How to communicate in a marriage without feelings, and how to live a marriage without feelings

It's the same ( but I'm already on the road to divorce, I hope you don't be like me.)

An emotionless marriage should be treated in this way.

1. First of all, you have to think clearly, after all, people will become, sometimes you feel that there is no emotion, it is not necessarily that you really have no feelings, it is because of the surrounding environment and long-term habits that make you feel like this, so when you feel that you have no feelings with your husband, you still need to think clearly.

2. Find a time to spend with your girlfriends or family members, talk about your situation, tell them what you think and what you really feel, and ask them to help you analyze what you should do next.

3. The bell still needs to be tied to the bell, and the emotional matter still needs to be solved and dealt with by both parties, so it is very necessary to have a good talk with your husband to see what the other party thinks, see if the other party has anything to express, and give each other a chance.

4. Calm down for a while, let yourself stand in the perspective of an outsider to look at your marriage, look at your husband, maybe you can find that many things are not as bad as you imagined, even if two people have been together for many years, the other party can still find a lot of advantages.

5. Give yourself a vacation, take a break from work, think about your life and family feelings, think about your parents and children, whether there is a chance to start over, after all, feelings can be cultivated, not to mention the people you once loved.

1. Cultivate feelings again.

The relationship between people needs to be cultivated, how difficult it is for two people to enter the palace of marriage, and they have experienced a lot of ups and downs together to be able to come together. We must cherish each other's friendship, and if the relationship is gone, it can be cultivated again, but if the family is gone, it will be difficult to have it again. So don't give up, the two slowly cultivate their relationship again, and marriage is the second process of love.

Feelings need to be carefully managed, and feelings that are not managed will not go to the end.

2. Don't think that breaking up will bring you happiness in the next term.

In many marriages, if you don't have feelings, you don't want to continue. Some people will think that this marriage has failed and there is no need to continue. Pinning your hopes on the next and the next relationship is completely wrong.

People who think like this often have a failed relationship as well. So don't have this kind of thinking in marriage, every relationship is not easy to come by. Find a way to manage your marriage well, rather than choosing to give up.

3. Find memories and move each other.

Since the husband and wife can enter the palace of marriage, it shows that the husband and wife still have a certain emotional foundation, but the relationship has gradually been worn out with the passage of time. As long as the two of them can regain the beauty they had at the beginning, they will definitely be as sweet and happy as they were at the beginning. Looking for the beautiful feelings at the beginning, so as to influence each other with actions and prove each other's sincerity, this can not only warm up the feelings for yourself but also make the feelings last forever.

Emotionless marriage ending.

1. Two people "live alone" under the same roof

If two people in a marriage want to continue this state of marriage, they will also come to an agreement: they will not interfere with each other and will not interfere with the freedom of the other half. In this case, it will become a "solitary" life living under the same roof.

2. If you have no feelings for a long time, you can only divorce.

Loveless marriages end in divorce. There is no emotion for a long time, there is nothing to talk about, and it is extremely embarrassing to live under the same roof, so you can only divorce. It is also a matter of time before you don't get a divorce for the time being.

We've been married for six years. I was also proposed to marriage in a daze, and when I got married, I felt that there was nothing to love or not to love, that is, people who could get married. After so many years, I feel more and more that he is the most right person.

Yes, he is the one I love the most. Of course, I can't accept a marriage without love. Think about it, two people don't even have the cornerstone of their marriage, so how can they maintain it?

How can you support yourself for a lifetime?!

Actually, I wasn't too sure if I really loved him at the time, but I just thought, well, it's nice to live with him. Two people have the same three views, and their living habits are also very similar, and when they encounter things, they will spend it hand in hand with each other. So when he proposed to get married, I didn't think much about it and agreed.

And I don't feel like I'm sloppy at all. Come to think of it, there's nothing wrong with living with him, and it's good to live like this all the time in such a state of life and lifestyle. So we went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a marriage certificate.

In fact, now that I think about it, this is love. If there was no love, how could he marry so unhesitatingly. If you don't love it the most, how can you give your life to each other without hesitation.

I'm not a very emotional person, but I can't tolerate a loveless marriage. I feel like it's unfaithful and a betrayal of marriage. You don't love him, why do you choose to live with him?

For money? Can money know cold and hot? Can money give you a lifetime?

Can money give you care and love? It is very painful to have love and no money, but having money and no love is simply purgatory on earth! Anyway, I can't live such a life, every minute and every second feels tormented!

Life is so vast, why should you be entangled in your footsteps by material?

Of course, everyone has different requirements for marriage, and I just said how I felt. Everyone has their own choice and decision-making power, their own life, take advantage of it!

An emotionless marriage is quite painful, so why bother.

