My boyfriend is going to bring someone I hate to the house, and I have a fight with him?

So I want to ask you why do you hate that person? And you can explain the reason clearly to your husband, and maybe your husband is embarrassed not to bring him, so he brought it, so I suggest that the two of you should discuss it carefully.

If you really don't want to see him, you wait for him to go back later.

Personally, I think you should bear with it, don't get angry with him anymore, communicate well, if he has promised his cousin, and then regret it, it is not appropriate, just have a meal, it is not a permanent residence, some things need to be forgiven to each other. You also have to take into account his feelings, after all, it's his cousin, no matter how you don't like it, it's okay to eat a meal. It doesn't feel worth it to be angry, hurt and angry over trivial things.

You communicate with him well, you can say, this time to give you face, just try not to let him come in the future, maybe he can still accept it. Long winded, I wish you happiness.

You are right, your family hates him except for your boyfriend, which means that this person has a very bad character, your boyfriend should be concerned about kinship, and it is difficult to refuse, you should tell your boyfriend that if he comes, you will hide out, but there can be no next time.

I think you're a little underwhelmed by this! Do you think that his cousin's character is better than you, and since he has invited him to come, he must have his own ideas, so you shouldn't go too far? Take the initiative to explain your thoughts to him, admit that your behavior is ill-conceived, and be honest that nothing like this will happen again in the future.

Ask him for forgiveness and he will be reconciled with you.

Such a man doesn't know what he's doing, he's got you, his heart and body are entrusted to him, and he doesn't know why, maybe he's tired of you, or maybe he's heard about your past, think about it.

You should first find out why your boyfriend is bringing him to your house, maybe there is something important that you can't say, you should communicate well instead of arguing.

It can be seen that your man is really bad, since he has already got you, he plans to give you happiness and live with you, which means that the two of you can really come together, and now you are bringing people you don't want to see to come to the house for dinner, which is really not okay, whether it is that man, he will not bring such a daughter-in-law to the house, and quarrel with you for this fact. Now you have to communicate with him, explain your thoughts, and at the same time get his thoughts, why insist on taking people home, only communication can understand each other and eliminate misunderstandings.

There must be a reason for doing things, you feel like he doesn't understand you, he thinks you don't understand him. Quarrels only add to the anger and do not solve the problem, after all, no one wants to give in. Then try to calm the anger of the two and talk about the contradictions.

Everything is still precious, as long as he doesn't bully you, you shouldn't care about these, if he really doesn't know what to do, then what you are doing is right, don't worry about it.

Summary. Hello dear, the man's parents are against you being together, and you can work with your boyfriend to convince his family to agree that you are together. Some couples insist on their feelings, they will slowly persuade their family members to agree to them being together, and the family members also slowly understand the woman's character, words and deeds through daily interactions, and slowly accept such feelings from the heart.

Through daily interactions, let the other party's family know more about you, so that they can recognize you [more than heart] [heart].

My boyfriend's family is against us being together + he doesn't dare to come to me + what should I do.

Hello dear, the man's parents are against you being together, and you can work with your boyfriend to convince his family to agree that you are together. Some couples insist on their feelings, they will slowly persuade their family members to agree to them being together, and the family members also slowly understand the woman's character, words and deeds through daily interactions, and slowly accept such feelings from the heart. Through daily interactions, let the other party's family know more about you, so that they can recognize you [more than heart] [heart].

Let your boyfriend communicate more with his parents, so that his parents know the depth of your relationship

We are in a long-distance relationship, he is in Hebei, and I am in Kunming.

Do you know the reasons for the opposition.

I know that it's far away, and then I say that my mom can't move, and I don't want to go to their side, my mom.

And then he said, I'm afraid that his son will be under a lot of pressure in the future, and we have so much money to do if we have a child.

Let the man communicate with his parents, and truly love someone, he will love her for who she is, not for the money, fame and status attached to her. Love makes people brave and makes people desperate to break through all difficulties and obstacles, instead of racking their brains to make excuses for their withdrawal.

Although money is very important, marriage is for love, and the matter of money can be done by two people together

And told him that he would work hard to improve himself and reduce the burden on his other half.

His grandmother was going to live or die, and asked him to go back and not let him be on my side, and then his mother told him, "Let's cut off contact between the two of us, and said that my family has a big burden, and what will my mother do in the future, and there will be more places to ask for money in the future, and my mother will not want to go to their side, and then it will be far away."

What do boyfriends think, whether they want to listen to the family arrangement or stick to being together.

If the boy insists on being together, he should be responsible for explaining to his parents that although this relationship is not easy, the two are willing to work hard to make life better.

I'm afraid of his grandmother.

We can face the rest all the time, and now it's just waiting for me to go to the city, but I don't know if it's worth it.

The old man is like this, he doesn't want to go far away, and he is responsible for convincing his parents to do it

Dear, I'm happy to answer your questions

First of all, I understand your feelings very well at the moment, what about what if you want to take your boyfriend back to my house but now you have a fight with him and he doesn't want to go back to my house with me? The specific situation of this problem should be analyzed by the vertical body of the socks, combined with my own experience, and the reasons should be analyzed first:

1. It's the first time to bring your boyfriend home to meet your parents, and you've made an appointment with your parents, so you should calm down and discuss this matter, he doesn't want to go home with you because of a quarrel? Or was it reluctant in the first place, which led to a quarrel?

2. Or did you make an appointment to take him back to your house on holidays, but you didn't want to face it because of a quarrel?

