Are you in favor of nursing home care? Are you willing to go to a nursing home when you re old?

This varies from person to person, the elderly themselves are willing to go, then choose a suitable one to send, and the elderly are unwilling to care for the elderly at home. My husband and I told me that if I can't work in the future, I will go to a nursing home, at least have a chat with my peers, and don't cause trouble to my children.

The old man has a strange personality and lives in a nursing home lonely, is bullied, some old people can't understand the language, when the time comes, they are sulky, they don't live long, only at home, let him go out to relax when he is unhappy, and the quality of education in the nursing home is not so good

When people are old, don't be too recognizant, you should happily go to the nursing home, there is a car there, pick me up,

If they can't take care of themselves, they are willing to go to a nursing home, and they can't bear to drag down their children, they also have their own lives.

It's miserable, I won't let my parents go to a nursing home, whether it's my parents, or my parents-in-law, I will personally accompany them and take care of their old age.

It's up to you.

In favor, Wuhu Yixinyuan Pension Center is very good, I have been to see it.

I think that if there is someone in the family who can take care of the elderly, of course, there is no need to send them to a nursing home, but many only children, or children in other places, they can't stay at home to take care of the elderly, so it depends on the individual situation.

Not everyone can go to the nursing home, the retirement salary is low, and the children are not good if they don't gnaw on the old

Some children feel that it is a shame to send the elderly to a nursing home, but I don't think so. When you go to a nursing home, you can chat with the elderly of the same age, play cards together, and maintain health together, and there is a saying "out of sight and out of mind", every day with your children, you will quarrel, and go to the nursing home to be clean. It is best for children to choose a nursing home with better conditions for their parents, and visit them regularly, if their parents feel lonely, they can take them home for a period of time, and then go back to the nursing home when they are bored.

Also, you have to follow the wishes of the elderly, and if you go with it, you will be happy and you will live a long life. Let the elderly rest assured, material is not worried, spiritual pleasure is filial piety, where it does not matter much.

You must go when you can't take care of yourself, the child is stressed enough. But I didn't save enough money, 10,000 yuan a month, not counting medical expenses, so bear with it first!

The current management of nursing homes is not standardized, the nurses have a bad attitude and misbehave, and they forcibly ask for money with the families of the elderly, and they also speak ill of each other, and if they don't give it, they will do less; Therefore, from a personal point of view, it is safer not to go to a nursing home as much as possible, and to care for the elderly at home.

No matter how good the nursing home is, it is not as good as the family to take care of it.

After I retired, I accompanied my father alone as a daughter, and my father did not interact with the outside world, but only wanted me to accompany him to play mahjong at home. '

I'm a 78-year-old man. There are pros and cons to home-based institutional care. No one can replace anyone.

It has nothing to do with approval, it is forced by age.

That approval is a must, this is the progress of society.

I agree that children at home can't stay at home every day, rather than stay at home and be bored, it is better to go to a nursing home, at least with playmates.

Don't go until you have to.

I really want to go if I have the right one, I like to eat big pot rice.

Yes, parents will face the elderly, with the characteristics of geriatric diseases, children are difficult to care, children are also busy, it is good to go to professional pension institutions, and many foreign countries are popular.

Resolutely disapprove, the parent's nurturing grace can never be repaid. Have family affection at home, casual. As long as the old man is happy, he can do whatever he likes.

Our parents raised us young, and we raised our parents old. This is also one of China's fine traditional cultures, and it is also what sons and daughters with a conscience should do.

I won't send my parents to a nursing home, my parents don't worry about who to serve, only I can rest assured that I can only rest assured if I come to serve me personally, think about how my parents raised me, I have the confidence to give them a happy old age, and at the same time I also tell my children, how I raise you, you will raise me for the elderly.

