What makes you, who once dared to love and hate, suddenly become cautious?

The nature of the country is easy to change, a person's character can be said to be born destined, no matter how many changes occur in the future, it is difficult to completely change a person's character, but everything is not absolute, after experiencing a huge change or blow, people's personality will also undergo earth-shaking changes, what makes you who once dared to love and hate suddenly become cautious? <>

In the past, I was a person with a very big personality and an unabashed mouth, I was the stupid sister who had no heart and lungs in the legend, because I was unabashed, I got into a lot of trouble, but I rarely really reflected on myselfUntil one day, a male classmate in our class who had a particularly good relationship with me came over menacingly, stretched out his hand and punched me, and I was blinded immediately. <>

Under his angry narration, I understood, it turned out that when I was chatting with his girlfriend, I inadvertently said that he liked to joke with other female classmates in the class, the speaker was unintentional, the listener was intentional, his girlfriend felt that he was particularly unreliable, and wanted to break up with him, and I knew that I was in trouble. Later, thanks to the efforts of my male classmates, I was able to win back my girlfriend's heart, but it brought great inspiration to my life, and since then I have learned the principle of being cautious in words and deeds. <>

But all in all, I'm still young, I don't have too many feelings about emotional things, I always imagine feelings too idealistic, until one day I also like a boy, I think that boy also has a certain impression of me, not only tell me his QQ password, but also like to tell me his previous story, in life to me is also very good, I think he must like me, and even once thought, if he has been so good to me, then I will take the initiative to chase him, in my repeated courage, When I was going to confess to that boy,Suddenly heard the news that the boy had a girlfriend, and then I realized that in the eyes of that boy, maybe I was just a simple spare tire.

What makes you, who once dared to love and hate, become cautious? <>When I go through a relationship that breaks up and merges, I also become cautious. Because sometimes I feel that the relationship between the two of us will be particularly fragile, and if I don't protect it well, then he is likely to break down at any time.

Maybe it's because you've experienced some things that you will understand what's most important to you, and you'll also summarize what you should do when you encounter some difficulties in your relationship. It is precisely because of the loss that I will cherish it more when I have it, and I will be more cautious when facing him. Some people may think that a good horse does not eat back grass, but in fact, I think that if two people are willing to give two people a chance in this relationship, they should try hard and let this relationship have a good result.

Maybe in the past, I was really very willful. I always quarrel with each other over trivial things, always want to prove that I like each other very much, and always want to prove that the other person loves me far more than I thought. There may be times when the other party takes the initiative to apologize to me after we quarrel, and I will not give him the steps, and sometimes I may take the initiative to find fault.

I really feel that I am very ignorant at that time, and I will suspect that the relationship between the two of us is not real. <>

But it was because of these experiences that the two of us were not separated, and I slowly learned how to take care of them. In the past, when something happened to the two of us, I liked to threaten each other with a breakup. Maybe I don't really want to break up, I just hope that the other party will pay enough attention to the breakup, and then achieve the result I want.

But in fact, I think that the people who love you, after they have been hit again and again, they may also feel very frustrated, and they may also become extremely uncertain about the relationship between two people, because love is mutual, and you should also think about what you can do for each other when the other party gives you something less.

I am afraid of being hurt, so I don't dare to pay easily. Because I am getting older, more mature and more careful.

It is the reality that enters society. The complexity of society makes me feel that if you accidentally say something wrong, you will pay a lot of money.

It must be because I love each other very much, or I am afraid of losing each other, so I dare to love and hate, I become cautious, for fear of offending each other and making each other angry, which is also because of the person I love.

The one who is loved always has no fear, and becomes cautious just because he loves first, and the party who pays more in love always lacks a sufficient sense of security, afraid of losing and being hurt.

Because he dared to love and hate, he lost his ex-girlfriend, and since then he has become cautious and doesn't want to regret it anymore.

Many times in life, when your feelings encounter the doubts of others, you will not have the courage to continue to get along with others, and you will become cautious.

Because I was uneven and pulled out a knife to help, I was beaten and raked by the bad guys, and since then I have become cautious.

When I see my colleagues have low self-esteem in the face of feelings, or often feel troubled or even painful in their love life, I will change my past personality and make myself more cautious.

Because I am not sure, I am not sure whether the other party likes me, and I am not sure whether the other party will leave me, so I become cautious and cautious.

When you encounter failure and hurt in your love life, you will become more sensitive to your feelings and be more cautious.

When you love someone very much, you will become cautious for fear of dissatisfying the other person or losing the other person, so when you do things, you give people a sense of fear.

It's multiple injuries that make yourself cautious. After a lot of betrayals, I won't be so arrogant anymore.

Dare to love and hate, and become cautious, because I really met love, I was afraid of losing each other, so I became cautious and didn't dare to talk nonsense.

Because I was hurt a lot in my last relationship, I let myself become cautious when I met love, afraid that I would be hurt.

It should be that after experiencing a lot of setbacks in society, I became very cautious and didn't want to get hurt again.