You ve been single, are you okay now?

It's good, it doesn't matter, one person feeds the whole family without hunger, no drag.

It's good, it's comfortable, there are not a lot of trivial things, occasionally go shopping with friends, chase stars, watch favorite TV series and movies, eat food, anyway, I think it's very comfortable.

It's getting better and better.

It's okay now. I am worried that one day I will be old and disabled, there will definitely be no one to serve me, and I don't want to go to a nursing home, so there is only one way to commit suicide.

I think it's good, but my parents don't think so. As for outsiders, it doesn't matter what they think.

It's not good, it's bad, it's so stressful.

When I was single, I learned to cook and take care of my life alone, and I almost learned 72 lines.

It's good, it's alive and well. Especially when I see the examples of failures around me, I am even more scared.

It's good, love to read, study hard, and keep fighting.

It's good, I don't think I'm going to believe in love now, I only believe in money, why bother to make myself so tired for love, a person can do whatever he wants, free!

Maternal fetus solo 23 years, you say can be good, can you be good.

Except for the feeling that my eyes are a little wet every night when I'm alone, everything else is fine, and occasionally I go out to the entertainment venue on Valentine's Day and the like to play a prank and occupy a position, which makes their angry teeth itch.

It's a shame to be single all the time, and I'm desperate.

That's good! Cool crooked.

It's good to be alone, but after a long time, you don't want to have any love and love.

It's okay, I've been separated from my first love for three years and I've been single. Sometimes I envy others for having a boyfriend, and sometimes I think that if I don't get it, I won't lose it, which is good. I've always liked my first love, I've never changed my mind, and even though he has a girlfriend now, I still like him.

Don't worry, I won't break you up, I just want you to know that I've always loved you.

Okay, no one in the family will urge, but there are always some people who are not in a hurry for the emperor and eunuchs, and they are still single, and they are still urging others to get married.

Fortunately, I don't think it's anything to be single, on the contrary, the kind of relationship between two people is what I'm most afraid of dealing with.

We're not single, we just like to be alone, I'm not looking for it, I just want to give myself a little more time to struggle, we're not necessarily hard to be single, we enjoy the loneliness, we don't really want to be single, we just want to wait for a really lovely person.

I have been single for a long time, and I know more about love and responsibility.

I thought I was single, but I didn't think that there were many people who were single, who didn't want to have a home, couldn't afford to buy a house in the city, and failed to partner with others. The mother also used a sum of money for heart disease. Alas!

Fortunately, except for the occasional idea of wanting to fall in love, everything else is good.

College love is a dream, but many people have been single for four years, why.

Before going to college, students' minds are full of beautiful visions of college life, what to participate in the student union, get scholarships, fight for graduate school, etc., and the most planned list should be to talk about a sweet campus love.

High school does not allow early love, mainly because of the fear of delaying students' learning, and also for fear that they will be immature and guided by bad emotions, but there are still some high school students who are secretly in early love, and they are usually criticized and educated when they are discovered, and even more so they are punished with demerits, and the price is not small, even so it can't stop the throbbing of some adolescent students.

In college, love can be above board, and there are many students who have this plan in college, but in today's college campuses, single people abound, and many students have never been in love in four years of college, and there are many students who have good looks and conditions in all aspects.

In the matter of falling in love, usually boys take the initiative more, there are many beautiful girls on the college campus, and even if you don't fall in love, you can become friends, but many college boys would rather play games in the dormitory, and they don't go far out of the dormitory to make friends, and they regret it after being single for four years, why didn't they fall in love.

College students would rather live in dormitories than make friends, why are they so "rebellious"?

Not only boys, but many girls would rather stay in the dormitory, than go out to meet new friends, in the dormitory naturally there is no way to fall in love, high school does not allow non-early love, college let and single, can't help but wonder why college students are so rebellious? Ruined boys.

One of the reasons for the analysis of the aftermath of the chain is the "involution", all say that today's college students are really easy to mix, and they will graduate after playing for four years, that is, you don't see all.

Today's college students take college as a high school a lot, not only to take care of their studies, to ensure the results of each subject, but also to continue to enrich, improve the overall quality, but also to participate in various organizational activities, enrich personal resume, a week down there is no free time at all, finally can have a relaxing time, boys play games, girls are chasing dramas, but not just don't want to go out.

Of course, part of the reason is that many college students are unwilling to reduce their quality of life, falling in love is more expensive, college students' living expenses are limited, if they are in love, their daily expenses will also increase, then their quality of life will decline, many college students want to understand this, and they are more willing to make themselves comfortable than in love.

There is also the development of the Internet and technology so that many college students prefer online love, that is, online love, online dating does not have to spend time and cost to accompany, nor does it cost money to operate, and under the beauty of college students can see a relatively perfect appearance, this fast way to make friends with a hazy sense of making friends, so that many college students know that it is unreliable, but they are still immersed in it.

The city is bustling, lonely and fragile.

People in the city are either busy with work, or socially closed-loop, or they don't know how to love, dare not love, or don't want to love.

