My ex is sick and hospitalized, and my heart is fragile, should I visit?

In our lives, but in our emotional world, there has always been a very special person, and that is the ex. There used to be a very sweet life between the two of them, and sometimes there was always no way to get rid of the influence of their ex. If your ex is really hospitalized because of illness, is very vulnerable, and wants to seek comfort on your own, you can consider several aspects before deciding whether you should go or not.

1. Think about the reasons why two people broke up. At this time, you should think about the reasons for the breakup between two people, if two people are just because of some small contradictions and frictions in daily life, and two people can't really tolerate each other and cause a breakup, then you can go to see each other, because this relationship will still have a chance to reunite and room for redemption. But if the other party broke up because of a matter of principle, then never look at the other party again, and never follow the other party, there is any relationship.

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Second, look at the other party's state. If the other party is already in the state of having a girlfriend, but comes to harass the ex-girlfriend again, then such a person has a problem with his character, and he has to seek comfort again, the best way is to refuse, and never associate with such a person again. If the other party is still single, they still have a heart for each other, and they still can't forget each other, then go to visit each other, and in this process, through getting along with each other, maybe there will be room for reversal in this relationship, and two people can also realize more through breaking up.

3. Look at your own mind. If two people have been thinking about each other after breaking up, and the other party is not very at fault, and they still love each other, then they can visit each other. But if you don't want to have too much to do with the past, then you can generously refuse, and there is no need to have any contact with the other party.

You shouldn't visit, because it's your ex after all, and visiting them may affect your relationship with your current one.

You shouldn't visit, because that would disturb each other's lives and be unfair to each other's current positions.

I think I should pay a visit, after all, it's an ex, and although I can't be a couple, I want to show my concern.

You should go to visit, after all, people's hearts are flesh and blood, not to mention that there has been such a relationship between two people, so it is reasonable to go.

should be visited, after all, two people are not enemies, they can't become husband and wife because they are not suitable, but they are also affectionate.

Of course you should go, after all, two people have had such a relationship, and it is impossible to be indifferent.

No, since you are already your predecessor, you should break it cleanly, so as not to cause unnecessary trouble to the current one, and besides, the fragility of the predecessor's heart is not caused by you.

I think if the other party is still single, it is better to suggest that you should still visit, after all, two people have loved each other and still have feelings.

Now that I have become an ex, I think there is no need to greet him, because the two have become strangers, from the day of the breakup, there is no need for the two people to contact, so there is no need for the ex to visit when he is sick, if there are some people who have a better heart, if they want to see their ex, it is also okay, after all, two people have loved each other, so this also needs to look at personal emotions.

1. After breaking up with your ex, you blocked your ex.

After breaking up with the ex in life, the two of them have no feelings, so at this time, they also help their ex to block, and they will not know all the information about their ex.

Second, since two people have broken up, they have no identity to see each other.

In life, we don't have that identity to visit each other after we have broken up with our ex and he is sick, so there is no need to do more at this time.

3. If you have a good relationship with your ex, you can also go and see it.

If you break up with your ex and the two of you still maintain close contact in the future, you can also go to see your ex, after all, the two have always been in contact.

So in life, for many girls, after they break up with their ex, they will no longer have anything to do with it, so after the breakup, they will not have information about their ex, so they will not know the news of their ex's hospitalization, so for many girls, they may not visit their ex, because it is also more affectionate.

We also need to look at feelings rationally, we also need to look at our personal feelings, if our personal feelings have not forgotten their ex, but also love their ex very much, you can also visit your ex, after all, if two people are single, they can also be reunited, if you have no feelings with your ex, there is no need to see.

I won't, because we're already separated and I don't have anything to do with him anymore, so there's no need for me to greet him.

No, because the ex is a familiar stranger, and the two have no relationship, so they should not be disconnected.

I shouldn't say hello, because I don't have anything to do with him anymore.

Don't say it's an ex, even if it's an ordinary friend, colleague, neighbor, or neighbor who is sick, I think you will definitely show your concern and help. Not to mention your ex! He's the one you once loved, after all!

Since you asked this question, it means that you are very kind in your heart and at the same time very happy.

I think it can be divided into several situations that need to be paid attention to in the way of the way:

1. If you are still single after you break up, then you can directly express Hongrent's concern and help, it is one thing for him to accept it, and it is another thing for you to express whether you express it. But under normal circumstances, patients must be very grateful for your care and help.

2. If he already has a girlfriend and you are still single, then it is necessary to consider whether his new lover is an enlightened and generous person, and whether there will be unnecessary misunderstandings due to this, you can first greet and tell him through his friends or family.

3. If he is single and you already have a new lover, then explain the situation frankly to your lover, and believe that your current one will definitely accompany you to visit.

4. If both parties have a new relationship, it will be better to solve it, and you will be more calm and sincere when you go to visit them with the current one!

Since it's the ex's chaperone, it doesn't matter if you have it. If you're single, it doesn't matter if you take care of it, because that's what you don't have to do. If you have a current friend, you have to consider the feelings of the current one, whether you should discuss it with the current one, take care of it without discussion, and whether it will hurt the current one.

Of course I'm going! Although it is said to be an ex, I think you must have those previous loves, because you can't just be together. Since you still had such a good time together.

You must have been very happy at that time, too. There was such a good time. It must be good for you to be together.

Then you must remember how he felt about you. I'm sure you still have some memories of her now. So he's very sick now.

You can go and see him as a friend. Of course, you don't have to be embarrassed. An ordinary friend, as an identity, he will definitely be very happy.

