Tell me if you will send the elderly to a nursing home?

No, I think of my grandmother, who has 3 sons and 2 daughters. At the beginning of this year, I was sent to a nursing home, because my uncles didn't want to take care of me, and they didn't want to spend too much money to hire someone to take care of me, so we discussed sending my grandmother to a nursing home. Although my mother disagreed, she couldn't do anything about it, but when I heard that my grandmother had been clamoring to come back at the beginning, I felt that my grandmother's life had been really hard in vain.

If I had the ability, I would never let my grandmother be in a nursing home! ‍

If we don't have the time and ability to take care of it. It is better to send the elderly to a nursing home, this is the case in my family, my grandmother is 86 years old this year, and my parents have no time to take care of it, so I was sent to a nursing home in Fengtai after the family reached an agreement. Very good nursing home, fashionable, good surroundings, institutions and big gardens.

Now I go to the neighborhood parents' playground every week to see my grandmother. ‍‍

Son, daughter-in-law, your mother and I won't go to the nursing home, we can live alone in good health, you often come to the house for dinner, the body can't be self-reliant, you must take care of us 24 hours a day, the doctor said that there is no rescue, don't over-treat, ct0 don't enter. As long as you are by my side, your mother and I will return to nature and send us to the great rivers and seas.

Yes, because after seeing a lot of good nursing homes, I think sending relatives to nursing homes is the greatest filial piety, maybe when they are young, they work hard all their lives, and they have not enjoyed any blessings, and when they are old, the old man and the old lady will be very lonely at home, so it is better to send them to the nursing home, so that they can enjoy being taken care of every day and enjoy entertainment with their peers.

I'll probably end up in a nursing home when I'm old. First, the child does not have the time or energy to take care of it (currently an only child); Second, there is no difference between asking a nanny to take care of you and staying in a nursing home, it is better to stay in a nursing home; The third is the change in the concept of old-age care, there are children and daughters who are still in nursing homes, which does not indicate whether the children are filial; Fourth, the pension system is slowly improving, with the aging of the population, the country's pension system is gradually improving.

Never send your parents to a nursing home; In the lifetime of my parents, it is also a kind of filial piety to be with my parents more, after all, they have been in charge of us for most of our lives, and now the nursing home is not a good place, and a lot of negative news reports are emerging. ‍

My mother is 82 years old this year, and she is in good health, even if she needs someone to take care of her one day in the future, I will not send her to a nursing home, because their generation feels that if their children are sent to a nursing home, they will be abandoned by their children, and I will take care of them for the rest of my life. Personally, I can accept going to a nursing home, my son and daughter-in-law are only children, and even if they have the heart to take care of us, they don't have the energy.

My answer is no. They have taken good care of me, and I will take care of them too, not out of filial piety, but out of love. Ever since I watched "Sister Peach", I have been disgusted with sending the elderly to a nursing home. Without the company of relatives, it is really very lonely. ‍‍

I wouldn't choose a nursing home. I think I can let them be at home, if it's okay, go downstairs to visit the park, when I'm not there, I can hang out with the elderly in the community, chat, if I'm afraid he is tired, you can hire a nanny to take care of them, the cost I think is not much more expensive than going to a nursing home. After all, it is not safe to be in a nursing home. ‍

I will not send them to the current nursing home, the current nursing home is a nursery, the facilities are not complete, and the elderly should not be as patient as my own relatives, I would rather be tired than let my family go to the nursing home.

My parents and in-laws will not send them to a nursing home, when they need to take care of the elderly, we are also retired, their generation has not yet accepted to go to a nursing home, I feel that only the lonely old people who have no children and no daughters want to go there, but they will definitely go, but they will go to the best nursing home.

My elderly don't go to nursing homes, their concepts are not good. When I am old, I am still willing to go to a nursing home, find someone with better conditions, have peers to talk to, and someone on duty 24 hours a day. You don't have to worry about eating and drinking, the main thing is that you don't want to cause trouble to your children.

