How to give pocket money to your boyfriend tactfully

There is a ** in the "post-05" describing their mate selection criteria: I hope that the boyfriend will spend 2,000 yuan to 10,000 yuan per pocket money, and he will spend half of it on me, and the family has a car and a house, and finally three cars and two suites.

Now, the oldest "post-05" is only 15 years old, but they have all listed economic ability as the first place in the criteria for choosing a mate.

It is undeniable that China's economy has now reached a certain height. The economic foundation of many families is already very good, and it has also given their children a good environment in terms of education and life. But in our "90" and "95" generation, each family has more or less certain differences.

When we fall in love at the age of 18 or 20, we don't think too much, two people like each other together, it's appropriate, and two people are naturally together. When we fall in love now, we will take into account not only the personalities and lifestyles of the two people, but also the relationship between the families and parents of both parties.

Why do we take these into account, because when we talk about this relationship, we will consider the cost of love, if we want to get married, it is not just a matter of two people, but the marriage of two families.

Boy A said; "I have a monthly salary of 5,000 by myself, and in addition to all expenses, I really can't afford to fall in love. "Is it expensive to fall in love? In fact, it is not very high, I believe that the vast majority of people can admit that there is a low-cost love law at a low cost, and a high-cost love law with a high cost depends entirely on the financial ability of the individual.

What is really high is the threshold for marriage, and many people are blocked from this threshold. Now the cost of marriage is indeed high, and an average car costs at least hundreds of thousands. Some people think that they can do without a car, after all, all kinds of transportation are very convenient now, but a house is a necessity.

In fact, this thing is a very common and generous thing, and it can be like this between couples.

Some things come naturally.

A boyfriend with high emotional intelligence will only transfer money to you when he feels that you really need it, but if you don't get along for long, he won't transfer you money easily.

1. Find a man who loves you and likes you.

This trick is very simple, but the vast majority of women have not done this trick well, and it is only manifested in the appearance of the cold and warm. To be honest, only when a man loves you and likes you in a real sense, will he be truly willing to spend money for you in a meaningful sense.

Second, men have an economic foundation and know how to spend money for their beloved.

Why it is said that it is very important for men to have an economic foundation! Let me ask you if your man only has a fixed amount of 2,000 yuan per month, how much can he give you at most? I believe that many women clearly understand that no matter how generous this man is, no matter how good he is to you, he is still very poor on the economic basis, for him he has to consider all aspects of life, and at this time he can give his beloved woman is also counted.

3. Occasionally raise your own value, and scarce things are expensive.

No matter what time she insists on believing that a woman who is easy to send and gives money will have her fate doomed, so no matter what the occasion, Mr. Chen will advise female friends to know how to raise their own value, and don't see the so-called good man who can't walk.

Fourth, know how to sacrifice to make men cherish you.

To be honest, there are too many female friends nowadays, when looking for a man to take money, they always only know how to ask men for money, and when they don't need it, they run away, and they only come to him when they need it, which gradually makes men disgusted with this kind of woman.

5. Occasionally coquettish men in moderation.

Coquettish women will make men love half to death, and women who know how to be coquettish will often let men see poor women and feel pity, so at this time men are willing to give you money to spend.

Hello, in this case, the best way is to express your request tactfully, rather than directly asking the other party to transfer money. You can start with a polite politeness, such as "Hello," which will show your respect. Next, you can make your point of view clear, such as "I have been having some financial difficulties lately and I would like to ask for your help".

You can then go into detail about your situation, such as "I have had some financial difficulties lately and I need a sum of money to pay for my tuition, or to pay for my medical expenses". Finally, you can digress and say something like "I'll pay you back as soon as I can, and I'll appreciate your help." In short, you should try your best to express your request in polite language to show your respect.

Summary. It's not good to ask for money, so when we buy something, we can ask our boyfriend to pay for us, and the money lent out can be indirectly asked for back in this way.

The value of the payment is determined according to the boyfriend's income level. The boyfriend has a high income, and the price of a single payment can be slightly higher. If the boyfriend's income is low, then the price we need him to pay on his behalf should be relatively low, using a small number of times.

Otherwise, it is beyond his financial scope to pay the price on his behalf, and even if he wants to, he will not be able to do anything.

How to trick your boyfriend into giving pocket money.

No need to call it euphemistically, just hint that he is still good. You go shopping with him, and when you buy something and pay for it, you say, "Oh, there's only money left, I'm going to eat instant noodles this month!" Or maybe he asks you to play, go to dinner and watch a movie or something, and you say no, and then say that there is only xx money left, and then talk about some places where you need money.

He's smart, he knows.

I just got with him.

It's not good to ask for money, so when we buy something, we can ask our boyfriend to pay for us, and the money lent out can be indirectly asked for back in this way. The value of the payment is determined according to the boyfriend's income level. The boyfriend has a high income, and the price of a single payment can be slightly higher.

If the boyfriend's income is low, then the price we need him to pay on his behalf should be relatively low, using a small number of times. Otherwise, it is beyond his financial scope to pay the price on his behalf, and even if he wants to, he will not be able to do anything.

Summary. How to ask your boyfriend for money: tactfully or indirectly lead him to a place where he uses money.

He is willing to spend money for you, you should make him willing to spend money for you, this is your communication skills and the way to ask for money. When a woman is with her boyfriend, there is no need to be too restrictive; If there is any need, what is the need, you must let your boyfriend know. If you really can't speak, then take him to the place where you want to buy clothes, and after you see it, just ask him to pay; Generally, the man who loves you will definitely pay for you at that time, and only those who don't love you will turn around and leave.

How to ask your boyfriend for money: tactfully or indirectly lead him to a place where he uses money. He is willing to spend money for you, you should make him willing to spend money for you, this is your communication skills and the way to ask for money.

When a woman is with her boyfriend, there is no need to be too restrictive; If there is any need, what is the need, you must let your boyfriend know. If you really can't speak, then take him to the place where you want to buy clothes, and after you see it, just ask him to pay; Generally, the man who loves you will definitely pay for you at that time, and only those who don't love you will turn around and leave.

He bought me a lot of stuff and I just wanted money.

You can tell him you don't have any money to spend.

Nor can it be said directly, and it is implied to him.

If he likes you and wants to give it to you, he will give it to you.