. It is important to note that male thinking does not refer specifically to men, and female thinking does not refer specifically to women. Therefore, knowing the other party's solution to the problem is beneficial to understand the other party's behavior during the quarrel, and it is not easy to cause misunderstandings.

If both sides are cold or heat treated, the degree of co-frequency is higher. If one party treats it cold and the other heats it up, then you have to understand the different ways in which the other side reacts to the problem.

Second, on the basis of clarifying differences in thinking, we can accept different ways of dealing with problems. For example, your partner prefers heat treatment, while you prefer cold treatment. In the face of your partner's emotional catharsis, you have to listen carefully, you don't need to address it, but you have to give an appropriate response.

Understanding your partner's emotional needs for expression can also help with quick problem resolution. If your partner is cold and you prefer a heat treatment, you can also express your emotional needs when your partner is silent. In the silence or negative response of your partner, you can quickly calm down and find a solution to the problem together.

Finally, to prevent your partner from falling into an emotional winter, be clear about the ways to solve the problem and the way to solve the problem, give your partner the necessary anticipation and affirmative response, and let your partner know that you are not ignoring her demands and intimate problems. This way, you can avoid falling into the trap of "cold violence". Therefore, we must not only know how to treat cold, but also make good use of it.

Take advantage of the relaxation time provided by cold treatment, peaceful communication, and calm reactions to minimize the emotional damage and problems caused by conflict. The most important thing is to understand the true meaning of love in each other's calm thinking.

To sum up, I believe you already know whether it is normal to quarrel every few days in a relationship.

This is abnormal, it is impossible for two people to quarrel during the love period, and the relationship between two people will be particularly good, if they always quarrel, it means that the personalities of the two people are not suitable.

It is normal, because the growth of two people is different, the communication style of two people is different, and the living habits of two people are different, so it is very normal to have a run-in during this period.

It's normal. People have shortcomings, and couples quarrel with each other, which is a process of running in with each other in the process of falling in love, and the follow-up will be reconciled, and the relationship will be more consolidated.

Normal, maybe after getting along for a long time, there will be conflicts because of some living habits or some small details, so it is normal to quarrel.

Summary. Of course, it is okay to kiss, because your heart is already a participant in this relationship.

Of course, it is okay to kiss, because your heart is already a participant in this relationship.

What kind of relationship do you currently have with this person?

Broke up. The teacher would love to hear your thoughts on what you have gained from this relationship, because the beginning of every relationship is your new understanding of something.

He's scumbag. I regret talking to him.

Is it the other party who chased you first, you should care about this relationship very much, but because the other party's behavior is unacceptable to you, you chose to break up.

My dear, you are a well-behaved girl with a strong sense of honor and disgrace.

Every experience will become our personal experience, so we can quickly distinguish the good from the bad in the next mate selection.

Among them, there is a word system that recognizes it, I hope you don't mind too much.

You should have your own opinion on this relationship, because of the difference in cognition, you chose to stop the loss in time.

1.Liking someone is really a feeling, and such a feeling is actually very subtle, and at a certain moment in you, this feeling may appear. 2.

Maybe at the moment when you hesitated, you were giving yourself a choice in your heart, you didn't hate him, you might be waiting for the moment you liked. 3.When choosing between liking and disliking, you're actually waiting for that moment.

may also be testing the true regrets and thoughts in your heart. 4.If you like someone, you will get to know them, and if you don't like them, you will say to yourself, don't always wait, you may lose some good things.

You're struggling with whether or not to conclude whether these two days were a real relationship, right?

But the other party did attract you at a certain moment!

Do you still want the teacher to say more to you, you can help you say what you think, so that the teacher can give you the right advice.

If you can't adapt, you won't be separated, you just have reached the cooling-off period of quarreling.

My boyfriend and I sometimes calm each other down after a fight, and during the cool-down period, we do this:

1. Reminisce about the good past.

When we quarrel, we think of the bad of our partner, but after an impulsive breakup, we think of the good of our ex. This is the most painful realization of all those who take the initiative to break up but first regret and want to redeem it.

They didn't think about breaking up at all, they just expected the other party to stay, and the argument about right and wrong was not about the event itself, but a deeper, war for dominance of the relationship. "Winning" is their only belief, otherwise they don't love me, so they came to the conclusion that since they don't love, it's better to break up.

It's just that they have feelings, and they are often the one who is more affectionate and inseparable, so the first person to regret after breaking up is also this kind of person. It is not easy to meet people who love each other, and it will be a pity to break up because of a momentary quarrel and a sharp mindset. Since we are in the cooling-off period of the truce, you might as well think more about the good of your partner.

Those good memories of the past, the little details of life, are all proof of his love for you. When you are discouraged, only by taking the initiative to find out those traces of love, your confidence in this relationship will not collapse one-sidedly, and you will not regret it after impulsively proposing to break up.

2. Necessary care.

No matter how emotional a person is, even if he is angry, he should not forget to care about his partner. Don't be angry because it's a cooling-off period, afraid of embarrassment, and afraid of not being able to hang up on your face. During the cooling-off period, the changes in feelings are sharp and instantaneous, and it depends on what you do to get better or worse.

Ask yourself if you still love this person and want to break up, if the answer is yes, then still take the initiative to care about him, he will receive your kindness, so as to adjust his behavior. This could easily be an opportunity to break the ice in your relationship.

3. Sort out the reasons for the quarrel and solve the problem.

Couples who have quarreled over the same issue many times will eventually break up because the problem has not been resolved. How to seek common ground while reserving differences, find the appropriate distance to keep warm from each other, and need to run in with each other, these are the wisdom of getting along.

Quarrels are never a person's fault, it's just that they have their own opinions and don't give in to each other, which leads to the final incompatibility. Bad words and bad words because of a bad mood and turning over old accounts will only worsen the problem.

During the cooling-off period, you should think about why you are arguing, how the problem is solved, where your common point of contact is, and only by understanding and tolerating each other can the relationship be long-lasting. Respect and understanding are the premise, not breaking up is the consensus, work together to communicate and discuss to solve the problem and no longer repeat the mistakes of the past, so that each other can grow.

It all depends on how the subject thinks about the problem, you can either use it as an opportunity to solve the problem, or you can default to the breakup.

Yes, that's usually a precursor to separation. In fact, at this time, we must not separate, and the best way is for both parties to communicate calmly and well.

Yes, couples often quarrel together, and once the situation of choosing to be separated for a few days appears, basically many couples will really break up, because two people are separated because of quarrels, and their hearts will feel cold, if there are friends of the opposite sex at this time to give more care, it will be easier to get lost, and it will be easier to break up.

No, this is a period when both parties have to be calm, and during this period, you must think clearly about what you want and whether you still like each other.

No, two people who truly love each other don't really separate because of a temporary separation. They just want to calm down with each other, and when they figure it out, they will still be together.

It should just give both parties a period of calm time, not a real breakup, and let the other party reflect on their behavior and plans for the future.

Yes, people who love deeply can't quarrel, you can't stand the quarrel anymore and want to try to separate, that's actually trying to break up.

The separation is just to calm you down, and to figure out the problems that exist between you, and it stands to reason that you will not adapt and will not be separated.

Maybe, if you are separated for a while and don't contact each other, it's likely that you really break up, and if you keep in touch often, or miss the past, you won't be separated.

You can calm down for a few days, it doesn't mean you break up, you can think about a lot of problems in the past few days, and you can still be together.