My ex boyfriend said that my current boyfriend was not good to me, and what it meant to tell him

Updated on psychology 2024-03-03
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Isn't it Valentine's Day today? What is not gained and what is lost will always be better remembered than it is now.

    Since it's an ex-boyfriend, you can just ignore it. But because of greed, you may want to know if your ex-boyfriend continues to like you and chat with him. Whether your current boyfriend is good to you or not, only you know best in your heart.

    Your ex-boyfriend doesn't know about you, and when he says that, he's comparing himself to your current boyfriend. However, men are generally very concerned and meticulous when they are not together, and even temporarily give up their hobbies and change their living habits. When you're together, you're not so proactive.

    But being good to you alone, and only loving you alone is the happiest thing. Your ex-boyfriend said that, and he knew what it meant. It may be that he is bored and wants to chat with a girl, or it may be that today is Valentine's Day, and it is a little sad to remember that they have lived together before.

    That's normal ha. Humans are higher animals with feelings.

    Regardless of the former or the latter, you can ignore him and have a good time with your current boyfriend. . .

    If your current boyfriend is motivated and reliable. Cherish it.

    Your questions are brief and informative, and my focus may be a little off

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I want you to come back to him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Tell him he'll be able to read the joke.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The ex-boyfriend apologized to the girl and laughed quickly, which includes all aspects of getting along. I don't love and accommodate girls enough, and I neglect the company of my girlfriend because of my work. When a girl encounters difficulties, she doesn't reach out in time to help, and she doesn't send a red envelope to her girlfriend on a special memorable day.

    The ex-boyfriend can realize that he did not pay enough attention to the girl in the past, did not take good care of him, and was apologetic, which shows that the ex-boyfriend cares about the girl very much.

    In the days of getting along, due to the carelessness of the guys, they ignore the feelings and dislikes of their girlfriends. let his girlfriend earn enough disappointment, and his heart gradually became cold. Too much disappointment accumulated, and thus despair.

    After a breakup, it was a heavy blow to the ex-boyfriend. Turning a blind eye in the face of an emotional crisis, wantonly squandering the bargaining chips of this relationship, and feeling bitter regret after losing.

    did not look at the problem from the perspective of the girl, analyzed the problem, and did not think about the girl everywhere, which disappointed the girl.

    After the breakup, the ex-boyfriend felt a faint pain in his heart, and he would always think of his girlfriend's kindness, girlfriend's care, gentleness, consideration and understanding. But time has passed, and all this has disappeared with the passage of time.

    The only thing that remains is the unforgettable once owned. The ex-boyfriend apologized to the girl, felt very sorry, and hoped that the girl would not be careful. There is still a long way to go in life, and I missed the summer flowers.

    Splendid, you can also walk into the autumn leaves quietly, and wish the girls a happy and happy life in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When your ex-boyfriend says he's sorry to you, he just feels sorry and sorry for you. However, the specific reasons for this state can only be analyzed in combination with the situation

    I've also met my ex-boyfriend who said something similar to me, I remember when I first started working, and he was introduced to me by a colleague of mine. When we first met, we had a lot of fun. But as time passes, I feel that each other's personalities have not changed coincidentally, and the nuclear key is rotten and the views on handling things are very different.

    I'm still holding on to this situation, because I believe that it's only a matter of time before I get along.

    But suddenly one day, my boyfriend proposed to break up, and he thought that the three views could not be changed. In the end, I agreed with him and chose Alexandre's peaceful breakup.

    There is no right or wrong way to break up. It can only be said that two people are not suitable, and they should be put down."

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The ex-boyfriend said sorry to Bo Xu, and Chen Xun meant either that when they just broke up, she felt sorry for Pai Yin, or she apologized for wanting to get back together with you after a period of breakup.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This may be that he has other ideas, putting his emotions on others, then there may be such a hole as a trouble, so that I am sorry for you, for example, a friend of mine has a girlfriend but he doesn't cherish each other well, and he continues to eat in the bowl and look at the pot outside, and in the end he can only shoot and scatter, regretting it to the extreme.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It may feel that he didn't take care of you when he fell in love, and he apologized to you, or he may still have feelings for you, and if you think he is okay, there is a good chance of getting back together.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Your ex-boyfriend may feel that his previous behavior is wrong, or he still has such an apology for you, so he will apologize to you directly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe now I feel that when the two of you were in love, he wasn't so good to you, and now that he broke up, he feels sorry for you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This may be what he has done to be sorry for you, and we can't do it, you say, or it may feel that you are too good to her, and she can't repay it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Maybe he hid something from you and didn't tell you, it could be something very serious, and you have to make it clear to your boyfriend.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I suggest that you better not understand the meaning of this sentence, because there is no meaning, and there is no meaning, for you it is to live your life away from him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Maybe your breakup was forced to happen, and your ex felt that you broke up, and his responsibility accounted for the majority.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The ex said that waiting for money also means that he has lost his way back, and he feels sorry for you for doing things that are sorry for you. So he said with 900 billion.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The ex-boyfriend said that he apologized to you, probably because he felt that what he did was really wrong when you two broke up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In general, don't say anything about your ex to your incumbent.

    Some people may feel that they should be honest in their relationship, so they should tell each other all their emotional experiences, such as their love process, what kind of person their ex is, what they and their ex have experienced, and so on.

    It's just that a person will inevitably have some contrasts, especially when it comes to love. Therefore, if your current person really loves you, then it is inevitable that he will have a desire to be possessive and conquering you, and when the other party learns about your previous love experience, he will inevitably think a lot, and this state of thinking a lot will affect your future relationship.

