It s been more than three years since the breakup, and my ex boyfriend should have completely forgot

Updated on psychology 2024-04-26
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Now that you've broken up, you have to let go completely, not to mention that you already have a boyfriend and he's not bad, so why bother with whether your ex-boyfriend still loves you. Even if your ex-boyfriend still loves you, what are you going to do? I don't think you need to be obsessed with it all the time, and the reasons for the breakup are all found out to make you die, and you don't have to care.

    I think what you should care about is your current boyfriend. Don't dwell on the past.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't give him a chance, empathetic men are the worst, because they don't study well, is this the reason for breaking up? Excuse it, as for the bad temper, if you really like one, I should talk to you first, landlord, I think the most cherished thing in life is not what you haven't gained, and what has been lost, but the happiness in front of you, because he missed it, and the current boyfriend, is the most pity!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First love is always unforgettable, if it's because of your own, then work hard and make him regret breaking up with you. And now that you have a boyfriend, don't think about him anymore, would you mind if your boyfriend thinks about other women?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The first love is hard to forget, but you can't forgive him for everything!! Give it up!! Your current boyfriend is good to you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You're still not confident enough in yourself Oh, maybe he doesn't want to worry about your future, and he doesn't have the courage to let you do well after graduation.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't need to pay attention to him at all... At least he's not worth cherishing... My ex-boyfriend is just like him...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Didn't you completely forget?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Now that it's all over, why do you hold on to it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After a breakup, they became friends because they never loved each other; After a breakup, they still regard each other as friends because they still want to care about each other; You can't be friends after a breakup, because your heart is really hurt!

    Hello landlord! I'm also a woman who has been hurt the most by the man I love the most! We fell in love and lived together in college, but after graduation, he got along with his sister because I had to travel a lot, and later broke up with me.

    Although it has been more than three years since the breakup, and I am still a single aristocrat, I still can't forget him. I watch his blog every day and reminisce about the old days. Recently, I know that my sister dumped him, and I have been waiting for this day, waiting for him to be dumped by the person I love and cherish the most, so that he can personally taste the torture he brought to me, when I know his sadness, my heart is soft again.

    Recently I know that he is in love again, with a new woman, oh my God, it has only been a few days since he broke up? Women are like that, they will never forget the person they love sooner than a man.

    You must know that once a man changes his mind, it is like a different person. It doesn't matter if we still love them or hate them, it doesn't matter anymore, because love becomes hate, it's love and hate!

    All we can do is live our lives well and live better than him! Such a man will not have a good marriage!

    You must know that in the kingdom of love, there is no one right and who is wrong, only who does not know how to cherish whom! We all have to love ourselves well, be filial to our parents, believe in our own feelings, and like our own lives!

    Finally, I wish you a happy marriage!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    People say that time is the best medicine for wounds, but the reality is very harsh. If you really love someone, you may not be able to forget it even after a hundred years. I think that if you want to get out of his world, you have to create a new world, a two-person world that belongs to you and another person, maybe when you are busy building this new world wholeheartedly, you will slowly forget the one who once hurt you, and at the same time, your new world will let you know that without him, you will still live a happier life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Start over and find a better one.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It can only be said that you are not rational enough, so it is difficult to give up. Everyone has emotions the same. I can't forget it, it's just that it's not long enough or the new love isn't good enough.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm like you, except I'm a man. Some time ago, I suddenly ran back to Guangxi from Guangzhou and gave her an unexpected greeting, you are surprised that I will find her, we talked a lot, and finally exchanged a new mobile phone number, I now have time to call ** to talk to her, she is also very happy, I want to keep going like this, don't pierce this piece of paper. I also suggest you give him a surprise greeting, maybe he is thinking about you and doesn't want to bother you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    As long as you know someone, you will never forget it, and any hint can be remembered.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Time will make you forget and start a new relationship.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Buy a few clothes and shoes to wear! Confidence adds up! With self-confidence, you will start anew.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Find a new boyfriend and start over

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Take sleeping pills, or imagine the ugliness of what happens after you are done with it!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When you are looking for a new boyfriend, it will slowly fade, and you can't forget it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Actually, everybody thinks about the same thing, but it's important to shift your focus and put your mind to work or study, or start over.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    - To be honest, are you really contrived, saying that you broke up without feeling anything, and gave people a chance to explain and understand?

