My pain, I want to cry, why do I change my mind

Updated on psychology 2024-04-11
48 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not necessarily going to last forever, the sea is dry and rotten Give her some freedom, and give you some freedom What should come will always come It's not a way to force you to go I want to open it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Isn't it normal, love is a very unstable thing?

    Your girlfriend is not ruthless, she doesn't want to see you choose a worse one than her, she really loves you, so if you choose a bad one, doesn't it mean that she has a problem with her vision? Hey.

    Moreover, you have all broken up, do you want you to keep a chastity archway for her and cry day and night to be happy? I think that's how she's ruthless!

    You find a better one, and she also finds a better one, and they are all happy and happy to live, isn't it a perfect ending?

    It's normal for you to fall in love with someone else, our lives are all moving forward, and your relationship with her is stuck in the past forever. Love your choice well, don't compare her with her ex-girlfriend, it's easy to hurt feelings I hope you can get long-term happiness this time!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Comrade, she told you everything, she is not completely sincere to you, maybe she used to expect you from you. Although I don't know how many reasons there are, I don't think it's your fault that you didn't live up to her expectations of you, it's also something that can't be helped, and I also think it's right for you to separate, neither of you is wholeheartedly, and it feels more sad to stay together, and it will be more sad to be pretentious.

    If you can find your sincerity now, you can't give up, you have to go all out, I wish you can find a better tomorrow.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's all conceptual, listen to me.

    People are always controlled by the emotions triggered by the surface of things, why?

    It's because you're too attached to yourself, and if that happened to someone else, you might be able to teach him to deal with it rationally, so if you want to be selfless, you must first let go of the delusions in your heart, which are empty and unsearchable, so that you can let go of attachments.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because man is not for himself, heaven and earth will be destroyed. No matter who it is, when he does something, he always thinks about what kind of benefit he wants to bring to himself, this benefit may be naïve, maybe happy, maybe money, so people are very selfish animals. People can do things that they would not even think of for their own selfish desires.

    You're in pain right now, but have you ever wondered if you've ever hurt someone else too? So, be strong and get out of your dark and painful inner world, because there are so many people who are more painful than they are now standing up strong and moving towards their future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I am an employee of a private business.

    Because the boss is selfish and does not meet his responsibilities, he is perfunctory to the customer. There wasn't a minute of rest for me either. He often said that I couldn't handle things, but he meant that I wouldn't fool people.

    I was dizzy and uncomfortable. I left there, and after half a month, I still didn't get the salary he paid me (only half of it).

    And did something like that to me.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you want to cry, cry out loud, it will be much more comfortable

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's not like it's all like that. That's the way it is for most of them anyway. Let's open it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I have time to travel and think too much.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's the same when I broke up with my first love, when people are particularly sad, they will have distrust of reality, their bodies will tremble, and after a while they will accept reality, and the painful feeling will be stronger, and in some occasions and situations, they will cry...

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Is this one? When I am sad and painful, I am alone, I will not cry, I am sad but I will not shed tears, but when I want to tell my friends or family about my pain, I will cry, tears are very sad, you may be too, there is a kind of pain called dry crying, that is, there are no tears, but the pain in the heart is so sad that you can't shed tears.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Because crying for you can no longer express the kind of time when you are most painful and sad. At this time, you need to use another way to vent your pain, because you don't explain why you are in pain and want to cry, so what can't I do to help you?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is a word called desire to cry without tears, the more painful it is, the more painful it is to the point that there are no tears.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    That's because I'm so sad that I'm numb and optimistic.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In fact, it was just that I felt unwilling and wronged. You know it's not worth it, you don't need any form of pity, especially self-pity, you know the truth better than anyone else, it hurts so much that there are no tears, I think you have grown up, at least you can know that it's just bitterness, and it doesn't mean anything At least you're strong.

    Congratulations to the landlord, you know what to do, but you are soft-hearted and don't know whether to do it.

    Good luck After crossing this hurdle, you are still a man (ps: although I don't know if you are a real man or a female man, hehe).

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The tears have dried up. Man is paralyzed.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Mourning is greater than heart death, this is called crying without tears... It doesn't get any worse than that.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is recommended that you see a psychiatrist.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Go to the hospital to check the tear gland function!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It hurts too much or it doesn't get to that point.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because you don't want to show your weak side.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Find a friend to go crazy and the pain will be gone.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Hehe, I can understand you, I have a brother and a woman who also like it, and I have almost had an ambiguous relationship, and even played that kind of stars and moon is to play cards, and I lost and kissed, and then I couldn't extricate myself, but the conclusion is that the other party itself doesn't like you, no matter how ambiguous it is, it's zero.

    At the same time, it is estimated that you did not break the deadlock at the beginning is your biggest regret, simply put, my brother went to confess, and then failed, that is also experienced, your biggest regret at present may be that you have not confessed to that girl, but you know their current relationship, you can't accept it.

    Learn a lesson, women are everywhere, if you find something that suits you, you have to work hard to find it if you miss it, don't be afraid of a failure.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You may just be mistaken

    My girlfriend and I are talking about getting married, my parents have met, she is still in love with someone else, we only end up breaking up, and today, I don't hate her, because we really loved each other

    She said she was going to marry the man because of her guilt that she couldn't face me anymore and we gave each other one last blessing

    Say yes, be happy, and be happy forever

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Little brother, it's the first time, it's going to be very uncomfortable, but it's just an experience of life, Jet Li's film said so, "let go of the burden and run to a new life" Time can change everything. Actually, it's not a big deal, who hasn't fallen in love, not to mention that I heard you say that this situation is not a broken love at all, I think you are self-inflicted. You've never been sure about the relationship.