Absolutely not! For the vast majority of people, sending their parents to a nursing home is unfilial piety. It is best for the old to do something, and secondly, to have fun for the old, and to provide for the old must be guaranteed. Sending my parents to a nursing home? Even if something happens, it's impossible. ‍‍

No, it is the responsibility of the younger generation to honor the elderly, if you are busy, you can call a nanny, and you can go out with your brothers financially.

Of course I don't want to, I have children and daughters, why send the elderly to a nursing home. It is not easy for the elderly to raise us. Think about how it would have been if our parents had sent us to an orphanage when we were children. They raise us young, and we raise them old.

As long as I can still move, I will not send my mother to a nursing home (the general nursing home is not as good as taking care of myself, and my high-end economic conditions are not good).

No, if you go to see him often, she is fine, but if you send it to care, you will be bullied to death.

In fact, if you don't send the elderly to the nursing home, you don't necessarily have to be lonely, even if you live together, young people are busy with their own things every day, and there is not enough time to look at their mobile phones.

If the children want their own careers, and the elderly have no one to take care of them when they are sick, I want to send the elderly to a nursing home.

If the elderly can take care of their own lives and live at home, they can not take care of themselves, and they will consider a pension institution with better conditions.

Nursing homes are no return and will not be sent.

I think so. But it's too expensive to give.

I think if the nursing home can give better care to the parents, then I will send it, after all, the society is so fast-paced now, everyone is very busy, if you can't take care of the parents, then it is better to send them to the nursing home.

I think if the nursing home could give better care to the parents.

I think if the nursing home can give better care to the parents, then I will send it, after all, the society is so fast-paced now, everyone is very busy, if you can't take care of the parents, then it is better to send them to the nursing home. I think if the nursing home can give better care to the parents, then I will send it, after all, the society is so fast-paced now, everyone is very busy, if you can't take care of the parents, then it is better to send them to the nursing home. I think if the nursing home can give better care to the parents, then I will send it, after all, the society is so fast-paced now, everyone is very busy, if you can't take care of the parents, then it is better to send them to the nursing home.

I think if the nursing home can give better care to the parents, then I will send it, after all, the society is so fast-paced now, everyone is very busy, if you can't take care of the parents, then it is better to send them to the nursing home. I think if the nursing home can give better care to the parents, then I will send it, after all, the society is so fast-paced now, everyone is very busy, if you can't take care of the parents, then it is better to send them to the nursing home.

We will not send our parents to a nursing home, our parents will raise us young, and we have the responsibility and obligation to support our parents in old age! Even if I am busy with work, even if I hire a nanny, I will leave my parents with me to take care of them.

In fact, parents don't want to go to a nursing home, they want to live with their children and enjoy the joy of family!

But parents went to nursing homes for the sake of their children not being dragged down.

Whenever I see the eyes of those elderly people looking forward to the door of the nursing home on Sunday off, it is really sad!

So, if you can, take good care of your parents, with your parents here, it's home!

Under normal circumstances, it varies from person to person, they can move, they can take care of themselves, then there is no need to send, those who have the ability can enjoy the joy of family! The 80-odd elderly people in the countryside eat alone, but they live with their children and grandchildren, and the situation in the city is special, and special treatment is given under special circumstances, right? In the future, when my parents are old, I should send my parents to a nursing home, because I am busy with work and have been on business trips for many years, if I take my parents to live with me, then my parents can only live with my wife, but my wife does not want to live with my parents, because my wife prefers to live separately from her parents-in-law.

I don't want them to bump into each other, for example, although some parents live with their children, they often have conflicts with their daughters-in-law, so in fact, the parents are not happy in their hearts, so it is really better to go to a nursing home. Thank you!

Faced with the question of whether to go to a nursing home, perhaps because of different concepts, or because of the different rhythm of life, everyone will have their own opinions.

Some people said: In traditional Chinese parenting to prevent old age, children must provide for their parents, and sending their parents to nursing homes is regarded as unfilial piety.

