Talking about older leftover women, should they get married for the sake of getting married?

No, a girl is losing money if she marries any man, and if you want to live comfortably for the rest of your life, then don't step into marriage.

It's hard to knot, and it's hard not to knot. knots, can't find the right one, don't knot, get older and more stressful. The tide of marriage urging is stronger than the wave. What's the matter. But you really can't be confused because of the rush.

I don't recommend getting married for the sake of getting married, I don't recommend getting married for love, I don't recommend the existence of an idealized marriage, I don't recommend that you think of yourself as worthless because you're old, because that kind of marriage is too miserable.

I don't think the bar should be lowered. If you can't get over this hurdle in your heart, you won't be happy if you force yourself. After all, everyone wants to marry someone for the rest of their lives. Since this is the second reincarnation in life, why don't you be kind to yourself!

Shouldn't! Being able to marry love is the dream of all girls, and the pressure of real mortgages, car loans, etc., is in front of people, and the attitude towards marriage is no longer as pure as in the past.

Of course not, to put it mildly, everyone has selfishness, and women are the same, with a family and children, the next ten or twenty years will have to pay all, this is a responsibility, but it is also a responsibility that you can choose not to bear or postpone the responsibility, no one can restrain you at the age of 25, marry for the sake of life.

Shouldn't! Can't leftover women live a good life on their own! As I grow older, my experience and experience have increased, and it is good to enjoy life by myself.

Anyway, it's left, don't fall in love for the sake of getting married, enjoy love, don't be confused by the people and materials in front of you, finding true love is the key! There is only one life, enjoy life, don't get married for the sake of getting married, you want to get married for the sake of love, love is built on a material basis, don't trade in the wind and snow, firewood, rice, and fumes are life. Older leftover women are not ashamed, marry for the sake of getting married, give up on themselves, wronged themselves, and will live a hateful life!

Sisters, don't get married for the sake of getting married, otherwise how many people will be trapped.

Sometimes I really want to deal with it, but I really find it, I find that I really can't deal with it, it's really contradictory, I envy other people's tedious life, and others envy my freedom, why doesn't marriage have a fixed formula like a mathematical formula, why are there so many variables.

Even if one day when I run for the third day, I haven't met the right person, I won't just find someone to marry in order to get married. If it was casual, it would have been found a long time ago, so why delay until now.

The answer to this question is, of course, no, in real life, everyone's understanding of "good marriage" is different. The "match" here refers not only to the equality of economic conditions in the initial sense, but also to the spiritual compatibility of the two parties.

I don't, I'm pretty chic, and I've never been in love when I'm so old. I once liked a person who was destined to have nothing to do with it, and then I let it go. I never felt like I was going to find a boyfriend.

I just want to meet someone one day who will make me feel like I want to be in love, I want to get married, I want to spend my life with him. At that time, I didn't need to be urged by others, I couldn't wait to marry him right away and give birth to monkeys for him. Marriage is when you meet someone who wants to get married, not when it's time for you to get married and find someone.

That's my attitude towards marriage.

If men and women do not get married, it will hurt their happiness, and due to physiological reasons, there will be emotional instability in stages, and I hope that the remaining men and women can find happy partners.

In fact, I already have the answer in my heart, the same condition, some people can be compromised, some people can't, for you, the height is still not compromised, and there will still be problems in the future, which will cause you to not be able to devote yourself wholeheartedly to this relationship!

Whether an older leftover woman should get married or not should follow her personal wishes, and no one has the right to interfere with or force you to marry freely. If you want to cater to someone else, you will go against your will to have a marriage, and most of the time, this marriage will be unhappy and painful. Because you are the protagonist in your marriage, others are just spectators, no matter how painful and sad you are, others can only give you sympathy and comfort, and cannot replace your inner unhappiness and spiritual sadness.

If you psychologically need to get married, need a partner, a smart and lovely child, and a warm family, you must be brave enough to pursue marriage. On the other hand, if you feel that a person is comfortable and happy and has little interest in marriage, then don't care what others say, and don't force yourself to marry for the sake of marriage because it caters to their wishes and visions.

The rest is left, why do you want to get married.

Don't harm others, play by yourself!

Of course not, the marriage that will be settled is not as good as living alone.

Yes, a good marriage will make your life like honey! Life is happy, no one doesn't want to live a good life, pay your sincerity! You're sure to get something out of it!

The conditions for older leftover women are not bad, but it is so difficult to get married, mainly because they have life experience, their vision has become higher, and their requirements for the other half have also increased, as well as their own excellence, which has led many men to fear pursuing them.

The reason why it is difficult for older leftover women to get married is because the handsome ones already have girlfriends, and the ugly ones don't want them, the rich ones also have wives, and the ones without money are too ugly, so there is no marriage.

They are financially independent and have the ability to work, and they must not be able to look down on a poor partner.

What determines marriage is related to the right time, place and people, and it is often said that fate, when everyone has helplessness, excellent people are the same, face it calmly

The reason may be that they don't believe in love, or they meet someone they like, or they want to prioritize their careers, etc.

Nowadays, there are many women in their thirties or forties, and they don't want to get married yet, and there are many reasons why they don't get married. The reasons for this are probably as follows:

Fear of marriage.

Some people are unhappy in their original families, and their parents have a bad relationship. For example, their parents quarrel or fight all year round, and they grow up in such a bad family atmosphere, and they don't feel the happiness that marriage brings them. They are afraid that they will live the same life as their parents when they get married, and they don't want their children to suffer the same sin as they have suffered, so they prefer not to marry.

There are also some people who have seen too many examples of other people's bad feelings, such as their friends or relatives are not very happy after marriage, and this situation makes them not believe in marriage, they feel that marriage is a burden. For example, the popular life drama "Dear Child", many people said that they didn't dare to get married after watching this work. They are worried that after getting married, they will live a hard life like Fang Yinuo, giving birth to a child and taking care of it by themselves, encountering betrayal by their husband, and the child being sick.

Didn't meet true love.

It's not that some girls don't want to get married, but they haven't met the person they want to marry, they just want to marry their true love. However, some people are busy with work or have a narrow social circle, and they have not met such a person so far, so they are single.

I want to put my energy into my career.

Some girls are very rational, they know that the relationship is not solid, the person you like may leave you, and the career will not betray you, they want to have a stable career. If they have a stable career, they can also improve their quality of life. So they want to focus all their attention on their careers, and they don't want their family and married life to bother them.

The reason why older leftover women don't want to get married is that they haven't met the right person. At the same time, it is not intended to be compromised. Because marriage is a lifelong thing, it will not be happy.

Older leftover women would rather be single for a lifetime than choose a random person.

Because you can already live a good life, very happy, there is no need to find an unknown person, you don't know if he will understand you and take care of you, so it is better to be alone.

The reason why many older leftover women do not choose to get married is because their concept of marriage and childbearing has undergone a series of changes, and they also yearn for freedom, and the current economic pressure is relatively large.

Older leftover women have jobs and financial strength, and have high vision, not everyone can look at them, so don't be a full-time wife at home.