After all, he saw that you hadn't forgotten your original affections, and he was able to insist on coming to see you. She's going to be very happy, and your visit to him shows your generosity. didn't refuse to be friends with him because of some embarrassment before, and refused to continue dating him.

After a breakup, you don't have to be friends. Can this be done? It depends on your heart.

As long as you have a generous heart, you can forget your unhappy past. You can still remember some of his kindness to you, and when you were together, he cared for you. You're going to stick to him.

After all, those once good things still exist.

Choose to visit him! Even if it's an ordinary friend.

to visit him. After all, he is seriously ill, and his heart must be uncomfortable. I can comfort him if I go.

Don't be afraid of the gossip. And don't be afraid of those people say that after the breakup, they will not get along. After all, when you are together, he knows you very well.

He knows what you like, what you hate, and what you're interested in. It must be very good to have someone who loves you more and someone who understands you, although it is said that lovers can't be so ordinary friends.

If he or one of you already has an incumbent one, you don't want to go, and if you go, it's a blockage. If you're single and he's still single, it's okay to go and see. Just as if you have known each other after all, it doesn't hinder anyone to visit now.

Anyway, it's just a simple greeting, since you want to go so much, you have this wish. Anyway, you can't spark at this time, he is not in this mood, you should also find a healthier one, it can be regarded as fortunate to escape a disaster.

If he already has a current incumbent, you don't have to worry about it. Because if he is unmarried, he has his family to take care of him, and an unlucky incumbent. You snicker, what are you going to do?

Go and wait for the current one to show you the face, or will the bloody drama that slap you twice? This not only affects his mood to regulate his body, but even aggravates his condition. For the safety of your own life and the harmony of society, you should stay at home obediently.

I couldn't help it, so I went to the temple and asked for one to sign for him. You'll have peace of mind. Getting seriously ill is not a trivial matter, there will be sequelae, you may not be able to bear it, since you have broken up, it really has nothing to do with you!

In his opinion, are you a weasel giving a New Year's greeting to a chicken or what? Beware of his changing temperament and kicking you out.

If you already have a current one, you shouldn't go. Because you are a drunkard, not in wine. Whoever you are in psychology will have a pimple and a knot, so why bother?

You should cherish the sunny and handsome present, instead of remembering a sick past. It doesn't do you any good at all, and it also directly hurts the fresh incumbent and touches his sensitive nerves. As for women, the fewer exes the better!

If you are depressed, it means that you and your ex should not have been "seriously hurt", but only you know whether she is still in love with her.

Should I see it? If you want to see you when you are seriously ill, this can be considered.

One more key point, do you have an incumbent at the moment? If there is, don't look at it. Suppose that the ex is critically ill and wants to see each other, this individual thinks that he should go. If it were me, I would have visited if I had never felt a deep hurt or hatred. Otherwise, they will not go.

If you don't have an incumbent, you still have feelings for your ex, or you feel that there is still a possibility of rebuilding the old relationship. Then give yourself a chance, it's nothing. Go for it boldly!

Sometimes the fate of two people will also have a different ending through a serious illness? Anything is possible.

Also, is it the ex who takes the initiative to see you? Or do you want to visit after hearing the news? If it's the former, go for it if you want! If it's the latter, then ask your own heart. You should understand this, do you still have to guess by others?!

There is nothing to do with this kind of question, only whether you want to or not.

Let's just say that my ex, if he is seriously ill and wants to see me in the end, I will not simply say that I will definitely go, this is not hard-hearted, nor is it unsympathetic, but I don't have any feelings for my ex, and neither party has ever been hurt. Whether he is good or bad has nothing to do with me. It doesn't go well with compassion or not.

But if you sincerely ask, of course you will consider it, after all, although we have no regrets, we can't let the other party leave regrets. And that comes back to compassion.

So, what kind of experience do you have, what kind of mentality you have now, and when you face such a situation, you have to ask your own heart. Don't leave any regrets behind. Because there is no regret medicine to buy.

I'm also thinking about myself when it were me, would I have gone to see him? Subconsciously, if it was the end of life, I thought I would go. for he has not hurt me, and has no hatred in his heart. So, I'll go.

If you break up peacefully, I suggest that you can still look at it out of morality; But if you're breaking up with each other, there's no need for it.

The relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend is actually quite contradictory, first of all, the deeper the love between two people, the greater the possibility of hurting each other when they break up, and secondly, they can always think of each other's shortcomings and various faults for the first time when they break up, and finally the relationship between two people in the sweetness of love is completely different from the relationship after the breakup, and sometimes friends cannot become. used to be a friend who was more familiar with her for work reasons, and her previous boyfriend was a year younger than her, and he took the initiative to pursue her; At first, the friend was reluctant to further develop the relationship between the two, because she didn't like the sibling relationship very much, but in the end she lost under the magnificent appearance. But it didn't take long for the two to break up because he was too attentive and couldn't find anyone from time to time and didn't like to go back**, and even often went to nightclubs to spend all day drinking; So the two quarreled, which later led to a breakup.

It didn't take long to learn from the man's colleague that her ex had a serious car accident some time ago and is still unconscious in the hospital, and she has been struggling with whether to visit, but the two people who broke up hated each other so much, afraid that others would not appreciate it in the past and even laughed at her; Later, after all, she fell into a deep relationship, so she decided to ask the man's colleague to help bring a carton of milk and a fruit basket.

Although she didn't go to visit him, she also chose a polite response, after all, the two had loved each other so much; However, if each other broke up peacefully, there is not much contradiction, but it is only found that the other party is no longer on the same level of thought as you, which will cause you to want to break up and find the next partner; Then you can visit him, and as a former friend, you should simply care about each other.