A marriage without feelings can face the following challenges and consequences:

Lack of intimacy and emotional connection: Marriage is built on love and intimacy. If there is no affection between couples, there may be a lack of deep emotional connection and intimacy. This can lead to apathy, loneliness, and dissatisfaction between the husband and wife.

No common interests and goals: Affection is the basis for shared interests, goals, and values between couples. In an emotionless marriage, there may be a lack of common interests and common goals, leading to a tendency for both parties to live apart and separate.

No support and emotional security: In an emotional marriage, couples support, care and understand each other. In an emotionless marriage, this lack of support and emotional security can lead to quarrels, apathy, and feelings of loneliness between couples.

Psychological and emotional stress: Maintaining an emotionally unemotional marriage can be psychologically and emotionally stressful for couples. They may feel unsatisfied, frustrated, and unhappy, which can affect their health and well-being.

Affect the atmosphere of the children and the family: If the couple does not have affection, this can have a negative impact on the children and the family atmosphere as a whole. Lack of love and intimacy between parents can affect a child's growth and well-being.

Consider divorce: In an emotionless marriage, couples may consider divorce in pursuit of better happiness and contentment. Divorce is a major decision that can be financially and emotionally challenging.

While every marriage will face different challenges, feelings are an important part of marriage. Building and maintaining a relationship requires effort and commitment from both parties. If there is a lack of affection between couples, couples counseling or other professional help may be considered to resolve the issue, or in some cases, the viability of the marriage may need to be reassessed.

If a marriage is built solely on an economic basis and lacks love and emotional support, it can make couples feel increasingly distant from each other. In this case, couples may become detached, lonely, or even find that they don't have much in common or hobbies, resulting in a lack of common topics and ways to get along with each other. In this case, couples may experience long-term psychological stress and exhaustion, and may even suffer from mood disorders such as depression.

In addition, marriage has only an economic basis and lacks love and emotional support, which can lead to a lot of conflicts and conflicts between couples. Couples may question each other's actions and decisions because they don't know each other's emotions and needs and motivations. In this case, conflicts and quarrels between couples may become more and more frequent, eventually leading to the breakdown of the couple's relationship.

In addition, the lack of love and emotional support between couples can affect the growth and development of children. Children need a harmonious family environment and emotional support between parents to shape their personality and values. If the relationship between the couple is unstable, the children may feel uneasy and lonely, and even have behavioral or psychological problems.

In short, marriages that are built on an economic basis and lack love and emotional support are often not long-lasting. Couples should work together to achieve consensus not only financially, but also emotionally to build a deep relationship and commitment to create a harmonious family environment and a good marital life.

1. What happens if you get married and don't have children.

Not having children does not violate the law, mainly depends on your own feelings, of course, you must think about it, there is no regret medicine to take in this matter And this is a matter of the two must communicate well, and now those who don't want children are still starting to have, the main thing may be that the pressure is too great, and they dare not take responsibility Consider it well, whether you want it or not is a kind of life There is fun in it

II. Determination of Economic Compensation for Divorce.

According to Article 1087 of the Civil Code, in the event of divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by agreement between the parties; If an agreement is not reached, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and in accordance with the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children, the woman, and the innocent party. The rights and interests enjoyed by husbands or wives in the contracting and management of family land shall be protected in accordance with law.

Article 1090 of the Civil Code stipulates that in the event of a divorce, if one party is in difficulty, the other party who can afford it shall give appropriate assistance. The specific measures shall be agreed upon by both parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment.

3. What is the amount of financial compensation for divorce?

Financial compensation for divorce is financial compensation for the spouse who has contributed more to the family life in the marital life. The amount of compensation to be given and the method of payment shall first be determined by the two parties through negotiation; If an agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a determination in accordance with the principle of reciprocity of rights and obligations on the basis of ascertaining the property status of the husband and wife and the circumstances of one party's additional obligations.

1) The benefit obtained by the party who pays less obligation. The benefits obtained include not only tangible property values, such as income, acquired properties, etc., but also intangible expected benefits, such as diplomas, licenses, professional titles, and intellectual property rights that have not yet been obtained. In determining the amount of compensation, consideration should be given not only to the value of the tangible property obtained by the party who has paid less obligations, but also to the value of the intangible expected property benefits and benefits derived therefrom.

2) The amount of the obligation paid by the bridge party. Financial compensation for divorce is a restriction on the separate property regime for husband and wife. This determination of the amount of compensation based on the intensity and time of the housework and the amount of assistance to the other party is in effect monetizing the value of the housework and assistance work.

For this reason, the cost of purchasing the same amount of housework from the market and the cost of hiring others can be taken as a reference factor.

3) The property status of the parties and their financial capacity. If the other party's financial capacity cannot meet the requirements of the indemnified party, even if a high amount of compensation is determined, it is meaningless in practice because it cannot be realized.

It's better to let this thing be.