I was on a blind date with my boyfriend for a month, and his ex girlfriend wanted to get back togeth

The blind date man confirmed the relationship with you or talked for a month after the blind date.

In front of oneself, there should always be a place to be left alone. Then go to love. I don't know what it is, I don't know who it is, I don't know how to love, and I don't know how long I can love.

Just waiting for love once, maybe no one will ever be. However, this kind of waiting is love itself.

It's so complicated!! It depends on your boyfriend's attitude, find a time, tell him the fear in your heart, the most basic thing for two people who love each other is to trust!! Talk about your fears, let him understand and know what you really think, don't be alone there and be suspicious, it will make both of you feel tired!!

I wish you happiness!!

I think you should be mentally prepared, I have met such a person before, the man has no firm heart, so make a way out for yourself, and the injury will be more serious in the future.

Oh, what a god-like situation. For a whole month, his ex-girlfriend found him to get back together, and he was 、、、 in Shandong

The woman is the type who doesn't want it in her hand and grabs it when someone else takes it, so ignore her.

Don't pay too much attention to it

to avoid serious injuries.

Look at your boyfriend's attitude, you don't pay attention to the girl.

It mainly depends on your boyfriend's attitude.

Once the former lovers break up, from a realistic point of view, they are two strangers who have nothing to do with each other. Even if they were lovers, the binding relationship between the two is only a moral constraint on personal ethics and morality. But once you break up, there is no such constraint.

Once the relationship ends, they are strangers, and whatever the other party does is reasonable.

But from an emotional point of view, many people will feel that they can't accept it, why is it unreasonable that the two-year relationship has only ended, and the other party can invest or start planning new emotional goals in less than a month? Some even begin to fall into self-doubt, which is manifested in: Does the other party not love me?

Or don't you care about me at all? Feeling like a failure, etc.

So why did a boyfriend who has been in a relationship for two years go on a blind date less than a month after breaking up, there may be several reasons:

1. Forced by family pressure

Generally, young people go on blind dates, and many times they don't take the initiative themselves. Usually most of the time it is the elders of the family, such as parents or relatives, who urge them to go. They will feel that they should fall in love, get married, and have children as soon as possible when they are old, especially in some family relationships, where the parents are stronger, then if the children can't resist, they are likely to succumb.

So if you analyze it from this meaning, the other party goes on a blind date, maybe it's just a means to deal with your parents, and it doesn't prove that he doesn't care about you or your relationship. In this case, if you find out about it and still want to save the relationship, then you can take the initiative to talk to the other party again.

2. I want to get out of the pain through a new relationship

Everyone deals with the situation after a breakup in a different way, and girls may relieve their pain by crying, shopping, shopping frantically, complaining to friends or eating. However, boys may have a limited number of options, usually by buying drunk or playing games to anesthetize themselves.

If someone introduces him to a new partner at this time, then he will probably accept it. Generally speaking, a guy may not feel as much pain in the first month of the breakup. He may even feel that he has gained a short period of freedom, and at this time it is possible to meet a new girl, and at first he will have a sense of freshness and want to start a new relationship.

It's all a man's characteristic.

3. You didn't love each other that much

Of course, perhaps the most unacceptable reason is that the other party quickly goes on a blind date or invests in a new relationship, because they may not have invested much in the previous relationship, so they can start a new relationship quickly. If this is the case, it is good to break up and prove that the other person is not worthy of your lover. After the tidying up period, tidying up and getting out of the pain of falling out of love and starting a new life is the right track, and you don't need to be sad and miserable for the unworthy people all the time.

Summary: In short, the ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend who broke up quickly went on a blind date or invested in a new relationship, either because he didn't care about your previous relationship, or because he was old and forced by family pressure, etc., in short, if you still want to redeem it, then actively try to redeem it; If you don't want to get it back, then look forward, and there's no need to bother with a relationship that has passed.

Maybe your ex-boyfriend doesn't really love you, or maybe your ex-boyfriend's family is too stressful, so he chooses to go on a blind date.

