Post 90s MM, please come in and ask questions about love

First of all, I'm 95, and no one knows what she thinks except herself.

The main thing is to know what you think, if you want to have fun, forget it, don't waste your time, money and feelings with that girl, but if you are serious, you should be bold to chase it, no matter what the result is, you have worked hard, so that even if there is no good result, you are worthy of yourself.

Well, to add, it seems that your cases are too few to infer at all, and if there were more cases, I might still know some of her thoughts.

Is that all?

If I say it in front of you, I probably don't like you.

Generally, if a girl has a boyfriend and likes other boys, she will be very shy about her boyfriend.

I advise you to give up, but if you really love her, I still say that, boldly chase it, and don't let yourself regret it.

She should have some inferiority complex, it's possible that she has been secretly in love with you before, but she has always felt that she is not worthy of you, after you confess to her, she thinks you just want to have fun, and she is afraid that she will promise you but hear you say that you broke up, this should be the most likely, but if you are not sure that she likes you, don't believe this too much.

Forehead. Suddenly, the girl's mind is a little hard to guess, and sometimes I can't even guess my own mind, Xixi, a little embarrassed to say, but ah I think, the first thing you have to figure out is whether she likes you or not, you can first ask a girl to help, pretend to be with that girl, and tell the person you like, you have a girlfriend, you can't text with her or something, and then see how she ......reacts

If she likes you, she will react a little, but if her reaction is to tell the girl that you used to like her or something, then she is purely to you, and to put it nicely, she is lonely to ......play with you

Because she doesn't reflect in front of you but behind your back, it means that she doesn't want to make things big psychologically, and her sabotage behind her back is purely a manifestation ......of the girl's unwillingness to be chased, and then the person being chased is unwilling to chase others

If she doesn't react, you're even more hopeless......

If she has any other reactions that I didn't expect, you can come to me and I can help you analyze ......it

Why don't you give it a try......

I don't think they just want to have fun.

People of different generations have different attitudes towards feelings. People in the sixties and seventies, they take feelings very seriously. They feel that if they identify with a person, they have to live with that person until they grow old.

But times have changed nowadays, and people's perception of feelings has also changed. Nowadays, some people have a short relationship period, and when they start a relationship with a person, if they feel that there is something wrong with the other person, they can easily break up.

Some people find that the relationship period of the post-90s generation is very short, and some people break up after a few months of talking. Some people feel that they behave like this because they are not serious about their feelings, they are just having fun. I don't think so, in fact, some people take their feelings very seriously.

When the post-90s generation is in love, they also give sincerely. There is also a relative in the family, who is also born in the 90s. He fell in love with a girl when he was in school, and then fell in love with her.

At that time, the family was very opposed and wanted him to study hard, but the child just couldn't listen. He was desperate for love, and I think he was sincere for love at that time.

When they start to get along with each other, they are also genuine, and they don't just want to have fun. When the post-90s generation is in love, they are also full of longing for love. They also give their hearts to each other.

Although they have no fantasies about growing old with each other, they really like each other in the process of falling in love. They are also willing to give more for each other, so they are not just having fun when they are in love.

Their relationship period is very short, because they can't tolerate some things, and they have different views on relationships. The love period of the post-90s generation is very short, because when the post-90s generation encounters some things, some people can't tolerate some things. himThey don't want to put up with some things, so they easily choose to break up, but that doesn't mean they're just having fun.

What do you think about such a thing? You are welcome to share your thoughts below.

No, mainly because the children of the post-90s generation are very willful, and they don't have a correct concept of love, so the love time is very short.

It's not that they just want to have fun, it's just that they don't take their relationship seriously, they can easily break up, and there is no way to stay together for a long time, so the relationship period is very short, and there is no way to stay together all the time.

They don't want to have fun, it's just that they are too young, so they don't cherish their feelings very much, so it will lead to a particularly short relationship period.