But as long as there are good conditions, as long as we can solve the problem of living with our parents, as long as we love our parents, I think few Chinese are willing to send their parents to nursing homes. At the same time, loyalty, filial piety, courtesy, righteousness and honesty bind our society with deep-rooted traditional thinking, which is also an important reason why the elderly are reluctant to send them to nursing homes.

Our parents accompany us to grow up, and perhaps, we can accompany them to grow old.

However, some people say that it depends on the specific situation

the real-life environment of the nursing home;

the hardware facilities of the nursing home;

qualifications of nursing homes;

medical conditions in nursing homes;

The true will of the parents themselves.

In fact, today's young people, leaving their parents around, we don't have much time and energy to take care of, inevitably there is friction, in the case of economic conditions permitting, may choose more to hire a nurse, the care of the elderly is professional and comprehensive. Nurses need this job of caring for patients, and they need to free up their time and energy.

I definitely wouldn't send my parents to a nursing home, I think that would be the equivalent of giving up on my parents......Because when people are old, the most unbearable thing is loneliness. The most unbearable thing is that there is no family affection ......Therefore, whether a person can live a healthy life or not, it is most important to have a good mood.

Even if you eat bran at home, you must be with the elderly, and companionship is the best filial piety to the elderly.

Why do some cancer patients survive, while others die quickly after being diagnose......d?I think the most fundamental reason is that he has given up ...... in his heartAnd most of those who survived were because their mentality was adjusted better.

Have a good attitude and you can overcome all difficulties.

Don't believe you'll give it a try......

If you are sent to a nursing home, the first thing your parents feel is a strong sense of abandonment......Although there are many activities for the elderly in the nursing home, which can be participated, and the elderly seem to be able to have a good time, those happiness is only temporary.

Once quiet, or in the dead of night, the elderly will be surrounded by loneliness ......At this time, in fact, what the elderly are looking forward to is the visit of their family and the waiting ...... of their childrenOnce the children send their parents to a nursing home, it is certainly impossible to guarantee that they can visit their parents at any time.

So what do parents have to support themselves to continue to live......Then their quality of life will definitely be reduced.

So, my parents are old, and I can't guarantee that I can do anything else ......There may not be a guarantee of good living conditions.

If you can't take care of the elderly often, it's best to find a nanny to be with the elderly, so that it feels like home.

If there is no such condition, you really can't take care of the elderly, don't let him feel lonely, no one to rely on, no one to care, no one to communicate, it's really better to let him go to a nursing home.

Having companionship and someone to take care of may make his life comfortable.

But you must see him regularly, and the care of your heart is more important than the care of life. Don't make excuses to shirk your responsibility for spiritual comfort.

Therefore, if you want to send the elderly to a nursing home, it is very simple to look at the wishes of the elderly themselves and see if they want to go.

Whether the elderly are happy in the nursing home, there are some elderly people in the nursing home can dance, play mahjong, find someone to play chess, and have a very happy time.

However, there are also some elderly people who are more introverted and find it difficult to get along with new partners. Therefore, children should also observe whether their parents are in a happy mood, otherwise it will only make the elderly more depressed. In addition, send children to nursing homes, children should not forget to visit their parents more, and take the elderly home to live for a few days at home during the holidays, so that the elderly can also see their grandchildren, which is more helpful for relaxation.

In fact, whether to send it to a nursing home depends on the actual situation. The elderly are unable to take care of themselves, and their children cannot take care of them, so sending them to a nursing home is a responsible behavior.

But if parents can eat, drink and take care of themselves, why not let them live the life they want at ease.

As long as you pay more attention to your children, they can live well even if they are not around.

Because most of the families of this generation of young people are only children.

We should be satisfied and grateful for the kindness of our parents.

You should remember the good points of your parents, understand their difficulties, and forgive their mistakes.

Only by honoring your parents and resolving resentment with love can you live a good life.

Filial piety is the source of happiness, and filial piety is the cornerstone of family harmony.

Filial piety to one's parents is a priority. To be kind to your parents is to be kind to your old age.

Those who are grateful will have a happy life.

My parents have been waiting for their family to be reunited all their lives.

Don't forget filial piety because of annoyance.

Filial piety comes first".