I think whether to send the elderly to a nursing home, depends on their own environment, if there is someone in the family to take care of the elderly, of course, it is better, the elderly can also feel the warmth of family affection, but if the children of the family have to go to work, no one to take care of the elderly, I think there is only to send the elderly to the nursing home, there must be someone to take care of.

I don't approve of it, it's better to care for the elderly at home. Some time ago, because I was going on a business trip abroad, I really couldn't help it, so I sent my parents to a nursing home, but when I came back, my parents had lost weight significantly. They don't eat well at all in a nursing home, and it's not in their own home, and they must be very unaccustomed to sleeping or something.

It is true that the nursing facilities in the nursing home are relatively perfect, but everyone gets along in the nursing home, which is more of a form of friendship, not a form of family affection, and when people are old, what they need is a kind of family warmth and emotional comfort, which the nursing home does not have, so in this case, even if she guards her old house alone, she will not go to the nursing home.

It is true that the nursing facilities in the nursing home are relatively perfect, but everyone gets along in the nursing home, which is more of a form of friendship, not a form of family affection, and when people are old, what they need is a kind of family warmth and emotional comfort, which the nursing home does not have, so in this case, even if she guards her old house alone, she will not go to the nursing home.

It is true that the nursing facilities in the nursing home are relatively perfect, but everyone gets along in the nursing home, which is more of a form of friendship, not a form of family affection, and when people are old, what they need is a kind of family warmth and emotional comfort, which the nursing home does not have, so in this case, even if she guards her old house alone, she will not go to the nursing home. It is true that the nursing facilities in the nursing home are relatively perfect, but everyone gets along in the nursing home, which is more of a form of friendship, not a form of family affection, and when people are old, what they need is a kind of family warmth and emotional comfort, which the nursing home does not have, so in this case, even if she guards her old house alone, she will not go to the nursing home. It is true that the nursing facilities in the nursing home are relatively perfect, but everyone gets along in the nursing home, which is more of a form of friendship, not a form of family affection, and when people are old, what they need is a kind of family warmth and emotional comfort, which the nursing home does not have, so in this case, even if she guards her old house alone, she will not go to the nursing home.

It is true that the nursing facilities in the nursing home are relatively perfect, but everyone gets along in the nursing home, which is more of a form of friendship, not a form of family affection, and when people are old, what they need is a kind of family warmth and emotional comfort, which the nursing home does not have, so in this case, even if she guards her old house alone, she will not go to the nursing home. It is true that the nursing facilities in the nursing home are relatively perfect, but everyone gets along in the nursing home, which is more of a form of friendship, not a form of family affection, and when people are old, what they need is a kind of family warmth and emotional comfort, which the nursing home does not have, so in this case, even if she guards her old house alone, she will not go to the nursing home.

There are two main ways to provide for the elderly in China. One is the traditional family pension, where children provide some necessary conditions for the elderly. The other is to wait for the elderly to feel that they are getting old and choose to go to a nursing home. Both methods are fine, and below I will compare the advantages and disadvantages of the two methods:

1. Family pension. This is the most traditional and popular way for the elderly in China. The old man has worked hard all his life.

Now they're older, they're retired, and their kids are older. They may also have young grandchildren or granddaughters. They can enjoy the life of the next family and live in peace.

However, the main question that the elderly should consider for the elderly is: "Do you have a reliable economic income, whether you succeeded in educating your children ideologically and morally when you were a child, and your current physical condition." "These three points are the main points.

It's about the quality of your life at home. No one wants to be a burden to their children when they are old, hoping that they can continue to help them through the rest of their lives, and no one wants to put up with the indifference and blindness of their children.

2.Nursing home care methods. There are also some elderly people who choose to spend their old age in nursing homes. There are generally three reasons for this:

I'm in good health, but I've been working all my life and I don't want to spend the rest of my time with my children and let them continue to take care of them and work harder. They want to live their lives, have time at their disposal, and really live for themselves.

I am not in good health and my children are too busy with work to take care of themselves. So I don't want to be a burden to my children. So I chose to live in a nursing home.

