I picked it up, and I have been looking for my parents for 45 years?

Well, now there are specialized platforms online to help such people. You can consult online. But like you said, this is the case. That's been 45 years since it was hard to find biological parents.

It's the age of the Internet. You can use the Internet, use the police station, and go to your biological parents. I don't know how you got lost?

Where was it lost? Just go up to ** and ask, go and find it. There are some things that are unattainable.

If there is fate, you will find your biological parents.

I mean you don't look for it. Regardless of the force majeure reasons that your biological parents abandoned you in the first place, you were raised by your now—no, deceased adoptive parents—who were raised by you. So to speak, without your adoptive parents there would be no you!

So the ones you should be most grateful for are your adoptive parents. Now that the two old men are gone, you should concentrate on educating your children, running your family, and doing your job well. Living a life is the greatest filial piety to your adoptive parents.

Now is the Internet era, communication is developed, now the major **, everything, I don't know how you left your parents, was it an abandoned baby or was trafficked, or was it given out through an introducer? Now you have to look for evidence through your adoptive parents and their relatives, and then find your biological parents through ** or the Internet.

It's been 45 years, it's a little late, and your parents don't know if they're alive now. You go through the TV station, maybe bigger.

Tell me about your specific situation, the more detailed the better!

I feel that the absorption has also passed, and I have not found my biological father. This depends on the platform to see if you can find clues.

It's hard to find, so let's keep it as it is.

I haven't been in the same situation, but I've certainly been in the same situation as you. I am now 34 years old.

First of all, let me have a few questions, 1 is that there is no question of who owes whom in a normal family, because it is natural for parents to raise their children, just like you will raise your children in the future, if you can't raise your children or you can't bring him to bring a normal family, give it away when you are born.

2 Your parents really want to be nice to you and want to save money for you, but the idea is not necessarily right, because they can help you control your money now, what about the future? There will always be a day when they will go, so you should exercise your ability to control money and things, but don't quarrel with them, for example, if you disagree with them on a thing, you can talk to them, if you can't talk, you will be silent, and then do what you think, facts speak louder than words, even if you succeed, they will not necessarily admit that they are wrong. But you learn and enrich yourself.

3 You make too little money to help you create a happy life, hey, you have to work hard and find a way to make more money, you have money, you will find that your parents and all the people around you are different to you.

4You are too far away from me, otherwise I can enlighten your children face to face.

The landlord mentioned independence and I was very happy.

Then start to stop having your parents support you.

Start to support yourself and become independent After independence, many problems are not problems, and people generally have two options in the face of problems.

One. Compromise with reality.

Two. Change the status quo.

Whichever one you choose comes at a price.

Filial piety Don't try to change your parents' mindset.

Besides, like you, you're only 20 years old, your parents are 65, and in another 10 years, you're 30, and your parents are 75, and think about it, these 10 years should be the most important.

Parents have their insistence, just let him go, after all, people are approaching, and slowly their insistence will fade, and the current persuasion is not needed at all.

Actually, if you think about it, what you said is actually not a problem, you are still young, you can fight for 10 years, stay with your parents more, and put the rest aside, 10 years later, at that time, will your parents still have the strength to control you? You'll need to take care of everything for them, too.

Do you owe them? Or do they owe you?!?

Quite clear. My mom is also a 60-year-old nest for 90 years. Quarrels all day long.

I know my name, ID number, and address, and I can find it.

Lost contact? If not, how can you not find it?

Go for it, but you also have to have the courage to take the consequences, and don't be afraid.

What should not be done, only you are willing to persist in the relationship, but whether you are happy or not, you have to bear the consequences.

I think it's really hard to say whether this kind of thing is right or wrong, it's all up to personal choice.

It mainly depends on your own thoughts, you want to marry him, and it is useless for your parents to oppose him.

If you have already thought about it yourself, do it according to your own ideas, so that even if you regret it later, you will not be able to blame others.

A man in his forties and fifties, of course he is going to get married, even if his parents prevent him from having the happiest married life, then he should pursue him, he should live for himself, and he can take better care of his family after marriage.

Study, and then have a job and find a girlfriend to be with. Repay your parents for their kindness. That's human nature. On the other hand, if the parents are 45 years old, you don't have to worry.

18 years old is the first turning point in life, why would you think that you will die, this is a stupid idea, if you are a filial child, you will work hard to create wealth for yourself and your parents, have a high quality of life, instead of increasing the burden on your parents.

No matter what the reason, you have to give up your life easily, even if your parents can regenerate one, that can't replace you.

No one can replace another person, especially when the mother is old, it is very dangerous to have children, and if you love them, think about them more. Don't let them bear the white-haired people sending the black-haired people, that kind of thing makes them more uncomfortable than killing them.

45 is already a super old woman, and there are some women.

At this age zhi has already begun to enter.

DAO menopause, not to mention birth, it is difficult to get pregnant within the body, most of Darong has to use modern medicine to conceive, and childbirth is a ghost gate. I don't know why you ask this kind of question, but you have to know that you are also your mother who broke through the ghost gate to welcome you into this world, and don't send yourself to the ghost gate because of some small setbacks. Cherish life!

At the age of 45, the best period of childbirth has already passed, and many of them can no longer give birth, except for those who are particularly well maintained, it is very dangerous to give birth at an older age.

Parents at the age of 45 should not consider copying and having another child. Four fifteen years old, all aspects of function.

Du is not very good, menstruation is almost zhi

It's about to stop, and the probability of a living DAO is very small.

Even if they do have children, both parents and children will not be too happy. Parents are old, they don't have so much energy to raise their children carefully, children are too young, they can't be taken care of by their parents since they were young, and they won't be too happy compared to their peers.

As a parent, the child is more important than his own life, and if you die, it is estimated that the chances of your parents surviving are not very good. We must respect life, respect life, and live in love with our families, so that we will not be in vain in coming to this world. To be alive is a kind of happiness, to work hard!

How can you have this kind of thought at a young age, although you can have another child at the age of 45, but a white-haired person sending a black-haired person will make your parents feel painful, cherish yourself, and work hard to live!

No matter what you encounter, there is no obstacle in life that you can't overcome. A person's life is actually a process of suffering, depending on one's own heart.

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