Tell me, I have a crush on you, let's get married.

You still have to communicate more with your girlfriend, even if you can't speak, it's not bad for you to give a little surprise from time to time, but you can't always spend money on her, otherwise others will treat you as a big wrongdoer. The premise is to find a good girlfriend who is really willing to live with you.

Love is a two-way emotional exchange, it is the admiration of two hearts, it is the joy of two feelings, and it is a spark of soul and soul collision. If two people love each other, they don't need to deliberately change themselves to please each other. If she (he) doesn't like you, it's useless to pursue it no matter how deliberately you try to pursue it.

If you really like each other, it's too late to like it, and you need to be desperate to please them? Even if you impress her (him) with sincerity, the affection you get is a little reluctant, she (he) did not accept you so much, it must be that some of your conditions are not so in line with her (his) requirements, moved by your momentary actions, but after a long time, if she (he) meets the ideal person in his mind, it is difficult to guarantee that she (he) will not change his mind. But it is often said that:

I can't live if I give up on her, I love her (him) very much! In fact, this idea is ridiculous, in life, who can't live without it? Without whom, the earth cannot turn?

Unless you really don't want to live anymore, no one can stand in your way. Often, what we think is the "only" thing is not true, it's just that we don't bother looking for it. True love stems from the heartfelt admiration for each other, and is based on mutual affection.

Anyone who is crazy about loving others without caring whether he is loved or not, or who is only interested in taking and not knowing how to give will not end well. How many fateful people will be encountered in a person's life? Those who love you, who you love, all pass by one by one.

But the only thing you remember the most here is your first love. Experiencing the sweetness of love for the first time is deeply imprinted in my heart, so that the conditions of future friends are all based on ta. Maybe you still have the love letters of the year in your mailbox, every word is hard for you to forget, and when you can't continue to love, you can only turn it into family affection.

When I see him again, I won't have the urge to do it again. A feeling in the palm of the hand and the back of the hand. What you don't get is the best.

People are often like this, what they get is not cherished, they pursue a person for a long time and fail to get it, they feel the mystery of it, and they can't see his embarrassment. The heart is always a perfect image. Therefore, it is cherished and precious.

What do you get? After a sweet love, the transition from the perfect image period to the ordinary. From strange to familiar, and even a few moles on the body, they all say that the long vulture bed is desolate and the wonton is slashed?

The precious thing about love is not passionate love, but the ability to accept ordinary life. Women will love men 100%, but men will always have room to love, when one day the man said to the woman: you have to keep 30% to love yourself, the woman cried, because this sentence is too late, 100% has already been paid.

Even if love is gone, life goes on, happiness and eternal fortune are in the future, but fate may be in your hands. Love is a duty, not a feeling; Please don't talk about love easily! Promises, promises for the future, If not sure then please don't promise!

Happiness is directly proportional to sorrow! Every love creates a myth, and love is mythical. Adopt it.

The post-90s generation has already got married and had children, as for falling in love, it's not whether it should be done, but is it necessary?

Because there is actually no problem in falling in love, whether it is 00 or post-90s, it is really wrongful to be crowned as "early love".

Who hasn't had a relationship in their youth? Youth is also beautiful because of it. There are also many benefits to falling in love, which can make people gentle and grow up!

But more or less will have some impact on life, the post-90s should focus on academics, and most importantly, falling in love is not the same concept as finding a partner, looking for a partner is to really want to settle down after adulthood, start a family, and find a reliable other half to spend the rest of your life with. And falling in love is more like a relationship unique to youth, it can flourish forever, but it is always short-lived.

It's hard to define it with whether it should or shouldn't, no one can prohibit the right to love, so I think it depends on the individual to fall in love, if you long for a gentle and considerate person to accompany you to spend your youth or even grow old together, then love boldly!

You are the real decision-maker.

There are still many things that the post-90s generation should do. It's not just about love.

If it's time to fall in love, that's what you should do.