What is it like to live for 24 years and suddenly feel like you don t know anything?

Collapsed, hopeless, confused, overwhelmed. It's not that I feel like I have nothing, but I really have nothing at the time from the economic aspect, and the description in the first paragraph is how I really felt at that time. I'm a cheerful person who feels a bit big in personality, but I'm used to being alone when things happen.

The business fails, the friend runs away, and he goes into debt. It felt like the walking dead. I spent a week in my room, with a scruffy beard and shaggy hair.

It was the responsibility to them that lifted me up and faced the difficult situation. People have ups and downs, and the most difficult days are over. I set myself a time frame of 10 years.

But it doesn't mean that there is nothing. The wife's meager salary supports the family's expenses and never leaves.

Looking back at the more than 20 years I have lived, I don't know how I lived, I don't know anything, I can't cook, I don't know how to take good care of myself, I may not feel anything if I don't think about it, but when I think about it, I feel like a failure.

When you have nothing, you lose a lot but maybe you have gained more, you have no pressure but have more self-confidence from the new, you can rest assured to summarize the failure, looking for the next step of departure, a small failure may be the beginning of greater success, nothing, no blow, only hold your head high and remember a sentence: failure is the mother of success, the feeling of having nothing is to summarize more at this time, don't look back, maybe greater success is at the foot.

I'm almost nothing now, let me tell you, there is despair, emptiness, panic, and some unwillingness, I can't express it very accurately, but I want to you, I hope you never have to feel like this, because it's a bit like hell! I know why I have nothing, I want to change, I try to try, but I have no heart, it seems that this is my life, I feel like an ant, but I am being pressed by a big rock.

If I suddenly have nothing, I want to go back to my childhood hometown, reminisce about my lost childhood, experience innocence, catch loaches, tease ants, and pinch mud. Of course, these are impossible, only think about it. Because life has to go on, the responsibility is still there, so try to live every day seriously.

A deep sense of powerlessness and frustration! I wanted to cry, but I couldn't cry. But in front of people, you have to pretend to smile and pretend that you don't care! I only hate myself for having a narrow vision and a small pattern, blocking the road for myself, and now I am a dumb person eating Coptis chinensis, and I can't say what I have to say!

If you feel that you can't do anything, it's better to start with some jobs that don't require academic qualifications, and gradually gain experience, and you can find some jobs that don't require dealing with people. Or go to professional colleges and universities to learn some skills, such as pastry, Western food, cooking, etc., which are easy to learn, and it is a good way to get a job after learning.

Li Ka-shing had a wonderful speech in Shenzhen, "Working is a stupid investment.

The following is the content of the speech, excerpts).

Many people think that part-time jobs are making money. In fact, a part-time job is the biggest and stupidest investment. What is the most precious thing in life?

What could be more precious than our youth?! Many people complain about being poor, complaining that they have no money and want to start a business but can't find funds. How ridiculous!

In fact, you yourself are a mountain of gold (intangible assets), but you dare not admit it. I'd rather bury it than use it. It is better to help others work aggrievedly and give up your assets to your boss.

Let's imagine who is born with heaven and will give him a lot of money? Who is very well prepared, perfect, and then to start a business and succeed? After all, there are very few people born with a golden spoon, and they are not more than three generations rich, and many great deeds are created by ordinary people.

Plans can't keep up with the changes, especially in this age of highly rapid information dissemination! I once asked a friend of mine why he didn't go to work? His is:

To put it mildly, going out to work is simply a stupid waste of youth! "Why have you always been a wage earner? Because you're content with the status quo!

Because you don't have the courage, you are naturally timid and afraid of things and dare not choose another path! Because you don't have the courage to move forward, you don't have the spirit of surpassing yourself! Although you have wanted to change your life, change your poor fate, but you have not done it, because you dare not do it!

You're afraid of losing, you're afraid of losing! In the end, you don't even dare to think about it, you feel that you have worked hard, you have worked hard, you have great ambitions, but you don't see the achievements you expected, and you give up. You can only be a wage earner!!

"Why have you always been a wage earner? Because you go with the flow, those who are close to ink are black, do not want to be motivated, have no money, and love face! Because you are afraid of your parents, you listen to your relatives, you have no opinions, you dare not make decisions alone.

You have traditional ideas, you just want to work to earn some money, get married and have children, and then you will be born, old, sick and die, and follow the exact same path as your parents. Because you're naturally fragile and mentally slow, and you just want to do the work you do. Because you want to do a business without capital, you want to sit at home and wait for the sky to fall into the sky!

Because you complain that there is no opportunity, and when the opportunity comes to you, you can't grasp it, because you can't grasp it! Because of your poverty, you have low self-esteem! You flinched, you didn't dare to do anything!

You're only going to work for someone else! You don't have special skills, you just have to use brute force! You are the same as your parents, a vicious circle!

So, you will always be a part-time worker! (ENDS).

Instead of wasting your youth to help others work, it is better to start your own business, what are you worried about? Many people want to seize the opportunity, but when they want to do something, they often find a lot of reasons for themselves to keep themselves in a contradiction! Constantly wasting time and wasting time.

1. No eloquence - wrong.

2. No money - Wrong.

3. Inability - Wrong.

4. No time - wrong.

5. Not in the mood - wrong.

6. No interest - wrong.

7. Consider and consider - wrong.

Whether the family "takes" your salary or you "dedicate" to the family yourself, these are two different things!

Instead of doing boring work, start with your hobbies, see what interests you, start with your hobbies, and then move up to work.

Don't be a livestock in a crowd. Let's go to the democratic and free Western labor export. That's called labor talent.