He and his boyfriend are college classmates, and it s been four years now, and his family doesn t ag

Broken is a fuse, like the gunfire in Lexington in 1770, and it's a trigger.

Not in touch for a month Maybe already married.

It's all like this, what are you still contacting, you also get married, separated from each other, and they both have their own jobs, and slowly forget about it, don't you all think like this?

He has a new love.

Go on and live your life well. For this kind of person who likes the new and hates the old, or who is just lonely at first, the sadness is not worth it.

There's a new person, it's time for you to have your own life.

Not proposing to break up is to make you feel that he exists, but let you get used to being alone, and when you slowly get used to it, you won't be hurt to break up again.

It's just that he's not a responsible man who chooses such a way to end up.

If that's the case, I think your boyfriend may have been affected by the family and wants to break off with you, and he may feel a little sorry for you, so he still contacts you, and he is afraid that the family will know, so he deliberately doesn't turn on the phone, and wants you to slowly notice it and slowly cut off contact, so that he has no psychological pressure, such a person is very irresponsible, you should think about it.

Accept the reality, stop contacting him, and live your new life.

If you think he is someone who can accompany you for the rest of your life, then be firm and fully support him. If you think you deserve a better trust or are under too much pressure right now, talk to your boyfriend about it, and it's up to you to break up or agitate.

But the girl still has to think more about the reality factor, life is not a fairy tale, we still have to have enough ability to withstand unpredictable storms.

In the dead of night, I always want to find a tranquility, find a space to be alone, and then let my thoughts drift with the wind, and escape for a while in the tranquility of cranky thoughts. When the soul can't bear the load of life, it can only send a signal to the sky that it is tired, too tired, and this feeling of tiredness is not something that ordinary people can imagine. Every day, I want to find a bridge of peace and tranquility in my soul, however, it is really difficult.

From the day people are born, they are destined to accompany a lifetime of emotions and unsatisfactory life, fate is doomed, if you want to change your fate, you have to contend with all the misfortunes and ups and downs, choose the appropriate escape, that is just useless futility. Escape may sometimes be just a minute, or you can only get a minute of silence, or maybe in the tranquility suddenly realize that people can't live too tired. I often comfort myself in this way.

There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Maybe I'm just a philistine. Why look for tranquility in anything?

In fact, I want to hope for peace, in this extraordinary and bad day this year. I reflected and reflected. Most of the time I don't understand what I'm doing.

Kind of life. Kind of always tugging at people's minds on certain days. When it comes to the tranquility of seeking, everyone expects to have this moment.

For me, it may feel a little heavier in moments of solitude, but it's not absolute. Sometimes, although people are in a noisy and noisy environment, but the heart has already flown to the realm of not knowing what kind of, I often smile on my face, and I have seen through all the complicated things in my inner constancy.

Summary. Hello dear! I'm Yixin, the emotional answerer, and I'm happy to answer this question for you.

Tell your parents directly, you're 21 years old, you're an adult, I don't think your parents should interfere with your friends! Hehe, work is important, but love is also important! If there's something you really like, just talk about it, it's nothing, and if they don't let you talk about it, won't you talk about it?

Maybe there is nothing you like, no one can stop love when it comes, if there is a good one, seize it, and decide your own things!

I'm 21 years old and graduated from college, and my boyfriend has been together for two years, and my parents know about it, but they just don't agree with me to play with him and be alone with him, what should I do?

Hello dear! I'm Yixin, the emotional answerer, and I'm happy to answer this question for you. Tell your parents directly, you're 21 years old, you're an adult, I don't think your parents should interfere with your friends!

Hehe, work is important, but love is also important! If there's something you really like, just talk about it, it's nothing, and if they don't let you talk about it, won't you talk about it? Maybe there is nothing you like, no one can stop love when it comes, if there is a good one, seize it, and decide your own things!

Okay, oh thanks, I just don't know what to say.

Is it still there. How do you tell your parents so that they can understand that after all, I haven't seen my boyfriend for a long time.

First of all, it's not tough, it's meaningless. First of all, ask your mother if she is dissatisfied with this boyfriend, and you need to ask your mother what she wants from your future spouse. Have you ever told your mom a lot about your boyfriend?

It's best to talk less, and I've never seen it to be the best. I don't know how simple it is to not fit this kind of thing, the solar calendar and the lunar calendar are different, the name can also be changed, and the zodiac can also be done. If you're not satisfied with your family, it's going to be difficult.

After all, money can't be conjured. Besides, not all people are capable, and there are fake fortune tellers. You ask your mother to calculate you, when will you get married?

Wouldn't it be nice to find someone? You have to have a direction to work hard. I don't know if I'm not good, wrong, how can people change and work hard, right?

Then if you know what kind of one you want to find, then find a reason to break up. After a while, say that there is someone chasing you again, it may be the one that the fortune teller said. You think it's okay, do you want to meet first, so as not to make a mistake and waste time.

Listen to me, you're not too young now, and you shouldn't interfere too much in your family's home. Actually, there's nothing you can't say about this thing, pluck up the courage, it's okay. Sooner or later, you have to let your family know.

Not to mention that you've been with him for so long.

Say, I live with my boyfriend, I'm afraid my parents will say what about me, I told my parents, my parents are very natural, as if they have known for a long time, you are your parents' children, do you have any careful thoughts, parents will not know, maybe they already know, you don't say they didn't ask, you can tell your parents, say I talked about friends,

You have graduated from college, it will take a while to start a family, you can not tell your parents, continue to walk with your heart, maybe everything will be understood, don't bring trouble to the family, and make your own decisions!

