Can you accept that someone you love loves you out of compassion for a girl in

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm in a man's shoes, don't mind!

    If it were me, I would be very tired, and the inner chase is not you, but I have to face the pressure you give. Yes, all you give him is pressure!

    Love is easy! I often hear, "I am with her, I feel very happy and relaxed", it can be seen that love should be very comfortable.

    If it is for girls, then you have to think about it, of course you can choose, but you have to think about what kind of price you will pay, happiness and happiness have to pay a price, "there is no free lunch in the world" This is an eternal truth. Can you afford the days ahead? He may replace it with indifference, because he doesn't love you, and his motive is to repay the favor, and when he feels that the favor is almost over, he will leave you.

    Love is mutual, and no one owes anyone?

    good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No, such feelings are unequal, and both you and him will have a very hard time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No, because you were nothing more than a sister to him who needed his comfort.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, such love is meaningless, and there will be contradictions in the future

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    can accept it, but it is always not a taste in my heart, I always feel awkward, and there are always hurdles ......

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, you don't. Loving someone is something that can give everything.

    If he is out of pity and sympathy then me.

    Rather not. It's not that if you love him, you have to get him and have him.

    That's not greatness, it's just a manifestation of love for him, a kind of giving.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Won't accept that I'll let him go.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Even though I'm a boy, I still don't think that kind of sympathetic love can last long!

    Maybe you can get his attention in a short time, but that's not love, it won't end well!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Do you need the sympathy of others?

    If you can accept it, then you can only say that your love is humble

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Sorry, not needed, and not necessary.

    Why do you think you won't find true love yourself?

    Even if you don't fall in love with someone else, you have to marry someone who loves you.

    Even if you don't marry, don't let yourself live so wronged and accept handouts from others.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Look at the problem from different angles, and it is appropriate for each person.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    We have many kinds of emotions in life, some of which are easy to distinguish, but some of which are not, just like love and sympathy.

    Maybe some people don't think so, and will say that love is love, sympathy is sympathy, and it is different. That's right, there are differences between the two, but some are also related, and if you don't get it right, they will get mixed up. If you don't get it right, it will become a tragedy.

    There is a boy and a girl, they love each other very much and are happy together, but the girl is a sad person and is often unhappy. When she was unhappy or unhappy, she would tell the boy, but the boy thought it was to win his sympathy, and the girl left the boy when she found out, and the two never saw each other again. If this story weren't for this, it would have had a sweet ending.,It's a pity...

    Love and sympathy have similarities and differences, and if you can't distinguish them correctly, you will hurt yourself and others. There must be love in sympathy, but it is not necessarily the love of love, there will be caring love, if there is love in sympathy, it is a beautiful story to make it better. But there can be no sympathy in love, if you say that the love that arises in sympathy, then you must first think about whether you can turn sympathy into love and completely put aside sympathy, if you can't be sure, it's best not to have the existence of love, otherwise everyone will be hurt.

    If you add sympathy to love, then the ending will be even worse, love is love without sympathy, don't find out that it is sympathy after love, add love to sympathy, cultivate good but can develop into beautiful love.

    So love cannot have sympathy, but sympathy requires love, and how can there be sympathy without love? Do you not have that kind of love to sympathize with someone? I don't think so.

    Love is an adjunct to sympathy, and having love in sympathy will make this kind of love better, and it is also possible to make this kind of love become love. In the same way, there can be no sympathy for loving someone, love is love, and love has no sympathy to say. If there is compassion in love, it is impurity.

    It will destroy the essence of love and make love deteriorate.

    If the above story could correctly understand the difference between sympathy and love, the ending would not be like this, there is no sympathy in love, and there is no need for sympathy. Isn't it right to tell your loved ones about your troubles and unhappyness, and if you can't even talk to the people you love, who else can you talk to? Women looking for men are originally looking for a support, looking for a harbor; I can have a support when I'm unhappy and when I'm unhappy.

    However, the boy understands it this way, can the girl not be sad? If a man can't give a woman a warm harbor, then what does a woman want a man to do? If a woman doesn't love you, will she confide in you?

