I m concerned about my boyfriend s past, and my boyfriend cares a lot about my past?

Does the past matter? The past doesn't matter! It really doesn't matter!

I've been through your experience, my boyfriend, who shouldn't be an ex-boyfriend, has been with me for five years! We broke up, he used to be very nice to me, but I was very concerned that his first kiss was not given to me, now I think about how stupid I am, is it necessary? We've been five years, I've given him everything, I think maybe his next girlfriend will also care about being jealous, but I think, you shouldn't be jealous, if he's a good person, since he chose the previous one to break up with you, it means that you've won, really!

Be cherished! Let the past pass. I just hope that the huge hurt I suffered can be exchanged for the happiness of my ex-boyfriend!

Hehe, adding a "former" word is really really unaccustomed!

As long as he doesn't have contact with that person.

You just treat those things as just a **.

I think you still have to communicate, tell him your thoughts, let him share with you to solve your knot, this is the way two people should be together, don't be afraid that he will be embarrassed or avoidant, because this is to prove his attitude towards you and the past, and communicate with him bravely.

If you feel that communication will make you uncomfortable, it is also recommended that you can distance yourself from all aspects, so as to calm your heart, interpret your emotional dependence on him and the depth, and maybe you will also get unexpected answers.

As long as you don't keep holding yourself like this, it's not good for yourself and your feelings.

You have to try to be tolerant, in the past no one can do anything about things.

Your boyfriend cares a lot about your past, which means that he cares about you very much, has you in his heart, but is very curious about your past, and he wants to know what kind of person you are. You can tell him, but not all, the secret that should be hidden is hidden in your heart, don't say it, otherwise a good relationship will be greatly reduced, tell him that you love her very much, no matter what happened in the past, I only like you in my life, presumably he won't ask too much.

Everyone grows up from the past. To deny your past is to deny you. Then there will inevitably be no good outcome.

You must not feel guilty about this, and go and be doubly good to him, because this will only make him confess that Sakura is excited, and this thing itself is your fault.

Make it clear to him, remember, you must make it clear, let him face the facts, you also face the facts, let the temporary parting test your feelings, if you both agree to be separated for a period of time and not contact at all (not trembling is a breakup), if you really like each other, think about it well, and live, maybe a month is the best interval, and when you meet again, these problems will not be a reason to hinder you.

The more humble you are in front of him, the better you are to him, the more he will naturally mind your past, because he can't accept you from the bottom of his heart, maybe he just drags you and waits for him to find a more suitable person. You just tell the truth, your past is very reasonable, and the past ex is what you really loved, so you paid it.

Emotional matters are a little more dialectical. None of these things are important, just make it clear, it's just that the past is in the past. Boys should really like it, they will naturally understand and accept, long live everything, boys insist on refusing, and they will naturally pull down.

The key is that the young couple should find a café or something, sit down and have a good chat, know each other's thoughts, and the answer will come out.

The most important thing for two people to be together is to communicate and wish happiness.

Both men and women will care about each other's past, this is a very normal phenomenon, what you have experienced in the past, you have not explained, this question is only Zen and can guess the general idea.

If the Zhixi or Dao woman has a not-so-glorious past, this is really a test of feelings.

In this case, it is recommended that the two be honest with each other, have a good chat, express their concerns, and break up if they can talk well, otherwise they will not be happy together, and it will become a thorn in the hearts of the two.

Generally speaking, the past is in the past, and the most important thing is the present. If a boy keeps talking about the past, he may not have confidence in the present and the future, which is actually the so-called anxiety.

In this case, it is advisable to eliminate his worries and worries, give him confidence, and give himself confidence that the past is in the past, and it is more important to grasp the present and tomorrow, so that who remembers yesterday.

First of all, this kind of person accounts for only a small part, and people who have been obsessed with the past are likely to be narrow-minded, and this kind of person will have more violent and criminal tendencies, and the future may not be easy, so it is recommended to choose carefully.

A relationship actually has little to do with the past, because what you want to live is the present and the future, as long as two people want to be together, there is no hurdle that cannot be passed.

There's a good saying: I care about your past, but I don't want to know anything about your past!

If you really love someone, you don't care about the other person, whether it is in the past or in the future. It's just that many things can't be forced, so we retreat to the next best thing, selectively make ourselves less concerned about the other person's past, just don't care so much, can we really do it less caring?

What has never been experienced, the promise made at the beginning, many times is just a kind of groundless blind confidence!

The so-called love, the most important thing is acceptance, that is, to forget each other's past, that is: I don't mind what kind of past you have, I don't mind your so-called black history, what I care about is the present, and the future we will have together. It's just that when fantasy and reality collide, anyone can helplessly see their own narrow side, and can't help but condemn me in my heart for not being tolerant enough, and on the other hand, questioning:

Am I not loving him enough?

No, no, no, I believe that most people's love is thick and sincere, and there is no need to question yourself. It's just that growth itself is a fantasy, reality shines into fantasy, breaking illusions, hesitation, hesitation, and then the process of being truly firm, so my advice to friends who are in confusion is:

1. At the beginning, saying that you understand and pretend not to mind must be a manifestation of true love, there is no doubt about it;

2. As long as you don't hurt the other party, then let the other party know your past as little as possible, as well as many details of the past, after all, it's one thing to know, but it's another thing to witness the whole process of things and not care about it.

3. If it's the other party's past, you don't have anything to do to investigate the other party's past, it's okay to block yourself, it's enough to support yourself, as long as you are sure that the other party loves you now, you don't care about the rest.