    If you are dissatisfied with others, you use the breakup as a bargaining chip, and then you run to find others, hurting yourself and others, I don't know what you got from it?

    Then blame him on what happened between you, and if you really want to resist, your actions are against the animal's emergency response.

    But I'm sure you didn't think about it before you went.

    Your ex-boyfriend will think that he will find me when he needs me, and kick me away when he doesn't need me, and he will learn from the pain and be relieved when you don't know it, and you are still thinking about it, the cause is just your naivety, I think he can use this to ridicule his friends, it is really revenge on you, from the reaction of his friends that night, it must be that he talked to his friends after falling out of love, and then with the encouragement of his friends, he decided to take revenge on you for coming out of the shadows, although this is against morality, But your sentence of not feeling it is really a misunderstanding of your own making.

    There are more such people in society, just take a long time, don't live in the past, he has already reached the stage of revenge, and you are still thinking about the love story between you, and your reaction is too slow.

    You made it clear, I read it, sometimes people have delusions, subjectively, you subjectively think that you can let go, objectively you can't let go, and then there will be a situation where you run to find someone else to get back together, you subjectively think that you are breaking up for him, objectively he thinks that you hurt him, just play. It took so much time to answer, you didn't express your gratitude, and the kindness of others seemed to be taken for granted, so if you don't agree with this sentence, it doesn't matter, anyway, what do I think? My answer is just to let you recognize the current situation, as the original intention and motive, don't be stupid to be hated and revenged, and think about getting back together.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Must forget! What is there to be nostalgic for this kind of man, after all, the two of you are better, no matter what the reason, you can't say bad things about each other's privacy and when you are separated! Say it and you're a villain!

    Ruining your ex-girlfriend's reputation, scumbag! Stay away from such people, you don't need to explain to anyone, the clear ones will clean themselves! Hopefully you'll find that one soon.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Even if you know, it's not very possible, because after all, it's been so long, you can't forget, maybe he has forgotten!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Explain that you have not found a better one than him. If you just can't let go of him, go talk to him. See how he reacts.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If he's single now, then you're going to get him back. If not, give up! The next stop is better!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    "It has not been verified"Illustrates that at first he may not want to disturb your life or not like you disturb his. "He actually added me" means that he may be starting to think about you. "It's been a week since I was added, and I haven't said a word" shows that he may not know how to face you.

    This is when you should probably take the initiative.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I understand your current mood very well, it is true that you have been in a relationship for five years, and now that you are parting ways, you will inevitably be a little reluctant in your heart, which is normal, and it just shows that you have invested sincerely in this relationship.

    However, for your boyfriend to find a new sustenance after breaking up with you for half a year, it does not mean that he was not emotionally invested in you before. Everyone's way of dealing with feelings is different. Some people treat feelings quickly, they come and go quickly, and they may be very involved when they talk, but when they are really separated, they may recover themselves faster.

    At the same time, it is not entirely his reason that he broke up and got married after half a year, obviously he has now reached a marriageable age, and he still has the urging of his family behind him, under this pressure, in the case that he does not feel the slightest future of your emotional future, it is normal for him to choose to find someone to marry.

    You are sad not that he is getting married, but that you are understandably angry that he chose the next sustenance so quickly.

    The beauty of life is not entirely about having, you have experienced five years of relationship with him, you have sincerely devoted and loved, and finally broke up, which shows that you are indeed a little inappropriate, and these problems can be contained before you get married, which is lucky. Although we have broken up now, leaving some regrets, many times the experience of life is precisely because of regrets and makes our lives richer, so that we are more mature, I believe that you have experienced the baptism of feelings in the past five years, and have become a very mature and rational girl, so that you can better face the future life.