Why don't you dare to tell your family? You've graduated from college, so I won't wait for you to hesitate.

It's okay, let it be, I really don't dare to bring it up when talking to parents.

Hehe, my boyfriend was brought out to show off, not brought back to make his parents angry.

It's time to mention it, the time you don't want to make a decision will force you to do it, let it go, it's not a big deal.

It's okay, parents don't urge to find a partner when they go to school, and parents should urge them after a year of graduation.

You don't say it now, but sooner or later you will say it, and the reason why you don't say it may be because you are afraid that your family will oppose it.

When you graduate from college, you will mention it, how long will you wait, or are you not particularly optimistic about him in your heart?

In the same place, if he is in good condition, what are you afraid of?

This is a very normal thing, and your parents won't talk about you

Let's find out the reason first, why don't you dare to mention it to your family

Sincere to each other. The door is right. — It's all easy.

Say it if you love him, and your parents will understand.

Don't dodge, sooner or later you have to face it. The question is whether you really love him

Summary. Hello dear, it is a pleasure to serve you. I want to end this relationship, right.

The teacher can understand your current mood, and the feelings that are not blessed by your family are destined to eat more hardships. Although your boyfriend likes you very much and has a tough attitude with you, after all, he is still young and has no ability to marry you a lot of money, and he can't come up with it. He won't necessarily cherish you either, because he is related to her family, and sooner or later he will forgive his family for not agreeing with your current attitude.

And you have to endure a lot of things, at least after you get married, his family won't give you a good face, and your children won't help you take them. So it's right to say that you want to end the relationship.

I have been talking to my boyfriend for almost 4 years, both of whom have graduated from graduate school and are ready to get married (let the parents of both sides meet), but the other parent's parents have been shirking, they think that the family status disparity is relatively large, and they want to find the right person. But my boyfriend is firm and clear, but his parents are also very tough, and I am very embarrassed in the middle and want to end the relationship, right?

Hello dear, it is a pleasure to serve you. I want to end this relationship, right. The teacher can understand your current mood, and the feelings that are not blessed by your family are destined to eat more hardships.

Although your boyfriend likes you very much and has a tough attitude with you, after all, he is still young and has no ability to marry you a lot of money, and he can't come up with it. He won't necessarily cherish you either, because he is related to her family, and sooner or later he will forgive his family for not agreeing with your current attitude. And you have to endure a lot of things, at least after you get married, his family won't give you a good face, and your children won't help you take them.

So it's right to say that you want to end the relationship.

I mentioned a breakup to him, but he was very reluctant, after that time he bought me a lot of things, I relented and took it, if I broke up I should have to return the things, but now I can't support it. I'm afraid I'm talking about breaking up, what should I do if he gets entangled?

So when you do something, you must think it through, and if you decide to separate, you will be determined. No matter how much he begs you, you don't look back.

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You should think about it calmly, or go to "Love Defense" for help, emotional problems are not something that others can help you.

Your behavior is very immoral, and if you want to break up, you should pay him back the tuition fees.

Then your behavior is too ungrateful, and you will throw away your boyfriend when you are done using him.

1) If you and he are each other's first love, this love must be cherished!

If not, but you haven't had an intimate relationship with another man either, then cherish it too!

In this world, the probability of a happy and long-lasting marriage is very high if these two situations lead directly to marriage.

If none of the above is true, then consider the following points.

2) Men and women of the same age, generally speaking, at the age of 24---28, a man's career has just started or has not yet started, so many women will subconsciously look at the man, and there will be a lot of quarrels and contradictions. In fact, as long as the woman is wiser, more sensible, and has a better mentality, the man's success will be faster. People have a conscience, as long as you pay silently, the other party will see it, and he will love you for a lifetime.

3) The character of both parties is also a factor for you to consider.

Of course, if true love reaches a certain level, the personalities will complement each other and merge.

4) If you are realistic and only think about material comforts, then break up.

It's easy for you to find another man with a better material foundation than him.

If you think like this every day in your heart, it's better to break up. Because forcibly pulling together is still a wound to him after all!

5) Happiness does not lie in material, nor in character, nor in the eyes and evaluations of others, but only in the attention and understanding of each other, the unique existence in each other's hearts, the truth of each other, and the love of each other! As the saying goes, it's very good: if you drink water, you'll be full!

6) Poor couples mourn for 100 days. In the real society, if you are not a mature couple or a couple who are really in love to the end, there are many contradictions and it will be very difficult in the days when there is no money.

Happiness is in your own hands, think for yourself.

Other people's opinions can only be used as references.

I really don't know what to say, your boyfriend is a child who doesn't grow up, he should also rely on you, but he may not marry you. Moreover, if he does not repent, you will not be happy when you are married. If you're done, let's cut through the mess quickly.

Married life will be dull. We must accept the reality that contradictions are inevitable and that we must tolerate each other.

Marriage is generally two people living in the same city, long-distance marriage is difficult, depending on whether you can work in the same city.

You don't have to be with someone to get married, and if you break up, you can still have a new beginning.

I wish everyone happiness and happiness!

Either go to him, or let it go, my husband is about the same as your boyfriend, I can't guess what he's thinking, I'm also tired.

If you really like him, then you give him another chance, give the two of you a chance