    A person's psychological space is limited, if you tell your current a lot of things about you and your ex, then when you get along with you, you are likely to unconsciously think of your and your ex's past experiences, that is, your current psychological space is occupied by your and your ex's past experiences, and in the end there is less psychological space left for you and your current one.

    For example, you tell your current position, you and your ex have been in a relationship for 3 years, lived together for a year, and both of them are almost getting married, and finally they are forced to break up because of their parents' opposition. Then your experience is likely to become a hurdle for your current incumbent to pass, because when you get along with your incumbent, he may unconsciously think of what happened to you and your ex, and worry that you are really calling your ex now?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Summary. Hello, dear, and good morning! You want to reconcile with your ex-boyfriend, and he says it's up to you to behave. Right?

    Hello, dear, and good morning! You want to reconcile with your ex-boyfriend, and he says it's up to you to behave. Right?

    Right. What he means is that if he is satisfied with your performance, you will be able to get back together. Does such a boy have a strong desire to control?

    Performance, such as what are they.

    Based on your previous interactions, what hobbies do you find in him? What do you do he would like more?

    Another thing to remind you is that don't deliberately wronged yourself and cater to your boyfriend, because this kind of relationship will not last long.

    Therefore, the relationship based on mutual respect can be lasting and stable. I wish you all happiness!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The meaning of this sentence is very simple and clear, and it is completely literal. But "Watch you perform.

    These four words, the meaning outside the word is many layers.

    Based on what you did not elaborate, I estimate that your proposal to break up was just a matter of whim, and in fact there was no serious reason for the principle.

    If so, I advise you, first of all, to "correct your attitude". Have a boyfriend and girlfriend, and the two are in an equal relationship. We should support and respect each other.

    But nowadays, many women, including you, often use their boyfriends as their Alipay, in front of maids, and even in front of "Punching Bag", often taking their boyfriends "Out of Gas". This kind of behavior is unbearable for everyone.

    There are also some women who always "feel good about themselves" and regard themselves as "Queen", "Little Princess", and "Peerless Beauty".

    Therefore, he is high, gives orders, pretends to be tender, and breaks up ...... if he is not satisfiedIn fact, my boyfriend is very annoyed by this. When you can't bear it anymore, you will "give up."

    Are you the same? Find the reason, change your bad temper, this is your "performance". Apologize to him and review yourself, maybe you can get it back.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The meaning is very simple, that is, if you and his mind are in your mind, he will reconcile with you, and the initiative is on his side, not on your side, so if you encounter this situation, I think you should be cautious in the future and don't mention the breakup first.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You propose to break up, and now you want to get back together, then the initiative is up to your boyfriend. If you want him to accept you, of course, you have to show some sincerity.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Why do we have to reconcile? In this way, it seems that you have no status in his heart, he will do whatever he wants to do to you, anyway, you are pestering him, since you broke up, don't get together again, some things will have a second and third time if they have the first time, so for the sake of more dignity, let's leave. His attitude is already obvious, and even if he is reconciled, he can't find the feeling he had before.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you repent of yourself, your ex-boyfriend will be reconciled with you, hello friends, repent, you will definitely be reconciled with your ex-boyfriend as before, and you will go to the palace of marriage as soon as possible.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

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  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Ma Su said not to care about what the other party said before the breakup.

    I think it's a problem that more than 90% of people face, but different people grow at different rates.

    The most important thing you need to know is that you must be able to stop the loss of mistakes in time, and not dwell on the relationship between what has happened and what has rotten.

    As far as I know, more than half of the huge changes in the mentality and mood of many people are due to grinding with the wrong people for too long and too long.

    And everyone's time and energy are limited, don't miss too much, say goodbye to unworthy things in time, there will always be regrets in life, and being cautious and relieving is your compulsory course.

    There are a lot of things I've said 10,000 times that don't really work, I know. Wide sensitive.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    To his current boyfriend, after talking about his ex-boyfriend, he said okay? "This may mean asking your current boyfriend if he is receptive to your mention of your ex-boyfriend or if he is tolerant of it. Here are some possible explanations:

    1.Acceptance and understanding: If your current boyfriend says:"Yes", which may indicate that he is open and understanding about your past relationship experiences. He may be willing to listen to you in peace with you about the past, without feeling jealous or resentful about it.

    2.Respect privacy and boundaries: He may think that you have the right to share your past, but at the same time want to maintain certain personal boundaries. He may be receptive to telling you about your ex-boyfriend, but it may also remind you of the importance of paying proper attention to your current relationship and mutual respect.

    3.Neutral and indifferent: His attitude towards your mention of your ex-boyfriend may be neutral, that is, he does not have any particular feelings or prejudices about it. This may be because he has a weak view of feelings and the past, or he doesn't care about your past.

    It is important to emphasize that the specific meaning still depends on the context and the individual conversation. If you want to know what he means on a deeper level, it's a good idea to talk to him directly to express your understanding of his attitude and ask him if he has any grievances or concerns. Better mutual understanding and trust can be built through open and honest communication.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    What he meant was that he wouldn't let you talk about your Jian Shi's ex-boyfriend before he stopped him in front of him. Mountains are you, this is a big taboo for men. If you talk about your ex in front of your current one, he will feel that you still have your ex in your heart and are still nostalgic for him, and he will have a very embarrassing feeling.

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Yes, that's for sure, he might let others talk about it when he was at work. He can't hold his head up, that's why it's like this. You are not right, you may be retaliated against, sometimes you can't control your anger, but you can't solve the problem in this way.