    Even if you don't even confess anything, you belong to a crush, tell you a few ways:

    1。Go to the song hall and shout a few times, and make a sound.

    2。In fact, the most effective way is to find another girlfriend, so that you can forget about it quickly, 3. The most important thing is not to close yourself. The more participants participate in group activities, work more, and sweat a little more, and they will feel much better.

    4。Watch some funny movies, or listen to some cross talk or something, and change your mood.

    Okay, that's all, it's gone in less than two months, and I'm still the same sentence, time dilutes everything.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Everyone has felt like falling out of love! You're just unrequited love, thank you for your cooperation! Aren't you asking for trouble?

    It's not that people snatch love, what's there to be sad about! Mentality is very important, in fact, experiencing such a thing once in your life is nothing big, and it can even be said to be a good thing, and it will not be so painful after experiencing it! It's completely a matter of mentality, why are you so careful, people are not born to be your girlfriend or wife, and being angry shows that you are selfish!

    Watch out!!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Crush, which most people have experienced when they were in school, will be a good memory for you. There is a saying that loves someone does not necessarily have to have her, but only wants her to be happy.

    Bless her well. As for what you said, let me tell me about my experience, because I use my mobile phone, and I can only type 12 words every time, so I'll tell you on the computer when I have time.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Heartache is always inevitable in a lifetime.,I've also survived a lot of heartache to come over.,Everyone is.,The pain at that time was unbearable.,After everything has passed.,It's just a variety of experiences to recall.,In fact, at this time, saying nothing can eliminate the feelings in lz's heart.,I think you need some brothers, some wine, and some time.。。。 We're mans

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Dude, there are many women in the world, why hang a tree? My first love failed 2 years ago, and people persuaded me, but now I understand, she doesn't accompany me, just these four words!

    Brother, you should cherish this good time when you can go to college, and I regret it for the rest of my life because I didn't go to college (I didn't go to high school).

    Listen to my brother's words, first calm down, complete your studies smoothly, find a more stable job, and achieve something in your career, why worry about beautiful women when the time comes? At the moment when you succeed, maybe you are more worried, who do I choose with so many women? Hehe!

    Calm down, if you break up, you should have four words "she doesn't deserve me" in your head!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    What time is it now, the financial crisis is still talking about love, or thinking about not studying hard and not being able to find a job after graduation, some are crying.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    What's the use of being unwilling, if it's a man, he should strike decisively. Remember, this is your last chance to get this girl, and there's no time for you to feel sorry for yourself! Come on, even if you fail, it's glorious. There is no shame in losing, but there is a shame in fear!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I've had a similar experience. But I gave up on my own initiative, because I told myself that I was still young and that I would be better than her in the future. I'll think a little more about it then. There's no economic strength now, is there?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Don't have the thought of dying, you still have a family and a future, there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower! If you like others, bless them, be generous. Time will change all that.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Some girls have two kinds of male friends, one is a boyfriend, that is, a lover, and the other is a good friend, some things she would rather say to a good friend than to her boyfriend, which may make the good friend misunderstand, in fact, she just treats him as a true friend, there is no love, a good friend is just a wrong judgment, the result may be very sad, if you really like her, silently bless her!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    What do you mean by "I really don't want to live anymore, I even feel the urge to cry". I don't want to see it when I see this.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's okay.. It'll be fine tonight... Just wish her happiness ...

    Experience? En. I had a little boyfriend when I was in middle school...

    One day I told him a story about waiting for love for a lifetime. I thought boys didn't like to hear this kind of long story.。。 I didn't expect him to listen to it with relish.

    But this is not a good sign. Then he broke up with me... The reason is that he also has to protect his former girlfriend like the person in the story...

    I was really naïve to think that was it. and leaving with a heartache ... But within a few days, he got along with the girl in the next class.

    I feel speechless...

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Aren't you uncomfortable not confessing to her? Even if the probability of success is slim, I will feel much better after saying it, at least I won't regret it! Love to speak!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You have to remember that you are a man, there is no grass in the world, you have only lost a small grass, and a big forest is waiting for you.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's good to be clear, there's no way to do it, live well, your life is still long, love can't be reluctant, go find your true love.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's really the same as I used to be, but I'm at work. It's also the woman I like who often jokes with me, so I thought we liked each other, and later I found out that she liked someone else! But it's nothing, this kind of thing will naturally be forgotten when you find a good girl.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Isn't that normal? Yours girl is good,,, if it's me, I'll like it too

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Hello, I have also had this kind of mental thought. I like this person very much, but I think I can't give him happiness, so I push him to someone else. I don't know if you're thinking that way now.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Fear of loss and fear of being hurt, we always think that escaping from a relationship, a person who likes us is protecting themselves, but we are wrong, the fault is that we are still amorous, and the fault is that we are still not brave enough......

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    I'm the same way, either I'm inferior, or I'm pretending to be high, wouldn't it be too straightforward to say this? This is not good, if you like someone, you can directly confess to him and ask him if he likes you or not, I hope to adopt!

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It's an ambivalence that desperately desires and avoids.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    You are not confident, the more you like someone, the more you feel unworthy.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    I don't know how to love yet, I don't know how to accept this emotion, I just blindly resist.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Me too, and now the other party doesn't know, and I hope never know.

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