What kind of person is the most heartless? Why are people so ruthless now?

The most heartless person in the world is a lover. Because the heart can't carry too many feelings that reality can't carry: you can't feel the warmth of the other party in the sleepless long nights; In the crowded streets, I feel a kind of loneliness; the sadness of loneliness in the festive festival; In the season of spring flowers, I can't walk with you; When you are wronged, you can't wipe away the tears of pain......When there are too many emotions in the heart, each other will be tired, and when the love is haggard, there may be no joy and happiness left.

It is said that I would rather cry on the shoulder of my lover than look at a thousand years alone. That's because the love has already burned out in the long wait.

I don't know how much of a person's inner world has to bear to reach the limit, I just think that when a person is like a tired horse, pulling a heavy and broken cart and crawling down a dangerous high slope; I don't know when I'm going to be thrown down hard, and I will be smashed with a car and a horse.

To be ruthless is to have no feelings. To be truly emotionless about anything is impossible and terrifying. If you really want to do this, I have the following suggestions:

1.Close yourself, if you want to be ruthless to women, reduce contact with women, if you want to be ruthless to the people around you, reduce communication with people around you, no matter what they say or do, don't care, and don't ask. 2.

Learn to forget, forget what people around you have said, what they have done, and not think about him. 3.Find something to distract you from, such as studying hard, working hard, etc., so that you can immerse yourself in your own space without outside distractions.

4.Look down on everything, everything is nihilistic and meaningless, for example, if your girlfriend breaks up, it's nothing, but what can you do without a breakup, will there be a good result? Who can guarantee that you won't break up tomorrow if you don't break up today, instead of not knowing when to break up and arguing all day long, maybe it's a good thing to break up early!.

And so on....Amorous is always annoyed by ruthlessness, and the Tao is ruthless but affectionate!. Who can really be ruthless, and those who can be ruthless may be truly ruthless.

Ruthless and ruthless, using other people's feelings for her as a trick Ruthless, using other people's feelings for her as a trick.

Dear landlord, I am glad for your question There is no right or wrong in love, only whether it is suitable or not, willing or not, happy or not. When you can't be together anymore, it's not that she didn't choose you, it's not that you abandoned her, it's that happiness didn't choose you, happiness didn't choose you, and love didn't choose you. So don't be troubled, don't be sad, you should bless each other and hope that each of you will find your true love.

If you feel pain when you lose the other person, then it proves that you don't love her at all, you just want to possess her, and you will only suffer when your possessiveness cannot be satisfied. When you love someone, what you should think about is not what the other person can give you, but what you can give her, can you give her the affection she needs? Can you give her joy and happiness?

Can you be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness? Only this kind of love is true love, and only this kind of love is happiness! Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

People who ignore everything without love are the most ruthless.

This is a manifestation of indifference and selfishness.

Today's society puts too much pressure on people's lives, so that everyone is busy with their own lives and can't care about anything else. People's lack of identification with the society, excessive pressure, mortgages, car loans, interpersonal interactions, etc., make the caring spirit between people full of coldness, more indifference and strangeness, more suspicion and suspicion, and become more indifferent.

The instinctive reaction is a portrayal of the ego, which is the most subconscious reaction of people when they encounter a thing, and then weighs the pros and cons in combination with reality to deal with it. Because there are a lot of things in society that are cheated because of their enthusiasm, people will protect themselves and become indifferent in the instinctive protection and social chaos.

With regard to the phenomenon of increasing apathy, we cannot evaluate these behaviors from a single perspective of knowledge and recognition. Because people are originally emotional animals, when they become indifferent, most people are disappointed in some things because they have experienced some bad things, and they have become a self-proclaimed indifferent person.

I don't think it can be said that modern people are ruthless, modern people are much more stressed than the original people, everyone has a lot of troubles, but many people don't tell others. Everybody is not happy, and if you talk about your troubles with others, in fact, other people have similar troubles in their hearts. If no one else can solve it, how can it help you?

So, of course, I can only comfort yourself and watch it.

This is forced by real life, real life itself is very cold, very ruthless, everyone has something that everyone cares about, and they have to face the cold real life, so the persecuted people become ruthless little by little.

Falling flowers are intentionally ruthless, and people are even more ruthless, especially irrelevant people.

Why are people so ruthless now, because there are more choices and more injuries at the same time, many people will have a feeling of ignorance, because sometimes you have feelings but it is yourself who is hurt, so you have to be ruthless, and why should you have feelings with strangers, right, there are too many people now, you do good things, he may not understand, he will feel that you are hurting him.

If you tell others about your troubles, others can't help you or don't want to help you, and in the end you still rely on yourself to solve them, so why bother others.

If you feel that others are kind to you and are ruthless, you should actually think about it. If you don't usually have any feelings for others. It's also very normal for others to be ruthless to you.

If you have troubles and tell your relatives and friends, they let you solve them by yourself, maybe you have something to make them feel your own problems, reflect on yourself first.

There are very few ruthless people now, and most of them are still full of love.

Everyone faces many problems and contradictions, and you can't complain about others like that.

What can you do if others are like you and always talk about your pain and troubles?

If you want to be fair, turn it upside down.

If you can't do it yourself, you can't be others.

Don't complain to anyone you see, it's not easy for you and others are also not easy, and many people are more difficult than you. Do your own things and solve your own troubles.

Ruthless people are mostly selfish people, and it's no surprise that they are ruthless.

It's like this to base your own reliance on ever-changing people. No one remains the same. Who do you rely on?

Because they think it's your business.

If you haven't experienced the same thing, you won't empathize.

It's all the result of our choices.