What is the difference between a man marrying a rich girl and a poor girl ?

In today's love life, too many people have a very stereotyped impression, that is, they think that girls will behave very materially in a relationship, and if two people get married, they must have a house and a car, but the reality is that men are also very materialistic. There are many men who are also reluctant to marry a very poor man, and many times are willing to marry a rich man. For men, there will be a difference between a poor wife and a rich wife in the following aspects.

First, the living environment is different. For men, if their living conditions are very good, then marrying a wealthy girl means that the living habits and consumption concepts between the two people will be more similar, because they are in the same class, and many times they can have a good run-in in this aspect. In addition, the living environment of two people is the same, so naturally there will be more topics, but for poor girls, the living environment between two people is different, which will lead to a lot of problems.

Second, the level of effort is different. For a man, if he marries a girl from a wealthy family, if he is very poor, then it is possible for him to achieve a class leap, so that he can truly get rid of his poor identity in the rest of his life, so as to live a better life. But if I marry a girl who is as poor as myself, then in my life, the two of us will only continue to work hard and struggle, which will make me very tired.

3. Families are different. A person's marriage is never a matter of one person, it is often a matter of two families, so whether the two families can really get along depends more on the quality of the family members. If a man marries a girl from a wealthy family, and his status is very different, it is likely to cause a lot of conflicts, and there will be various problems in the process of getting along with the two people.

The difference lies in the status of the family after marriage, marrying a rich girl is most likely to be the life of laundry and cooking, and the probability of marrying a poor girl drinking tea with Erlang's feet crossed is not small.

After a man marries a rich girl, many times he has to look at the face of the girl from his husband's family, and they will be stressed, but marrying a poor girl will not have this feeling.

The big difference between a man marrying a rich girl and a poor girl is that he may have more run-in in life.

The differences are as follows:

1. Since birth, poor girls and rich girls have been different, and the starting lines between each other are very different.

Rich girls can be carefree every day, and even enjoy things that are happier than others every day, can eat expensive food as much as they want, and do what they want without worry, because they have a strong backing behind them.

However, because of the refusal of her family, poor girls not only cannot enjoy the happiness of childhood, but also have to bear the pressure of adults in advance and face all kinds of heavy responsibilities in life.

2. The difficulty of making friends with high-quality people of the opposite sex is different.

In addition to their own good conditions, girls from wealthy families also have a circle of interpersonal communication around them that many people envy, which is a resource that they are born with ease, and it is also a high-quality network that many people work hard to accumulate. In such a good environment, they are also more likely to have access to good people of the opposite sex than ordinary girls, and they can naturally find high-quality boys.

Of course, girls who are born in general can also counterattack, such as relying on themselves in the early stage, improving themselves to let themselves enter the circle of excellent people, and they can also slowly attract the opposite sex with good conditions later, but they will not get these as simple as rich girls, but have to go through a process of "self-improvement".

3. Different personalities.

Rich girls never understand why she can get what others can't get, they don't complain about life, because they are rich, everything in the world is the first and the best.

On the contrary, when poor girls were young, let alone eating, drinking and having fun, what is more serious is that the clothes are left over from their brothers and sisters, and they want things very much, but they dare not open their mouths to take them, because they know that if they open their mouths, not only will they not get it, but they will also be abused, and poor girls will often be more resolute, very the surface, carry everything by themselves, and do not say a word when encountering things.

4. Self-confidence is different.

If a girl comes from a poor background, then she will always have an inferiority complex in her heart. In terms of dealing with things, they will seem very cowardly, dare not express their opinions, for fear that others will poke at their pain points, and more exaggerated opportunities will unconsciously become other people's followers, obey others' arrangements, and dare not complain.

But a child from a really rich family, her every move is down-to-earth and generous, cheerful and decisive, there is a thing to say, others are not right to point out directly, there is no need to be afraid of other people's eyes, she is a person with her own personality.

5. Different ways to make friends.

Poor girls have really suffered too much when they are poor, and if they do achieve something in the future, they will become very important to the existence of money, and even lose a lot of good opportunities or many like-minded friends.

Saving too much money and not being willing to spend it on the right people is a wrong behavior, which will make the poor girl short-sighted and unambitious.