Will I still be married with my boyfriend 20

I think the so-called greatness of love is tolerance, work, family, friends and love depends on how you choose, who is light and who is important, no one knows better than you, for some people who don't like you, I think what you should do is how to move him.

I have a wish.

I have a wish to build a bamboo house on the water in a secluded valley, carefree, fairy companion.

I have a wish to be an elementary school teacher in a beautiful mountain village, with a group of pure and flawless children walking through the mountains and rivers.

I have a wish, I talk to my mom and dad about trendy topics, and we talk about everything.

I have a wish, the person I love loves me, the person who loves me I love, the two love each other, and never separate.

I have a wish to collect all my favorite songs, enjoy the wonderful ** continuously, to the fullest, close my eyes, and revel in it.

I have a wish, basking in the winter sun, holding a wonderful book and a steaming cup of tea.

I had a wish, to shout at the sky, to cry out my melancholy and unhappiness, and no one thought I was a psychopath.

I have a wish to sleep beautifully in a comfortable place for hundreds of years! Didn't bother until I had enough sleep.

I have a wish, to sit in front of a beautiful writing desk, facing the clear mountains and green waters, to write my life, my story, and write the world.

I have a desire to embark on my journey around the world, to enjoy exotic landscapes, exotic landscapes.

I have a wish that there is no money, prisons, **, violence, ...... in the worldOnly - love!

I have a wish, I leave at the same time as my parents, everything is so peaceful, there is no grief and tears.

I also have one more wish, I come to heaven, in that world full of warmth and harmony, the angels live a carefree life, and I become a happy angel ......

Ah, I don't dare to ask for extravagance, but, think about it - that's enough, it's enough.

Is it his mother marrying you or he marrying you, have you figured it out!

Is his mother a little biased in favor of her own son, you are not afraid that after you marry in the future, his mother will blame you because of fertility problems, why didn't you give birth to a boy or why haven't you yet!

His mother's thinking is a bit traditional, you may not be able to accept it, I understand!

He is really too filial to his mother!

I'm afraid that you will have to suffer in the future!

Think for yourself whether you can be happy or not.

A woman's life can only rely on her husband to give her a happy family, if she can't guarantee this, what's the point?

Are you sure that if you give up everything to go to him, he won't make you regret it? But it's still necessary to respect your elders As long as you don't go too far It can be said that even if you give up everything to find him in the past, he will treat you the same as he is now, as long as you don't regret yourself, you will go over If you feel wronged, find 1 locally! (Be careful of being bullied in the field, and you can only cry by yourself) Are you mentally prepared for the things in parentheses?

You don't need any reason for loving someone either.

If you feel you're right, keep doing it.

If you feel wrong, give up.

But I don't think it's easy to love someone.

Tell him to die, and take his mother, the garbage man, with him when he dies.

Regarding being with the object for ten years, he didn't mention getting married, did he wait slowly or did I take the initiative to mention it? If a person wants to marry you, he must have married you a long time ago, and those excuses that his job is not stable and he has not saved money to buy a house are just deceptions. In this society, you tell me how many people can find the right job direction within a few years after graduation, and they can save money to buy a house on their own?

Of course, there is no shortage of such people, and they are just rare. Most people can't afford to buy a house on their own, and they may say that they will pay off the mortgage by themselves, but the down payment must be made by their parents, isn't it? In fact, you can take the initiative to mention marriage once, see what kind of attitude he has, if he is all kinds of shirks, then don't delay your time on this man, he doesn't want to marry you.

You have been with your partner for ten years, he doesn't mention getting married, and he hasn't bought a house, as long as you understand it's obvious that he doesn't want to get married, but that he doesn't want to marry you at all.

This man doesn't want to marry you but also doesn't break up with you, it's just because he hasn't found a home yet, and he hasn't found someone better and more suitable than you. Men and women fall in love for a certain period of time, both parties generally have a certain understanding, if one party feels that it is not suitable and can not develop in the direction of marriage, then they should break up decisively, do not delay each other, waste time, waste feelings, this is a basic principle of love. Your partner has been with you for ten years and has been working for four or five years, but he doesn't mention getting married or buying a house, so it can be said that such a man has no sense of responsibility.

There is nothing to be responsible for. A woman's youth is short, and you are not too old to get along for ten years, but the object has not given you an explanation for a long time, you can't afford to wait, of course you are panicked. If you wait for the object to take the initiative and |If you mention marriage, it is basically that he will not mention it until you thank the flowers.

I think you can't wait any longer, it's time to reflect on yourself, reflect on this decade-long relationship, it's time to make a break with the object. Since he doesn't take the initiative to mention it, then you take the initiative to mention it to him to show your attitude. You want to get married, and if you want to, let him buy a house and prepare for your marriage.

If he doesn't want to get married and doesn't mention breaking up, but just finds various reasons to shirk it, then you should give up all illusions about him, break up decisively, end this fruitless relationship, and start your life again. When there is no continuation, it will be disturbed. The longer a woman spends time with a man, the less likely she is to get married.

