How do boys become mature?

1. Pay attention to promises: Mature men will never go back on their word, he attaches great importance to each of his promises, and carefully considers whether his words can really be fulfilled before making a wish. Every word he says makes you feel reassured and trusted.

The man who runs the train with his mouth, fires empty cannons indiscriminately, and can't take action for a long time, has nothing to do with maturity. 2. Don't talk exaggerated: A mature man never talks casually, he will grasp the appropriate silence, and speak clearly but not shouting.

Just drink a little wine and tell a little story about your own little experience all over the table, and half a room can hear it without a loudspeaker, this kind of man, at most, will make the audience laugh, and no one will put your various so-called "road of struggle" in their hearts. 3. Knowledgeable and subtle and introverted: they read, accept new things and new information, and constantly enrich their connotation.

But they are unassuming, their talents are only shown when necessary, and they are never deliberately showy in order to satisfy their vanity. They are like mellow wine, the more you taste it, the more you taste it. Fourth, broad-mindedness:

Mature men don't care, they don't covet small gains, they don't care about small losses, and they don't chatter about this and that. Their vision is never stumped by trivial matters, and they are often the "angels who turn back first" when it comes to small quarrels in the family. 5. Don't be self-centered

Mature men respect themselves and know how to respect others. They are good at empathy, will consider problems from the standpoint of others, do not force others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others. All men who are "how I am", the typical little emperor's temper, have not grown up yet.

6. Have the courage to admit mistakes: mature men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions, and are good at good advice. They have the courage to bear the consequences of their own inappropriate decisions, and never make excuses to prevaricate.

Seventh, the will is firm: mature men have the psychological quality of not messing up, once they determine their own goal, they will work towards it, encounter setbacks, they analyze the reasons, learn lessons, and correct the direction in time, but never give up easily. They will be tired, but after resting, they will set out with confidence.

8. Clean and tidy: Mature men respect their appearance. They have a hairstyle that suits them best, a clean chin without stubble, a face that is not greasy, and no long nails.

The clothes don't have to be brand-name, but they are neat and generous, and they won't be crumpled like a courier. They will never wear black leather shoes and white socks and wear suits to travel. 9. Respect the old and love the young:

Mature men are caring, socially responsible, and have the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. He will give up his seat to the elderly and pregnant women, donate money and materials to the affected areas, help out-of-school children, and donate blood ...... voluntarilyThey don't necessarily do all of these things, but they don't do nothing. 10. Have hobbies:

They are not robots who only know how to work, they know how to use their hobbies to regulate their tense nerves, and they can work and relax at the same time, which makes them interesting. No wonder women say: Men with hobbies are not easy to become bad.

The manifestation of youth is that you feel mature, that you have grown up, that you are right, that you can find a plausible explanation even if you are wrong; Even if he is wrong, he will not really admit his mistake It is not strange to think that I am young and wrong The manifestation of youth is that he always thinks that he is strong, he is not afraid of anything, he doesn't care about anything, in fact, on the contrary, the more he says that he is strong, the more fragile his heart is, even if he can endure it once or twice, this is just a preparation for your next time, your self-belief that being strong has brought you a lot of challenges, don't wait until the day that cannot be saved to wake up.

Men's maturity is not something that can be solved by clothing, men need to be honed, they need to think deeply, do what they think they should do, don't do what they shouldn't, and when they think deeply, they look like a mature and stable person.

The more you experience, the faster you mature; Many people only mature after experiencing life and death.

The more you experience, the faster you mature.