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Elaine Nautica.
Concern. The fable 2113 of Zhizi's suspicion of neighbors warns us not to judge by the intimacy and estrangement of the relationship5261, if 4102 does not respect the facts, and only uses intimacy and affection1653 as the standard for judging right and wrong, we will subjectively speculate and draw wrong conclusions. Listen to the opinions of others and choose the right one, not look at the relationship between the person who put forward the opinion and oneself, and do not be prejudiced against others.
Zhizi's suspicion of neighbors is from "Han Feizi: Difficult to Say" written by Han Feizi of the Warring States Period.
said that in the eyes of the owner's family, the son is very witty, and the old man in the neighborhood is very suspicious.
Vernacular translation: Song Kingdom.
The son of a wealthy man whose house was destroyed when it rained one day said: "If you don't fix it quickly, you will surely attract thieves." The old man next door also admonished the rich.
In the evening, the rich family lost a lot of money, and the family praised the son for his cleverness, but suspected the old man next door of stealing the property.
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The lesson of this parable is that one should only listen to what is right, not by who gave it, and that one should not be prejudiced against people.
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Implication: It is very harmful to judge right and wrong by intimacy. Some misunderstandings and grievances in life come from this.
Fable: "The Song People Suspect Their Neighbors".
There was a rich man in the Song Kingdom. One day it rained heavily, and the walls of his house collapsed. His son said:"If you don't fix it quickly, there will definitely be thieves crawling in. "The old man next door also warned him about it.
That night, thieves stole a lot of his belongings.
The rich man's family praised his son for his foresight, but suspected that the old man next door might be a thief.
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Zhizi is suspicious of his neighbor, mainly because he doesn't trust the people around him, but he trusts his son 100% and makes a mistake in judgment.
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Fables are actually small stories with big truths. The story of giving away one-zero is all about telling us not to be full of doubts about the world, especially if you don't have any evidence.
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The moral of Tomoko's suspicious neighbors.
1. Objective analysis
Those who hold the same opinion are treated differently because of their status and relationship with their owners.
2. Positive aspects (from the perspective of the rich):
When listening to people's opinions, they should not decide whether there is prejudice because of their different identities and different affinities with themselves.
3. Negative aspects (neighbor perspective):
When giving advice to others, it is important to pay attention to the intimacy with others, and if the relationship with others is good and the person is broad-minded, you can give advice.
4. This story is usually used as a shallow and indescribable sophistication.
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Revealed Truth:
1. The wall collapsed, and some people suggested it but did not make up for it.
2. The loophole in the human nature of the book has not been filled, that is, in the matter of treating the thief, he chooses to approve of his son, and doubts his neighbor, and only draws conclusions based on his relationship with himself and his proximity and estrangement. This story tells us that we should not be suspicious of others because of the intimacy of the relationship, and we should listen to the words of the sages.
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