Maybe he doesn't pay much attention to you, he has already let go of this relationship with you, so he went on a blind date.

It shows that the other party does not particularly like himself in life, and it may be that the other party's family has urged marriage, so he will do this.

After reading the subject's description, this question is a bit complicated, about the matter of the ex-girlfriend, I think it depends on your boyfriend's attitude, as long as his attitude attributes are clear! The problem is easy to solve. How to solve it, there are the following two solutions;

1) This is your boyfriend's business, if he wants to deal with it first, you don't want to participate first, if your boyfriend is still there, and the third appears, ask your boyfriend to meet, I think you should come forward at this time, you can ask her euphemistically, what is the matter with my boyfriend.

If she still doesn't give up, you can observe your boyfriend's performance, you can see what kind of position this man is, so that you can better understand how to protect your feelings, at this time, you must believe in yourself, have confidence in yourself, and your boyfriend will give you an explanation.

b) The best of both worlds! You should be tolerant of everything, even if you hate and hate his ex-girlfriend in your heart, you pretend to be very generous, not to ask you to scold your boyfriend, or give your boyfriend to that woman.

Escaping can't solve the problem, you should face it, if the woman asks to meet again, you face it with your boyfriend, just like a friend, don't feel uncomfortable, you treat her well, even if you pretend to be out, when the time comes, when the time comes, not only will the woman automatically quit, but she can't bear to break you up, so she will like you more.

That's all for the plan I wrote, see which one suits you, for your reference!

If the blind date man can change his mind, he will have to break up sooner or later, because his ex-girlfriend can save his relationship. There must be a foundation, and you should let it go too. Otherwise, even if you reluctantly get together with Jiang Tingnan, you will still be treated by his ex-girlfriend.

It's not a big deal to break up if you break up, and now you can't refuse your ex-girlfriend, which means that he doesn't have you in his heart. All while the relationship is not deep, it is better to break up. lest he really get married in the future, and he will have a story with his ex-girlfriend again.

Don't want such a man, because it is more important to be an ex-girlfriend in his heart, and your position is more like a spare tire, so there is no need to waste your feelings on a man who does not love you.

has been with a blind date man for more than half a year, and recently his ex-boyfriend went to his ex-girlfriend to find him, and he was going to say to break up, and the best thing to do in such a situation is to break up, because such a man is too untrustworthy and wavering.

For such a boy, my advice is to break up with him decisively, and at the same time tell you about this matter, so that others know that he abandoned you for his ex-girlfriend. Make his parents feel guilty about you.

The boy who is more blind date has been together for more than half a year, and then because the other party's ex-girlfriend comes to him, he is going to break up, which means that he is not a good object, break up early, maybe you will be better for you.

This irresponsible man should leave quickly.

Find your best friend for a meal, vent and start over. Those who hesitate to do things are not worth considering.

Fortunately, now it's just a friend, what should I do if I get married, I keep colluding with my ex-girlfriend, and stop the loss in time.

If this guy breaks up with you because his ex-girlfriend is looking for him, it proves that he doesn't like you very much, and there is a second time, and letting go early is the best way.

If you don't know each other, you will be very disappointed and sad in your heart, because you like him, and he doesn't respond to you, and you don't.

A: I advise you to give up. Don't be with someone who is undignified and unassertive in doing things on their own.

You can talk to him well, talk more about your strengths, and make him feel that you will be better than his ex-girlfriend, so that he will not be divided.

If the guy insists on breaking up, there is no way, you can only agree, why, because a person who will choose to break up with you for his ex-girlfriend to come to him, such a person does not have much affection for you, and true love for the ex, so there is no need to be with someone who does not love him, and such a person is not worth your life.

I think you can only choose to let go of this, after all, he still loves his ex-girlfriend more in his heart. Otherwise, he won't be able to give up your relationship, and I don't think it's pointless if you insist. It's better to let him go, turn around and go first.

There is no good way to do this, unless you can save his heart, otherwise you can't get it back what he decides, so breaking up with you is that your relationship is not as deep as that of him and his ex-girlfriend.