3.People who don't have children or die young have no choice. I couldn't take care of myself, I was afraid of being alone. But fortunately, my own economic conditions are good, so coming to a nursing home is also an inevitable choice.

Therefore, I personally tend to go to a nursing home.

I can't accept it.

The wife is not the standard for the elderly, but the perfect match for the elderly, even if it is for the elderly, you must cherish the wife. The old age without a wife is the old age of helplessness, and the people who are extremely close in their later years are still the old man. There are almost no old couples in nursing homes, which shows that the old couple can achieve home care.

In order to achieve home-based care, if you don't have a wife, you still need to use your voice and autonomy to find an old partner as soon as possible while you are not old.

Caring for each other with your wife can help each other, and you can ask for warmth from each other, so that your busy children can save a lot of heart and effort, otherwise, whether it is a big thing or a headache and brain fever, you need to trouble your children. Being considerate of your wife will not only make you feel comfortable in your heart, but also in your body. There is no choice for nursing homes, and there will be a variety of choices to achieve retirement with your wife, and life will be hopeful on the basis of a head.

Your old house should not be ** as much as possible in your lifetime, at best you can rent it, so as to leave a back road for yourself, and the back road would rather not be able to go or not. Then you need to buy or rent a house near your children's home, and the specific purchase or rent depends on your financial strength, so that you can take care of each other with your children, if possible, it is best to be in the same community with your children, so that it is more convenient to take care of each other.

Reasons in support:

First, nursing homes have a more comfortable and scientific environment.

Today's elderly people are nothing more than living alone, living with their children or nursing homes. There is science** By 2030, the proportion of empty nesters will reach 90%. Many children go to other cities for development, and the elderly stay in their hometowns, and nursing homes can provide scientific care for the elderly; There are always contradictions between two or even three generations of people living with their children, and when the elderly want to go to a nursing home to stay away from these contradictions and pursue freedom, why not agree?

Second, the choice of parents should be trusted:

Trust that your parents' decisions are well thought out. The elderly have experienced too much life in their lives, and when they choose a new life and choose to go to a nursing home, their children should not deprive them of their right to choose. Just as children expect their parents to respect their choices, the elderly are like old children, and they want their children to respect their choices.

Is it necessary for the elderly to pursue happiness under the knees of children? How many elderly people help their children take care of their children, buy vegetables and cook, is it really what she likes? This is just a stereotypical value created by society for a long time, and they limit the way in which the elderly pursue happiness.

So when parents say they want to go to a nursing home, don't kidnap them with stereotypical values and let them choose the way they like.

Thirdly, a nursing home is not a prison :

A nursing home is not a prison, and it is not a one-way ticket. When parents offer to go to a nursing home, why not support letting them try it? If you live well, you can live all the time, and if you don't live well, you can go home.

This is not a road of no return, the way of retreat is always there, why should you resolutely block a road?

Reasons for not supporting:

First, there is a lack of companionship and affection

People who choose to get married and have children are people who value family and family affection. These are established values that do not change suddenly when you get older. Such elderly people offer to go to a nursing home, many times simply because they feel that they are no longer needed by the family.

They choose not to cause trouble to their children, and choose to voluntarily leave the family they have lived in all their lives and go to an unfamiliar nursing home made of money. is like Ma Weiwei said: "If you send him to a nursing home, you will exile him from the family."

Just as no one can replace the position of parents in the development of children, no one can fill the affection that children give to their parents. Although the nursing home has caregivers and companions, they know that there is no love in it, only enough money.

Second, the economic burden is heavy and the conditions of nursing homes are poor

The fees of nursing homes are very high, even ordinary nursing homes cost three or four thousand a month. In addition, there are some caregivers, pocket money for the elderly, etc., which is not an easy thing for a middle-class family. The top rich don't have this problem because they can hire a caregiver; Really poor families don't bother because they have to live.