Our feelings should be paid to the right person, not to an unreliable person. May you take the initiative in your own hands in your own hands, make your own decisions as soon as possible, and find your true happiness as soon as possible.

No, you don't. Because if he wanted to get married, he would definitely take the initiative to propose it, and now this only shows that he doesn't really want to get married.

You can ask him first if he can marry you now, if he denies it, it means that he doesn't love you, then you should separate from him as soon as possible, such a man is not worth your time.

You shouldn't continue to wait, because two people have been persevering for ten years, and there is not so much time in life, you should stabilize as soon as possible, so that your parents can rest assured.

<> has a very good relationship with your boyfriend, but he is reluctant to marry you, in fact, there are many reasons for this, before you figure out the truth of the matter, don't do stupid things impulsively, according to my analysis, he is reluctant to marry you mainly for these reasons.

01, it's not time yet

Since you have a very good relationship, and he is not willing to marry you, maybe he may feel that it is not yet time to get married, and he may not have saved enough money to buy your wedding house. In fact, it's not that a man doesn't want to marry you, he just wants to give you the best life, maybe he can't give you enough happiness now, as long as he really loves you.

In fact, sometimes you can ask him indirectly, don't ask directly, if you ask directly, maybe it will be the same as before, you can choose a weekend, you go out to watch a movie, have a meal, and ask him when he is happy.

02, I don't want to marry you

If you have been together for several years and usually have a very good relationship, but as soon as you mention marriage, he will find all kinds of excuses to perfunctory you, then he may not want to marry you at all, and he does not really love you. He just sees you as a playmate when he's bored, and if that's the case, you'd better think about whether your relationship should continue.

In fact, some details of life can be seen whether he really loves you, such as whether he will take the initiative to coax you when you usually quarrel, and whether he will be by your side when you are sad, all of which can be seen how much he loves you.

03, because of family reasons

There is another possibility, he wants to marry you, but he is opposed by his family, so he doesn't dare to tell you, so he can only perfunctory you every time. If this is the case, you can ask to go to his house to see his parents, and if he refuses, it is basically certain that it is the reason at home.

In fact, sometimes there are many reasons why men are reluctant to marry you, we must figure it out first, and then make up our minds, or we may lose a beautiful love.

I think if the other person is not willing to marry you, it shows that he doesn't really love you, so there is no need for you to continue with him, if you continue to live with him, it is a waste of your time.

Don't do it, any relationship that is not premised on marriage is a hooligan. And as you get older, you will realize that what you need most is a home that you can rely on.

I don't think it's okay to continue living with the other person, since the other party is not willing to marry you, it means that the other party doesn't love you, and there is no point in being with such a person.

The man's refusal to get married means that he doesn't want to marry you for the rest of his life. But if he really likes you, he must be eager to marry you and enter the door, because he is worried that you will run away one day, or get along with someone else. As for why he keeps hanging you, there are several reasons:

1. Use it as a spare tire. He has not yet found the person he wants to marry, and he will never propose to break up with you, and certainly will not agree to marry you. But when he meets the person he wants to marry, he will not hesitate to kick you away.

2. Not loving enough. This is the most direct and the most hurtful, maybe you had deep feelings for each other at the beginning, but after getting to know each other deeply, as time goes by, maybe he has less and less feelings for you, after all, the longer you are in love, the greater the test. In love, the boy will become weaker and weaker in this relationship, while the girl will fall deeper and deeper, so many couples end up breaking up because of such changes.

2.Life is too stressful. Marriage means being responsible for his wife and his family, men are all about face, marriage is only once in a lifetime, most men want to marry their beloved woman after the economic foundation is mature, and hold a vigorous wedding for her without considering the material.

No man is willing to marry the woman he loves when he is poor and white, because he can't give her anything, and it is the pressure of life that makes men dare not commit easily.

To sum up, when there is no love, men do not have so many requirements for men and women to get along, and they do not have so much understanding. But marriage is different, because men know that if the problems in love are not solved, it will be more difficult to solve them in marriage, and it will be even more difficult to walk far with baggage. Therefore, here the talented man also advises all girls who are in a hurry to get married, you must first find the reason from yourself, and run it in, so that men can have more confidence to take care of you for a lifetime.

After all, marriage is a major event, and men's prudence is also responsible for each other.

There's no need to continue, it shows that he doesn't love you at all, he just keeps dragging it out. In this case, you can break up with him.

If your boyfriend does have his own difficulties, I think you need to keep waiting, and if you just don't want to marry you, you really don't need to wait.

If we are older and eager to get married, we should seriously talk to our boyfriends about it. If the boyfriend still doesn't want to get married and doesn't want to think about us, we can choose not to wait for the other person and find someone else who suits us.

Then there is no need to wait any longer, because such a man does not want to be responsible for you at all.