Everyone is afraid that they will lose, that they will not be free, that they will be rejected.

01 Why am I single?

Although we live under the same sky, in the same time and space, it seems that we will meet, but it is not.

Some singles are actively selected, and some are passive.

Today we will talk about what prevents us from getting off the list:

1.Single gene: This gene counteracts the concentration of serotonin, the feel-good chemical in the brain, making people uncomfortable with intimacy. Data shows that people with this gene are 20% more likely to be single than others.

2.Personality: Some people are perfectionist, some are afraid of failure or are timid and cautious, some are too strong or have too high self-esteem, etc., which can easily lead to singleness.

Perfectionists are very demanding on love, they have high requirements for both a big partner and love, and they are always looking for "ideal love" and "ideal partner".

The timid and cautious are cowering and passive in love, they are afraid of being hurt and they are afraid of taking responsibility.

People who are too strong or have too strong self-esteem will give the other person a sense of oppression.

In fact, many single people are unaware of their problems.

If we can identify the problem and prescribe the right medicine, it will not be so difficult to get rid of the order.

02 How to start a relationship with a "lonely" in the city?

Self-doubt, lack of self-confidence, crisis of trust.

The paranoia of love, self-entanglement, habitual singleness.

I don't know how to express myself, I have no time to fall in love, and I am anxious about age.

These are the reasons why everyone is afraid to love.

Here are a few tips to let you start the "love journey".

1.Broaden your circle of friends: You can develop your own hobbies and also have more outdoor activities, such as mountain climbing, playing ball, etc., which can provide opportunities to meet new people.

2.Treat the removal of orders as a KPI: If you are a workaholic or a novice in love, you can make a plan for yourself, treat the removal of orders as a project, break down the project, and then execute it.

But beware: skill is only an auxiliary, and sincerity is the only magic weapon to true heart. Only the cave.

3.Create a personal image: Look at some fashion outfits and try different styles. You have to believe that the beginning of love is that you happen to be what I like.

Many single people say that because they are single, they feel inferior and feel that they are different, please don't have such thoughts.

Everyone is unique, and everyone deserves love.

Dialogue with God says, "Go your own way, and allow others to go your own way." ”

So, please give your one a moment of time, he's already on his way.

Perhaps, the next second you will meet!

My conditions are very poor, no money, no house, no car, no girl is willing to associate with me, forced to helpless, Zhiqin has to live alone, sometimes it seems very lonely and lonely and boring!

Busy working hard, I don't have time to take care of love.

Living in this day and age, many people understand very well that marriage needs money to maintain. Therefore, many people, when their own economic conditions are poor and they do not have the confidence to face marriage, they often put all their minds on poverty alleviation. When a person only thinks about working hard for his career, he often really doesn't think about getting off the list.

Like a person and don't want to be tied down.

Some people don't know how to live when they leave others, but there are also people who like to be alone. He was afraid of being disturbed by others, and he didn't want any rift arguments to break into his world, so he just wanted to live freely and casually. He may have thought about getting married for a few years, and he may not have thought about who he was going to marry at all.

The circle is too small, and I didn't meet the right person.

Every day is two points and one line, and the people he comes into contact with are always those inherent people, when a person's life state becomes like this, and there is no suitable opposite sex around him, then it is difficult for him to say goodbye to being single. When the circle is too narrow, it is easy to get to know more people, but it is not so easy to do.

If you miss the person you like, you don't want to love again.

There will be some people, when they miss the person they like, he will find someone to marry, but at the same time, there is another kind of person, when the person he wants to marry leaves, he will not want to love anyone again. He didn't hope that he could go back to the past, but he just was, and he couldn't help but lock up his heart.

There are many reasons to choose a single person, and here are a few types that I have summarized:

1.Occupational reasons. I know people who are full of pre-paradigmatic pursuit and self-fulfillment in their careers, and they believe that romance will affect their life and work, so they choose to be single as a way of self-fulfillment.

2.I wasn't ready. I also know some people, they may have a little reservation about the attitude of the big army of emotional development, they may not have updated conditions for their emotional life, or they have had the experience of failure, and their choice of being single is a kind of psychological self-protection, perhaps in order to better prepare for the future love life and avoid being hurt again.

3.Pursue personal space and freedom. Some people enjoy a low-key and independent life, they may be intentional or not, they choose to be single by themselves, because they are no longer in the pursuit of feelings, but enjoy the time they live alone.

To sum up, there are many reasons why people actively choose to be single, and everyone's situation is different. Some people choose to be single for professional self-realization, some people may be because their hearts are not completely ready for a new love life, and some people choose to be single because they like a life of personal emptiness and freedom.

Whatever the reason, choosing to be single does not mean that they are unhappy or lonely, everyone has their own lifestyle and choices, and on people's paths, we should respect their decisions and not judge their actions and choices.

Because I didn't meet the right one, hahahahaha, just take your time, I don't think I want to be right, I may be together, but I haven't met that person I haven't met the opposite sex around the Closed Mountain Clan, and I won't only tease the development in this direction Slow sedan car and slow so Believe in fate.