A classmate is out of love, how to calm down the lovelorn classmate? What songs should she listen to

Updated on psychology 2024-04-13
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It is recommended to listen to Mo Yanlin's new song "I Can't Cry" The whole new EP is okay, I wish your classmates a good day.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    At this time, let him listen to the song, it is better to find something to do, the busier the better, turn his attention, and if he is busy, he will have no time to worry.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Divert his attention, let him study with peace of mind, and tell her that studying is the main thing, and that after being admitted to university, she will go her separate ways, and there is no need for this.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I should buy some ** books for her to read, wow, it's not good to listen to songs, it will cause her emotional resonance, and she will cry very badly.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After a breakup, the average person will go through 5 stages of grief emotional reactions, including the following reasons for heartache.

    Stage 1: Denial – Difficulty accepting the news and not believing that it is really happening.

    Stage 2: Anger – Feeling that this is a unilateral decision by the other person and that you are a victim.

    Stage 3: Bargaining - Bargain at all costs to prevent the other party from leaving.

    Stage 4: Grief – Begin to know that the relationship is gone, feeling like you've lost everything for a while.

    Stage 5: Acceptance – Finally accept that your relationship is over and think about how to face the future.

    Course. After a breakup, you must reach Stage 5 (Acceptance) to deal with it, during which you must refrain from doing the following:

    1. Self-blame comparison, don't blame yourself for others who don't like you, and don't compare yourself if there is a third party.

    2. Space is idle, too much space is easy to make the mood lower, cranky, it is best to fill the time.

    3. Think about the past, let the memories pass with the feelings, don't deliberately remember, the previous photos and gifts can be put away under the bed or burned.

    4. Looking for an old love again, no matter whether the other party's reaction is good or bad, it will also make you uneasy, so don't contact the other party again during the breakup period.

    5. Folk remedies, broken love, no matter whether they are beautiful or ugly, rich or poor, everyone is equal, they have the opportunity to experience it at any time, just find a few passers-by, they will probably have such a painful experience, and there are also painkillers (formulas) for everyone

    The most important thing is to maintain a balanced life even if you are in love, that is, not to break off the six relatives (there is the opposite sex and the opposite sex), the life level is broad, set a few more life goals, and have family, career, friendship and other support, the pain will still pass.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Landlord, hello, in fact, love is a thing, there is nothing to pay, you have to reciprocate, only pay, you hope to have a return. If you can forget someone, it's the best, but you can't forget it, because you still have him "her", so do your own thing first, such as finding something you like to do, and slowly you will find out how you start to forget, but the mood is still not good. Love, in fact, you don't need any reason, at least 3 words together to be content, only satisfied, in order to get true love, based on pain is not necessarily true love, if you like each other, first make a friend, after a period of time, in the confession, so that the other party really to understand you, followed by showing their own weight of the difference in the point, let the other party appreciate!

    There is also the question that many people ask does love pass over time? Actually, no, because time is also controlled by yourself, and how much you give up is the root of the passage. Many people ask whether love can last forever, that is, they are also in their own hands.

    Only your own efforts, your own efforts, will you get what you want to have, failure, pain, crying, sadness, who has not been, just more than less problems, less crying, less pain, your road will go far, go long! Why do we want to have love, in fact, what we want to have is not love, but the most basic together. I hope the landlord is very happy to see what I write every day, and can understand a lot 1

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Listen to Korean songs, but don't listen to love songs...

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