For such a man, he said that you will break up when he breaks up, because he doesn't have you in his heart at all, do you want your object to have another woman living in his heart all the time? I'm afraid that no woman can accept it.

If she wants to break up, let him break up, you are not important in his mind, so why do you want um, why do you want um? Catch him, he doesn't have a person like you in his heart, I don't think it's too much of a point to catch him!

How to say it, whether your own advantages have been brought into play and made him obsessed, or whether he just didn't mean anything to you in the first place, it is not better to be better next and more well-behaved.

You should think about whether you want to continue, a man can't fit two women in his heart, and he will break up with you to show that he still hasn't forgotten his ex-girlfriend.

If you say this, you can tell him directly, is our relationship just for the past six months? Since you haven't forgotten your ex until now, why are you still talking to me about friends?

Separate from him as soon as possible, he just uses you as a backing, I hope you let go, he and his ex-girlfriend won't be okay, you wait and see.

Although he is very unwilling, it makes no sense to stay, in the final analysis, he doesn't like you too much.

Generally can't get out of the relationship with the ex-girlfriend, and most of them come back after the breakup, and the man generally can't refuse.

Bye-bye, bye-bye, the next one is better.

I have met this kind of person regardless of what to do, but it is his ex-wife, at first he said how bad his ex-wife was to him, and then people said that he was going to come back and immediately get back together with others, even if you don't divide it, it's useless.

What else to do, let him get out.

Summary. First of all, I understand your feelings very well, I think you definitely have a chance, but do you want to get back together?

I talked to my boyfriend for a month, his ex-girlfriend came back, they got back together, do I still have a chance? Can you still fight for it?

First of all, I understand your feelings very well, I think you definitely have a chance, but do you want to get back together?

Have you ever wondered? You are in a relationship with him, your ex-girlfriend is back, what did he declare to his ex-girlfriend?

What does that mean? It means that he doesn't care about you, and it means that he doesn't have you in his heart!

If he has you in his heart, how can he be with his ex-girlfriend so easily?

I talked to him for two months, and now that his ex-girlfriend is back looking for him, he gives up on me to find him.

So will I have a chance to get back together with him?

I think there are opportunities, and of course I'll give you some methods!

But you have to think about it clearly, and do you really mean to sell the right state? If you were with someone who didn't love you, someone who didn't like you, did you think you would be happy?

He told me that he was miserable with his ex-girlfriend, but he told me that he just couldn't let go of his ex-girlfriend in his heart, why was that?

Although they are in pain, he still has the pain of his ex-girlfriend in his heart, why? It's because he has his ex-girlfriend in his heart that he suffers!

If it is one person and there is no other person in his heart, will it be painful?

There may still be problems between them, so you still have a chance, or you can test his attitude and reaction!

But now he has blocked my **WeChat.,And then I used someone else's mobile phone to call him the next day.,He's using another small account to add WeChat to me.,And then it's just an occasional chat about the group.,Do you think you'll be together before you have a chance? Do you think he still has me in his heart?

If he doesn't have you in his heart, how can he talk to you?

That is to say, you don't have to worry that the previous problems between them have not been solved, which means that they will still have problems!

They broke up because of some problems, that is to say, they did not solve them, then you should not be in a hurry at this time! You have to know how to retreat as advance!

Then he told me that breaking up with me was the best option for me...What does he mean by that?

He just doesn't mean it's right for you! If it is suitable between him and you, it is impossible for him to break up and find an ex-girlfriend easily!

So I have to find the problem between you, why did you break up because of the collapse of the group? Or maybe you have to think about what's wrong with the two of you together! Blockade.

If you don't have a problem, he likes you very much and cares about you, why does he go to his ex-girlfriend so easily?

It's that he went to his ex-girlfriend that night, he lied to me and said no, this mountain limb and then I felt that he was going to find his girlfriend Sen Shiyou, I asked him if he was only with her, he never admitted to being with his ex-girlfriend, and then I kept looking for him on WeChat and kept playing with him ** He was annoyed, so he sent me WeChat to break up. Just blacklist all my WeChat**.

How many days has this happened?