I m 21 years old and have a question for me

There are things that can be solved by fighting, of course, there are things that can't be solved by fighting, in fact, most of the people who are called to fight don't want to really fight (there are too many people to really fight) Of course, things can be resolved peacefully through negotiation It really can't be solved That can only be fought Fight until one party admits its mistakes But everyone takes a step back and the sky is wide There is nothing that can't be solved Only things you don't want to solve Put down the damn face.

No, you hit and you thought it was cool at the time, but you know that you will actually be looked down upon by many people, impulsive men, normal women don't like boys who fight, for the sake of your future thinking, you have to be benevolent Now the ratio of men and women is still very dissonant.

How to say it, I'm very good at fighting, 21 can't solve it, most of my time it's because my girlfriend is now love, and friendship is not there, so it's best to settle it peacefully.

1. For people and specific things. I am from the Northeast, some people have some things, they should take action, and others will feel that they should do it;

2. Fights must not be reckless and arbitrary;

3. There are some things that cannot be solved by fighting;

4. There are some things that cannot be solved without fighting;

5. If you hit someone on the spur of the moment, you give others the impression that it is impulsive;

6. If you keep putting up with it and don't do it, you will feel weak to others;

7 Sometimes you should be more forbearing, and sometimes you should be calculated.

You should figure these things out in your heart and then make a decision that you won't regret!

Brother: Force will not solve the problem.

Absolutely not, if it's just to solve the fight, then it can be said that yes, other things can't!

Of course not. After a fight, the losing or beaten side will hold a grudge and retaliate, which will further intensify the conflict between the two sides. In addition, it is possible that both sides will be injured in a fight, or that the other person will be killed by mistake.

In the face of death, everything seems pale. Maybe what I said won't help the subject much, but I hope you can come out soon.

Don't be afraid, you don't have a problem psychologically, but you are mentally uncomfortable, at this time, you can vent to your heart's content. Cry a lot, or exercise as much as you want, but don't hold back, the more you hold back, the more uncomfortable it becomes. At this time, no one will be surprised by your "crazy move", after all, facing the loss of a loved one is the most painful thing.

Tears may really be able to soothe the pain for a while, so cry if you want to.

I think that when a person leaves, it is impossible to leave nothing, but since he is gone, no one can do anything to bring him back to life, you can only keep the laughter, courage and all the shining points in your life that he left you, and then pass it on.

At first, you can escape, you can enjoy your remembrance, but after escaping, you still need to face the reality, you can pour your thoughts and love into his family, they also need love.

Finally, let yourself go, no one can decide whether it is life or death, and stop asking yourself "Why did he die?" "Why can't I keep him?" Such meaningless questions only add to the sadness and are useless.

All you can do is to cherish, cherish the present, cherish the people around you, and give his love for you to others, so that he can also feel at ease.

Turning small love into big love, I think, is the best thing you can do.

May your second uncle be well.

Yes, this is the final end of people, and in the end, everyone will eventually take the road, no one wants to see it, no one dares to think about it.

When you see a tragic situation, you can't help but think about yourself, that is, how terrible it will be when you encounter this incident. This is a human instinct, and it is also a psychological manifestation of the instinct of human beings to survive.

When you hear or see a person dying, or even seeing this scene with your own eyes, you will feel that this scene is very tragic and tragic, and everyone will be deeply afraid after seeing it, not only you, but also me, many people are like this.

That scene is very tragic, since it is tragic, then don't think about it, if you can't stand it in your heart and are about to collapse, then watch some jokes, watch some TV clips that make you laugh, as time goes by, you will gradually forget this feeling, time will dilute everything.

Don't worry so much about what will happen to you, and joke that you can't die even if you want to. In fact, everyone has their own life, and there is no need to worry about these fearless things, which is not interesting.

Of course, when you see a tragic scene, you will think of yourself, yes, everyone will be like this, this is a kind of human instinct for survival.

In fact, after you forget this feeling, you will look back and realize that what you experienced is nothing more than the maturity of your own mind, it's as simple as that.

That's all I hope will help you.

I wish you a happy day.

I'm also sad to hear you say that your uncle's death This life is very short Especially because of your psychological endurance The heart is very terrible for us But people always die You can't be hit by your mental ability just because a person dies in front of you I actually want to say I am with you all the way, I saw someone commit suicide in front of me and jump from the 18th floor.

There is life and death, there is a beginning and an end, and the reincarnation of the world is the way.

Child, you have to look at life with a normal heart.

Sooner or later, life will have to go through life and death, which is the only way to maturity.

You need to find a girlfriend, have a baby, and then you won't be afraid.

Think about something else or go to a psychiatrist.