What is your state at 20 years old? What is the situation now?

At the age of 20, junior year, the most restless year in college was also the most comfortable. At that time, the pimples had not yet disappeared, and while analyzing the principle of the S-R trigger on scratch paper, I would scratch the pimples at the same time. Now that I have a family, my child has just been born.

Struggling on the road to graduate school, I am extremely irritable and depressed with all kinds of regrets about the time wasted in the past, and all kinds of uncertainties about the future. Later, he was admitted to Peking University for a master's degree, and he has been staying in Beijing to develop, and is still in the imperial capital.

At that time, I was obsessed with Japanese literature, and the bookcases at home were full of books by Haruki Murakami, Keigo Higashino, and Yasunari Kawabata. The family conditions are okay, so my father sent me to study in Japan, and I am still studying in Japan.

When he was sixteen years old, he came out to serve in the army, and by the age of twenty, he was already studying in a military academy in the northeast. Every day in addition to classes is training. Later, I returned to work in the county public security bureau and has been at home ever since.

I went to the factory to move steel, worked until I vomited, drank a refrigerator of water a day, slept in the office in the middle of the night, and went to the most disgusting toilets, which caused me to get used to all grades of toilets now. Now being the manager of a small company is really hard-won.

When I was a freshman, I was still in school, and I gave my classmates bursaries in my class, played clubs, organized activities, went out to climb mountains together, held environmental exchange meetings, and went to Guangzhou for meetings, and I was glad that it was a free trip. Now that I'm 24 years old, I'm facing the dilemma of finding a job.

A sophomore, young, ignorant, simple and sluggish, collided with the workplace elite in the office building outside the school. Still waiting for the last bell to ring at noon like in high school, I immediately rushed to the cafeteria with a jingling lunch box to line up for food. Now I have returned to my hometown to become a teacher, and the salary is good.

In fact, there is no difference from just graduating from high school, except that the glasses are darker, and the shoes are more difficult to buy (size 46) in reality, and the Internet is incomparable. Nothing has been accomplished.

At that time, it was a baby who had never been out of the county, with strong self-esteem and extremely introverted children. As soon as I was admitted to university, I left my hometown and went to a distant place, and now I have graduated and worked in a technology company in Beijing, which is quite smooth.

Beipiao worked, rented a house, and went to study at night. I can't catch up with the girl I like, and I'm sad. Hobbies are not understood by others, no one wants to know, and lonely. God is very unfair, I am almost 28 years old, and I still don't have a double harvest of love and career.

20 years old is a vibrant age, and there are many things to look forward to:

1.Full of live Tong capacity and vitality.

20 years old is the beginning of a person's transition period, life has a great pursuit and expectation for the future, Jianliang has a vibrant mental state and a positive attitude towards life, can grasp every opportunity and challenge, to constantly explore new possibilities.

2.Life is at a turning point.

The age of 20 is a critical period when a person officially leaves adolescence and enters adulthood, at a turning point, we need to face more responsibilities and challenges, and we need to start facing important decisions in life such as work and marriage. At this time, at the critical moment of choosing a journey, if you can make an informed decision, you can lay a solid foundation for your future.

3.In good health.

Generally speaking, the age of 20 is the best period of life and health, usually the physical fitness is relatively strong, there are not too many disease problems, and it is easy to maintain a healthy state.

4.Growing up and experiencing the future is full of wheels.

20-year-olds begin to officially move from student life to professional career, with different development opportunities, including work, study, travel and other options, which can lay more foundation for future growth experiences.

To sum up, it is not difficult to see why people are willing to go back to the age of 20. The age of 20 is an important turning point in life, when a person begins to formally face life, with infinite possibilities and opportunities, so people want to be able to go back to that time to reinvent themselves and better grasp the future.

In the adult world, the ideal always comes second, and the reality comes first.

This epidemic has made me think a lot.

1.You have to have a house of your own, be able to cook, read, have wifi, and express delivery.

2.You have to have enough savings, so that you can't pay off your mortgage or credit card if you don't go to work for a few months.

3.Know the importance of health, exercise more and improve immunity.

4.You have to have a partner who has the same three views, take care of each other, and share your daily life.

5.Eat out less often, and use chopsticks for dinners.

6.Whether you are sick or not, wear a mask and wash your hands more often in public places.

7.When it comes to food, know what you can eat and what you can't eat.

8.Work, the first choice is what you love.

9.The world is impermanent, danger is everywhere, where you want to go, go as soon as possible; The scenery you want to see, see it as soon as possible, and do the things you want to do as soon as possible.

10.Only when you can shine can you warm the people around you. Finally, please be brave to live and be brave to love everyone around you.

If you are in your 20s and still don't want to save some money, and you are still in the moonlight clan or even reaching out to the party, I advise you to reflect on yourself. Since graduating, you will feel that time flies very fast, a year, two years and three years, just like that, you may think that the deposit is something that people over 30 years old should have, and if you are poor, when you are 30 years old, the money will not fall from the sky, you are still reluctant to buy 500 yuan of clothes, or the poor ghost back then. There are a lot of peers in a circle, from time to time I will still compare, to see what level I am in, the reason why I like money is because I know that there is no suffering from it, don't look down on or hit anyone around me, it's better to be practical than anything, I admit that people have huge ambitions, if you want to achieve it, it will take endless energy, luck, time and money, and even fall short, but don't be afraid of failure, don't be afraid of responsibility, don't be afraid of hardship, after all, that's what you insisted on. Time passed unhurriedly Looking back, I could hardly remember anything that could make me feel uneasy, and life became more and more silent.

Seriously, now I don't even bother to raise my eyelids except for my family and money.

Like to pay attention, thank you.

20 years old is an age that is easy to get confused and arrogant, because at the age of 20, I am facing infinite possibilities.

In my 20-year-old opinion, at the beginning of college life, love and club activities are the most important things in life. What do you want to do in the future, start a business, or develop yourself? Do you want to continue your studies, or do you want to contact your employer in advance for an internship?

What are you kidding, there are still two or three years for me to prepare slowly, what is the hurry! Looking at the night sky, talking and laughing, just happy and free. At the right time, come across one that can bring you enough.

That person, we will plan the future well, and plan to complete each journey, and finally. ...

I haven't met you, and I won't suffer from a boring sense of depression. Maybe you'll be in love with the other half. I dream occasionally, put on headphones and listen to familiar rhythms.

What is out there has nothing to do with me. If you don't like it, you leave, and if you like it, you stick to it. No one can influence my life.

I didn't want to go out all day long because of some trivial things, I couldn't go far away, and I lived a life of boiling frogs in warm water. No one shares when you're happy, no one understands when you're sad, and you just make do with it.

Is it the end of life, or the beginning of tragedy? I lived for 10, 20, 30 years, and the only thing I gained was to have lovely children, and nothing else mattered. Including my own soul, other things, none of my business.

If you don't like it, you leave, and if you like it, you stick to it. No one can influence my life.

Inexplicable memories, inexplicable yearning, inexplicable sadness, many inexplicable insomnia. But no one paid any attention. Nobody understands. I can't find a person who empathizes, I can't find a person who pulls out my heart. In the face of reality, only the humble and ridiculous self remains.