How to meet old classmates, old friends, how can I get in touch with old classmates?

I haven't been in touch for 20 years, and it's been a little longer.

It feels awkward to talk about things directly for a few sentences, and there is no contact between you after you separate, so it's not practical to go back to 20 years ago with a few words.

There are two scenarios:

The first is to say things straightforwardly, and he should help you for the sake of old classmates, but he may have some opinions about your people afterwards.

The second is to take your time, which is just to eat a few more meals and drink a few more drinks. The probability of success will be much higher when the relationship is run-in, and the opening will be more natural, and the most important thing is to be a good friend afterwards.

I've had your experience like this, and your biggest obstacle now is your own inferiority complex.

We have nothing to be inferior to (you think so), although you used to start at a starting line, but, because of the influence of later direction, geographical conditions, natural conditions, etc., he is now running farther than you, standing taller, in fact, if you are given the same environment and opportunities as him, you will do better than him!

In addition, you also have to enlighten yourself like this, people, must be emotional animals, 20 years gone, you meet again, you don't need to deliberately find any topics, everything is natural, (together with the gun, together with the window, collective prostitution, are the most iron relationship) However, because the other party's time is relatively tight, you can grasp the time OK, good luck!

When he was a child, he took him to reminisce about what he did, it was not okay to send things, he couldn't look down on hundreds of thousands, you couldn't give up tens of thousands, or invite him out to eat, of course, it couldn't be too shabby, and it wasn't too extravagant, just say it, nothing difficult, the difficult thing is to speak, he is willing to help you, it can't be stopped, he doesn't want you to pull it, don't force anything.

Don't bow your head too much, don't feel that you have no face in front of him, and be kind, talk more about some things when you were a child, classmates are all in the purest era, so don't engage in those filthy things, eat, reminisce, it's not a big problem.

Bring him into his house to speak,1 and invite him to his house for dinner.

2. Come to your own home, you talk more casually and openly. After all, you have a bit of low self-esteem.

3. Coming to home can also make him feel close to you.

4. Come to your home and say that your daughter-in-law's affairs are a matter of pushing the boat along the water. It's not obtrusive, it's natural.

Dead friends, hehe. Everyone has their own fond memories and there is no need to say too much. Let's sit closer, be natural, and speak up. If it were, I would definitely do my best friend a favor, no matter how many years from now.

It's good to have a rich friend, don't deliberately say anything, just talk casually, if he hasn't become very powerful, he should help you!

There's no need to talk so much, find a few friends to work with, it's best to have someone who is familiar with him, make a low deal in private first, and then push the boat downstream.

Take your time, since you are an old comrade, he will definitely help you, as long as you are sincere.

Strike at each other and never bow down.

1.Ask him about her love life, if there is any person between the opposite sex who has an object, then the most taboo is ambiguous words, such as words like I haven't seen you for a long time, if you let the other party's partner see it, then it is natural to have a big fight, it was originally a greeting between former friends to express the miss, but because one of them has a partner, this sentence has changed its taste.

2.Ask him what her hungry friend has been doing recently, if you are doing the same thing and have the same interests and hobbies, then you can also make an appointment to do this together, that is, you have a common topic to talk about and are acquaintances, and you won't be too calculating about each other when you do that.

3.Make an appointment to meet him and her, meeting is the best way to contact emotions, because meeting can not only evoke your happy time at the beginning, make people's emotions richer, and it will be easier to meet and talk about things, and meet because the visual impact will make people's words more infectious. But pay attention to the rotten tanhuai who comes out to meet and remember to dress up when you dress up.

Dear hello, old classmates should pay attention to respect and politeness. In salutation, you can use "hello" or "how are you" to show respect. If you are communicating, you should be clear about your point of view and not be vague to avoid misunderstanding.

At the same time, you should also pay attention to listen to the other person's opinions, respect the other person's ideas, and do not force your own views on others. In terms of detailed introduction, you can let the other party know more about yourself and enhance the understanding and trust between each other by sharing your life, work, family and other aspects. At the same time, you can also ask each other about their current situation, care about each other's life and work, and enhance their feelings with each other.

In terms of off-topic expansion, you can increase the interest and interactivity of communication by sharing some interesting stories, experiences, and anecdotes about the return of scum. You can also share some of your own interests and hobbies, invite each other to participate, and increase common topics and interactions between each other. In short, old classmates should pay attention to respect, politeness, sincerity and interaction, and through clear views, detailed introductions and off-topic expansion, they can enhance mutual understanding and trust and maintain long-term friendships.

1. In the life journey of people coming and going, on their different life trajectories, it can be said that it is a kind of luck to meet, get together, and meet each other. Fate is not always there, and you should cherish the hard-won fate.

2. Classmates, that is, embedded in silent care, do not have to see each other every day, what will always exist is heart-to-heart; Students don't have to be humble to greet each other, nodding may be enough, sometimes the distance is reflective, and they are happy.

3. Everyone is inseparable from classmates, once there are no classmates, there will be no pleasant harmony in life! Classmates are everywhere, they accompany you, linger around you, and spend your life with you.

4. If there is a kind of affection in the world, as pure and beautiful as a lily, it is the affection between classmates. Classmates are the most precious and sincere, and classmates are the most simple and unforgettable!

5. One day is a classmate, a lifetime is a classmate! No matter how the years are lost, how life changes, how things change, no matter how many vicissitudes and hardships the years leave us, the love of our classmates is indelible and unforgettable, and will always be cherished in your heart.

6. In our hurried life, we will always meet such and such people, they stay in our lives, have said some things and done some things, have brought some warmth and some harm, but there is a kind of person who is indeed rare and hard to find, this kind of person is called an old classmate!