    When a woman tells you about her troubles, she is also giving her heart to you, and you push it out, a man should cherish a woman who complains to himself about his troubles, after all, a woman's heart is not easily given to a person.

    Sympathy and love are mutually reinforcing, but love and sympathy are mutually reinforcing.

    There can be love in sympathy, but there can be no sympathy in love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes, what is the value of sympathetic love, her sympathy is charity, it is to degrade your personality, to say that I do not allow your sympathy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Neither is it! It's also a bit of a borrowed value!!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Love is a gratuitous giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since you choose love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, when he (she) is happy with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad to him (her) comfort. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm. Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a token that does not fade....All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

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  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Love is a feeling, not a sudden pity. Sympathy cannot exist on the premise of love. If you are together because of sympathy, neither of you will be happy, and someone will eventually be hurt. Because you don't love her.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you love someone, the word used should be distressed, and the pitiful word means that you are in love for a long time but not love, it is you who have love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No, there is a kind of love that is pity. But that's not pity, it's distress, it's love. Remember to adopt it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It is fraternity, compassion and compassion; If you keep in touch with him, and care for and help him, he will slowly transform into "love".

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Pity is not love, and moving is not love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    My man used to say that he was pitiful when he saw me

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There is no way ?This is a sign of irresponsibility. Sympathize?

    There are many people in China who need sympathy, and this is called abusive affection. I am not outraged by this man's behavior. Marriage is the process of slowly transforming love into affection.

    How far can compassion go? Men should understand that what a woman needs is a home, a warm family. Since there is no way, we should find a way to deal with the problem.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If he can accept your love or your kindness to him, you can certainly confess to him, and sympathy can also be transformed into love. Sympathy for you and pity for you shows that he does not reject you, and this feeling can develop into love. If he already has a girlfriend or wife, please leave him, otherwise you will be very miserable.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Give up decisively.

    He doesn't love you, and without love, he won't be happy.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You can boldly confess to her, sympathy is not the same as care, I hope it depends on yourself!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Song Title: The Girl Next Door.

    Part of the lyrics: In Next Door to Me.

    There lived a beautiful girl.

    She opened the window.

    Always wanted me to come to her house.

    I rejoiced in my heart.

    But she was always afraid that her parents were there.

    I want to go, but I don't dare to go.

    The girl said I was a weird person.

    The girl from the house next door.

    Always wander with me under the moon.

    I don't know what she can't think of.

    But she would not say it.

    Her face was not very pleasant.

    Two lines of tears hung out the window.

    Why is the girl so sad?

    Speak your mind.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The beautiful girl of the house next door to Minamizuru.。。

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Song: How can you hurt me ruthlessly.

    Singer: Zheng Yuan **: Source. Love song.

    Every lonely night.

    It's like the end of a movie.

    The people around me are leaving.

    I don't know when there will be tears.

    Every place to fall in love.

    It's like a web of memories.

    How much pain is locked in the chest.

    Who can see my injuries.

    When I let go of your hand.

    After the tears leave the eye sockets.

    Drink indulgent liquor.

    Wake up and finally accept.

    When love is scattered.

    What is the longevity of heaven and the eternity?

    Suffered for a lifetime of time.

    Whether it is enough to understand whether it is enough.

    How could you be so cruel to leave me.

    What the hell is all this.

    Can't tell whose fault it is.

    Pay in exchange for this result.

    How could you hurt me ruthlessly.

    Pity me for loving you so much.

    Lost joy disillusioned with commitment.

    Hold on to the days of two people and live alone.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Hello, this is a very normal thing, even if your kitten or puppy dies, you will be sad and sad, and you will definitely be a little sad when you hear other strangers say about the death, but after a while, you will be sad and sad for too long.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I'm only sorry for one person who can accept it, and I'm sorry for the others.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    No, because that kind of woman really understands love, she won't look for the next one unless she has a brain disease.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Are you a man, this thing must be acceptable.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    As long as you love her, it's acceptable.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If it's a gentleman! You shouldn't ask that!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If you're a pure gentleman, that's acceptable.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Did you give it to her for the first time?

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