What should I do if I am insulted all the time? What to do if someone insults?

Be confident, go your own way, and do your own thing well is the most important thing. How to gain self-confidence, this, you can only rely on yourself, others can give you encouragement, but the real help can only be yourself, for example, you want to have a strong arm, even if you give you all the wealth of the world, you can't buy it, and you don't have to spend a penny, you can do dozens of push-ups every day. The principle is the same, if you don't have courage and no self-confidence, you have to use your courage and self-confidence often, for example, when several people are together, you can boldly express your views, don't be afraid of others saying that what you say is not good, people should care about these, you are you, be brave to be true to yourself, brave to make your voice.

In fact, what hinders you from achieving happiness and freedom is not others but yourself, your own heart, and it is the weakness of your heart that cannot surpass yourself, but only by overcoming yourself can you achieve happiness and freedom, you can achieve success in your career, and you can get a happy life. Freedom is the fruit of bravery, use your courage, use your faith, expel the inferiority complex that binds you in your heart, and happiness and success will belong to you! （867429016qq)

Try to say what you want to say, no matter whether it is good or bad, as long as you want to say it, there are always good and bad people, and not everyone will criticize you when you say the first sentence. Are you afraid that you can't talk about people? That's because if you don't say it, everything has to be practiced, you can't talk if you don't talk all day long, you can't talk about it, there is a way to learn to quarrel with others, don't quarrel with people you know, quarrel with people you don't know, such as those who sell vegetables, come on!

You are afraid because you don't know the truth, and when you do, you will find that not everyone treats you that way.

As you said, there is a shadow in the heart! You care too much about what other people think, and what you call what others think is actually what you think? People don't care too much about you at all!

So you don't have to think about what other people think of you all the time, don't look at your things in the second person or the third person, just be self-centered. No one else knows what you're thinking.

Alas, if you do it better, no one will bully you, and the reason why someone bullies you is that you are too much of a fool.

It's not a good thing for people to be too honest, and sometimes you have to use your fists to solve problems.

If it doesn't work, just start fighting.

Just take the first step.

I have a colleague who is like that.

Find someone to talk to, find Xiao I, and say what you want to say.

Go your own way and let others say go.

Generally, there will be three situations, the first situation is purely in the mind, when others scold you, at the very beginning, you have not reacted, of course, you also show a certain amount of anger, and powerless counterattack, at that time, did not give others a strong counterattack, just after the fact continued to insult each other in the heart, even for several days did not forget, in the heart of the scolding of him is not happy, although it will slowly pass, but this matter will also leave a certain shadow in the heart.

The second situation is a powerful counterattack, others scold you a sentence, you scold others twice, just like that, without letting the other party take advantage of the slightest advantage, in fact, completely crush the other party, quarrel with the other party, no matter what the language, pay back to the other party, which will make you very excited, even in the next few days did not completely forget.

There is also a situation that ignores it, no matter what others say, the response on this side is to ignore the other party, and there are no ups and downs in their hearts, because they don't care about this matter at all, so what we are talking about today is the third situation, not responding to the other party's insults.

This kind of response is to overcome yourself, in life, although this sentence is somewhat absolute, because no one will not care about this matter, after all, people have feelings, if you really don't care about this matter, then you will become a saint, no one will become a saint, so we can only keep moving forward in this process.

In some things, ignore the other party, this matter is not to make you a coward, nor to let you have the upper hand, but to let you overcome yourself, because when you have a conflict with others, you will inevitably get angry, and the consequences after being angry are only borne by yourself, this is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others, why do you do this? So don't respond to other people's insults.

It's not that you're weak, it's about letting yourself get some advantage and not letting yourself get angry, this is defeating yourself, and on the other hand, you're defeating the other party, why do you say that you don't respond to the other party but you win the other party? Because if you ignore the other party, it is the best response to him, then only the other party will be there to be angry, one person is angry, and it is he who suffers. Ignore him, and he will feel very bored himself, directing and acting like a clown.

Of course, there is also a situation where other people's insults may be pointing out your shortcomings, if you think about it from this perspective, do you find your own shortcomings from other people's mouths? So the attitude towards things determines your lifestyle, and not responding to the other person's insults at certain times is actually to make yourself better, and sometimes being silent is not weakness, but a smart way of life.

According to the provisions of the Public Security Administration Punishment Law, if being publicly insulted by others does not constitute a crime, it is a violation of the Public Security Administration Punishment Law, and the victim may report to the police to handle it. Legal basis: Article 42 of the "Public Security Administration Punishment Law" provides that anyone who commits any of the following acts is to be detained for up to 5 days or fined up to 500 RMB; where the circumstances are more serious, they are to be detained for between 5 and 10 days, and may be concurrently fined up to 500 RMB