    If you really love him and love him, then bless him, letting go is also a kind of beauty, but also a kind of love for yourself. In the same way, your choices are also very broad, take care of your mood, travel light, and believe that you will be able to find the other half who makes you happy in the near future.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Kindness. I can understand your feelings, after all, you have been together for so many years, and you are both in different places, it is precious to be able to maintain this relationship for so many years. It can also show that the relationship between you has a deep foundation.

    Although you have broken up, you must still be very concerned about each other in your hearts, just like you are now, even if he broke your heart at that time and forced you to choose to break up, but you still care and care about his every move, you are not angry with his person or marriage, in fact, you are angry because he ignores your feelings and feels that your feelings pass so easily in his eyes, and you still have not let go of your feelings.

    Of course, you just broke up for half a year and he chose to get married, there are many possibilities, maybe your breakup also hurt his heart, because after all, you have been together for four years, sometimes men and women think very differently, but the attitude towards feelings is the same, otherwise they will not be separated from each other, and they can stay together for four years. So he must also care about your relationship very much, but since you broke up, everyone must continue to look forward and find another happiness for themselves.

    Especially you, no matter what reason you chose to give up this relationship at the beginning, and you broke up for half a year and didn't start over, at least it shows that you haven't experienced ups and downs in maintaining this relationship, so if you experience the next relationship, it should be an experience, after all, you can't choose to escape when you encounter problems, and you are mature now, so you will definitely be able to find the happiness you want quickly.

    Wishing you all the best in your life.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It will take about three or four years for me to come out of the shadow of my ex and find love again.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It probably took me a year to forget about my ex, after all, I used to be in love.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It takes a long time to forget about your ex, and then it fades slowly.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    After breaking up with your boyfriend and having a new boyfriend, you can forget about your ex.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It took me three months to forget about my ex, and I forgot about it when I had a new love.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Generally speaking, it takes a year or two, but of course some people forget it quickly.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Find something to get busy, and then go get a big meal and have a good meal and sleep beautifully, and it's okay slowly, as for how long you say it will take can only depend on each person, as long as you mediate the pressure in your heart.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Time will make you smooth all your wounds, and a new relationship will make you forget about pain and be happy.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Then the pain will try again to see if it can be reversed, I really can't do it and I don't regret it, at least I work hard, and it won't hurt so much after a long time.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Is she good to you? If you often beat you, scold you, and deliberately get angry, you should have broken up a long time ago, think about her bad hatred and you'll forget her earlier.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    The person you love will never forget, even if you find another one, sometimes you will remember it from time to time.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Look at your body for a week and forget.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    There's no need to be upset about something that doesn't belong to you.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    This is not necessarily, and some people forget it after a long time. Some people will never forget it.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Three years together, once broke up.

    Since the two parties are still concerned about each other after the breakup, why did they break up in the first place?

    Everything is a contradictory unity!

    For example, when sunlight hits an object, the sunny side is bright, while the back side is dark. The sunny side will not be separated from the back side because of the darkness of the backside!

    If you and he always don't get along, you won't be together for three years. It's normal to have contradictions in speech and communication, if no matter what you say or what suggestions you make, he can only be submissive! If there is a disagreement between two people because of their different views on something, it means that he still has the ability to think independently, and if you want to stifle his right to think independently, then it is your fault!

    Differences of opinion can be slowly resolved through communication, and finally reach a consensus of opinion and eliminate differences.

    The family said that he achieved nothing and was stingy, because you are all young now, and the entrepreneurial stage has not yet begun, how can you conclude that you will achieve nothing in the future? As for being stingy, it means that he is very diligent and thrifty, and he does not spend money lavishly. It's hard to find such a young guy who knows how to live with a lantern!

    If you still have him in mind, hurry up and make peace with him! What's more, people are still as good to you as ever after the breakup.

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