Based on the above two reasons, we will give you the following suggestions:

1. If it is the first time to bring your boyfriend home, the other party may not be ready, both parties calm down, calmly communicate the problem, and see if you can change the time and take it home;

2. If it is a holiday, you can go home by yourself first, after all, parents will always look forward to their children coming home, don't let down the family affection because of love.

Quarrels are a common thing between couples, and they must try to communicate more and understand the problem in order to "prescribe the right medicine". The maintenance of the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend requires the joint efforts of both parties. It's to the point of taking it home, I believe you have a relationship foundation, and you love your boyfriend very much, so you are willing to take him home.

If it's just your unilateral effort and you don't get a response, you can be separated, and the days ahead are still very long, so make yourself happy!

Have a great day!

I hope it helps you

Summary. The reason for this breakup is too hasty, you really didn't do it right, since you are already a couple, why don't you want to take you to his relative's house? And you can't break up because of that.

My boyfriend was reluctant to take me to his relative's house, and we had a fight and broke up.

The reason for this breakup is too hasty, you really didn't do it right, since you are already a couple, why don't you want to take you to his relative's house? And you can't break up because of that.

The reason for this breakup is too hasty, your boyfriend is really wrong, since you are already a couple, why is he not willing to take you to his relative's house? And you can't break up because of that.

If your boyfriend thinks it's too early for him to take you to a relative's house, then explain the situation. You can't just say no to it.

There is nothing wrong with what you are doing, since you are already in a relationship, you should go to his relative's house to have a visit, which will deepen your relationship even more. If you are a couple, you should let your relatives and friends know and let everyone know.

It's a pity to break up because of this incident, you should still communicate well with your boyfriend and ask him what the reason is, because it's too early to go to a relative's house, wait for a period of emotional stability before going, or is there any other special reason? Don't give up on good love because of that.

Answer: You can consider the following aspects: First of all, you can do ideological work for your family, and at this time, say more good things about your boyfriend in front of your family, and give him a few kind words to enhance the good feeling. Then let your boyfriend show his strengths in front of your family, and try to avoid his weaknesses by using this method to promote his strengths and avoid weaknesses.

I don't know what you think of your boyfriend, but if you really love each other, convince your family to accept him.

If the two of you really love each other, find an appropriate opportunity to communicate with your parents, where you are worthy of loving him, communicate with your parents more, and your parents will naturally understand after a long time.

First of all, you have to know that your boyfriend is the first inadequacy for your parents not to approve, and then let your boyfriend try to do as much as your parents approve.

Secondly, if the above methods have been tried. There are some things that your parents can't accept that your boyfriend can't change at this stage, you need to communicate more with your parents to express your loyalty to love and express your deep love for him, which is not fake.

Furthermore, if your parents still insist on refusing to associate with them and do things that you don't understand to force you to compromise, you can't take strong measures, such as death or elopement. You can only break up with your boyfriend temporarily at this stage, explain the situation, make him understand, express your determination to continue, and express your strong desire to make your parents accept. Allowing him to take the time to change himself will give him the motivation to change.

I can't say that since you love me, you can change it, and if you don't want to do it, then break up, this kind of words.

The best and most effective way is of course to mobilize your other relatives to persuade your parents, so that your boyfriend can do things that can make the family feel warm, and show you a man's sense of responsibility and responsibility.

Don't elope, you have to talk to your parents, maybe they just think you're impulsive, and you have to tell them with practical actions Don't be impulsive.

Let's elope, it's not easy to meet the right person. Parents will eventually agree.

Ask for help and let you convince your family that there have been real cases ......

Let the grandson intercede with his grandfather.

First of all, I want to tell you that there must be a reason why people in the family oppose you being with your boyfriend, it may be because of family background, or it may be because of personality, in short, he must have a reason not to make this choice plainly.

I suggest you listen to them first and ask them why exactly they don't like your boyfriend? Think he's not good? It's because the economic conditions in his family are not as high as yours, or that he can't bring you some happiness, or even whether she doesn't feel so good in some aspects of her personality.

If it's not for these reasons, but because of his personality, maybe your parents aren't very optimistic. That can definitely tell them what kind of person he is, don't compare him with the experience of his predecessors, you must know that he still has some good things in life.

You can tell them to observe him for a while, don't immediately dismiss him, and then tell him what his friends say about him in life, so that they will approve of your boyfriend more.

You're with your boyfriend, and you're definitely in love with some aspect of his life, some kind of charm. You can tell your parents bluntly what kind of charm he has, but don't say anything about running away from home because of this matter, all kinds of hurtful words, don't say this kind of thing, and don't say anything that he won't marry.

Every relationship can't be particularly smooth, and there are bound to be all sorts of problems. I think that the opposition of people in the family to being with your boyfriend can really make you feel very uncomfortable and tangled, and in this case, you can do this:

Secondly, if you ask the reasons for the family's objections, think about it yourself, whether there will really be those reasons, and the family will definitely not know your boyfriend as well, what they see may be the superficial phenomenon, but sometimes they may see the problem more thoroughly than you see, think about whether your boyfriend is really as they say, if so, then you listen to your family and break up with your boyfriend. One of my best friends, her sister, insisted on marrying her boyfriend because she didn't listen to her parents, but she divorced after only one year of marriage, and she especially regretted not listening to her parents. In fact, both parents know more than themselves, and they will be very accurate in seeing people, so sometimes there is nothing wrong with listening to their parents.

Sometimes you still need to listen to the advice of your family, but you can't listen to all of them, and if your marriage is not supported by your relatives, it is difficult for such a marriage to be happy.