Is it useful to raise children? Is it useful to raise a daughter?

I think the first question you asked, I don't know what your inner question is, or what your state of mind is. If you don't know this, then the follow-up may not solve your inner doubts, but I just want to talk about my thoughts.

1. The usefulness of raising children, I think that most people will be familial or socialized when they see this topic, and the usefulness is what is good for you or what is good for the social family. To put it simply, raising children is an urgent need to revitalize this society, this family, and you as a person. Children are the future of a family, a society, a country, without children, without people, everything is a floating cloud!

2。You may say that these things are about me, I just want to be happy to be myself, and I don't care about anything else. So I'll talk about the changes that raising children has brought to you personally, of course, not necessarily useful.

What do people work hard for all their lives, and what is the meaning of life? No matter what you do, I think it is inseparable from knowing yourself and knowing the world.

So what does the child represent? Life is a part of the world, you have experienced a lifetime of life, and then your child will let you know life from another perspective, know strength, know love, know giving, know tolerance. Isn't this the greatest cultivation of humanity and character for you as a person?

Is it useful?

Take myself as an example, as a son since I was a child, I only had myself in my heart, what I wanted to eat, what I wanted, I just had to ask my parents, I wanted to go far in college, look at the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, customs and customs, I only had what I wanted in my heart, and my role was only a son.

Then I became a dad, I have to work hard to earn money to support my family, I have to work hard to be efficient, I have to spend time with my wife and children in the colleagues who have increased my income, etc., etc., think about what a mom and dad do for the family and career, is this what you can do as a family when you don't have a family? Is it useful?

It's useful to like children, but don't trust them to repay you and enjoy the parenting process.

I didn't think about it, I didn't think about what they needed to do to raise a child.

I just want my children to feel worthwhile when they come into this world.

Let him feel that life is promising, feel happy, happy, this is what I expect.

May he traverse the mountains and rivers and feel that the world is worth having a heart of kindness, integrity, optimism and positive life.

As a daughter, I have the privilege to discuss with you whether it is useful to raise a daughter in the spring?

As a daughter, no matter how good the dishes are, it is rare for parents to come over to eat a meal of calling friends, and every time I return to my mother's dining table, I see what I like to eat, when I need someone to take care of it, I will find it when I don't recognize it when I grow up, but when I am in my mother-in-law's house, when I spend money from childhood to adulthood, when I grow up to make money, and I am in my mother-in-law's house, a woman dedicates the best life of her life to her mother-in-law's family, but you may not necessarily move her mother-in-law's family.

A woman does not owe her husband in this life, nor does she owe her in-laws, let alone anyone, but she owes her mother's family, the parents who gave birth to you and raised you, they gave birth to you and brought you to the world, not for return, but for appreciation and dedication.

When you never understand and do not understand, and slowly become understanding and filial, you will find that your parents have a lot of gray hair, and there are many more wrinkles on their faces.

Parents work hard to raise their children, and they don't need their children's day and night protection, all they need is care!

After becoming a family, parents take the same care and care for one over the other, and what they lose is not only their promise, but also the thickness of their feelings.

It is natural to be good to parents, regardless of the needs of either parent, as a child, you should do your best within the scope of the economy, actively pay, and be a good example for your children. The so-called "100 good and filial piety first", there will be a return for paying, and there must be a good reward for kindness.

The advent of a child is the beginning of a family's happiness, and the parenting of parents is the responsibility and happiness, and expectation is the best blessing, to be an ordinary father and mother, to look back at the parents' gradually gray hair and wrinkles at the corners of the eyes, all of which are depicting the traces of the years, as well as the results of parenting, "time is beautiful, flowing between the fingers".

Conclusion: "On that day, you and I became husband and wife, you are my family, we will bear difficulties together, enjoy blessings together, repay benefactors, and set a good example".