How long does it take to forget someone you love?

See how much you love him. And it depends on what you are separated. It also depends on what kind of personality you have. It can be as short as a month or as long as a lifetime.

It's up to you, if you really want to forget, don't be nostalgic for the past, the past is undoubted, learn to forget, and gradually, it will be forgotten.

If what you mean by deep love is deep love for a lifetime

The first one took 3 years, and now this one is being forgotten... Ha ha.

It depends on how much you love.

I used it for 3 months.

Forgetting and deep love, I personally feel a little contradictory, in the depths of the heart the most worthless and memorable things will be forgotten, but deep love is the sublimation of the feelings of the most meaningful and valuable things in the depths of the heart, contradictions, not good for you.

If it is true love, you have to remember it well, why forget it, don't run away from the pain of growing up, it will benefit you later in life.

For a lifetime, because he has been remembered by you and accompanied me for the rest of my life.

It's not easy to forget about a person, and it's a wise choice to let go of one. If you can let go of the things in your heart, then you can let go of everything.

I can understand your feelings about you, but it's not so easy for people to forget (except for doing stupid things), especially for those who are deeply impressed in their minds.

Maybe the occurrence of things means that we continue to think, constantly around but do not know how not to face, people are naturally not easy to forget a person, the more you want to forget things and people will make things backfire, only know how to let go, let go of some things in your heart, naturally it doesn't matter, even if you can't forget it.

For forgetting someone, I have a temporary forgetting here, but it doesn't mean that you will definitely be able to forget, only when you think about it, you can control yourself to forget temporarily.

People are the masters of thoughts, and thoughts are controlled by us ourselves, so this alone allows us to control how our thoughts should temporarily forget a person, and when you think of a person, you can still control whether your thoughts should continue to be controlled (just ask, you are here to solve problems, so what makes you have such thoughts to ask?). ）。

The human brain is more rational, while the heart is more emotional. Brain rationality can control how people should grasp and control their thoughts, but the heart is different, the heart has always been more emotional, and the perceptual heart can only really liberate yourself by letting go of the things in your heart.

Maybe! Time is a good medicine, but this medicine has a ***, because time will slowly wear away memories with pain, and people are constantly in vicissitudes.

Since you have loved it deeply, you will never forget it, unless you have amnesia. I think the subject should mean to be able to let go of one's heart. In fact, the heartache of losing a loved one can be eliminated and forgotten.

The most clichéd and effective way to get out of this pain is two, one is time, and the other is a new love.

1.We don't dwell on pain as we think we do.

Whether it is in the film and television drama or in reality, every pair of painful lovelorns thinks that they have lost their love, and vows not to marry again for the rest of their lives. However, in the near future, these people will be shaking in front of us with their new boyfriends and girlfriends in a month, two months, or six months and a year. The kind of infatuated lover who never marries for life is extremely rare.

So, we can't underestimate our ability to heal emotionally from a wound. Although the process was extremely painful at the time, it usually didn't last as long as we thought, and the pain wasn't as intense. In fact, before we are relieved or find a new love, the reason for sadness is often unwillingness.

Because people are smart, they will naturally seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. Those memories that make you miserable will be selectively forgotten by the brain's mechanisms. Well, the scar forgets the pain, and it is the best example.

So, don't worry too much about being in pain and not being able to get out, give yourself some time, and everything will be fine.

2.The fastest way to forget the pain of losing a loved one is to find a new love.

This sentence is hard to hear, because the person who has just lost the so-called deep love should be as painful as everyone hopes for a while, but you have found a new love so quickly, it seems that the previous affection is fake. It is precisely because of such a threshold in everyone's and their own hearts that they would rather not be able to get out of the pain themselves, and they can't let people point fingers.

In fact, it is completely stupid to think so. When this deep love has indeed been lost, the most responsible thing for you to do is to move quickly out of the pain. Because this kind of pain only brings negative emotions, instead of dwelling on the past, it is better to face the past experience positively, from which you can reflect on the truth of the emotion, in order to truly let go.

How to heal your emotional damage in a small amount of time and start a new relationship will have a significant effect. Many people can't get out of love as soon as possible after falling out of love because he closes his emotional door. However, as I said earlier, being able to face the past positively and be open to other people or friends is the quickest and most effective way to repair your emotional wounds.

All in all, when we need to forget a loved one, it is because we are still dwelling on this lost emotion. Memories cannot be erased, but the emotional trauma that comes with them can fade over time. When we are truly relieved, we may no longer want to forget that person, but just regard her (him) as an experience in our own life.

Personally, I think it only takes half a year, because I once forgot my first love, and it only took half a year.

Not necessarily. Because everyone's situation is different, some people quickly forget, and some never forget.