Remember your ideal life? How far are you from it?

I still remember my ideal life. I used to be full of expectations for my ideal life, but now that I am married and have children, I realize that my ideal life is far away from me, and I need to continue to work hard to shorten the distance from my ideal life.

When I was in school, I looked forward to my future life, hoping to have a high-income job, a romantic and beautiful relationship, and hoping that the person I married would be considerate and warm, and have a happy home.

Whenever there are holidays, you can travel with your lover, and you can usually do what you want to do, without depression or constraints. Maybe this kind of life is what I want, the ideal life in my heart.

Now, however, my life is far from it. After graduating, through my own continuous efforts, I found a relatively stable job, although there are holidays, but the salary is very meager, barely enough to live on my own, and it is too far from the salary I expected.

Later, I fell in love, my boyfriend was not rich and handsome, but he was kind of attentive to me, we were very happy together, and the relationship was good. In this way, he also became my marriage partner, and after getting married, he faced too many tedious things in life. Sometimes I really want to give up, but deep down I am always so soft that I can't make a decision.

After having children, life was not what I expected, and I gave up my job to take care of my children at home. In this way, I lived a life that I didn't even want to live myself. There are no holidays, there is no romance in life, and there is not even a chance to go out.

This kind of life makes me feel very depressed, and deep down I reject this kind of life. Gradually, the relationship with my husband was not as good as when we were in love, and we slowly ignored each other.

Because of this, I will occasionally take the opportunity to talk to my husband, who is also a person who can understand me. He understood the pain in my heart and hoped that through his own efforts, I could be happy.

Whenever there is a holiday, they will prepare gifts for me and bring me some surprises. He would also take me out on a trip during the holidays, and slowly, I also found joy in life, and I felt that life was not as bad as I imagined, although it was close to a part of your ideal life, but it was still far away.

As for my current life, I still need to work hard to achieve my dream life. Real life is cruel, but I will face it bravely. I believe that through hard work, we will get closer and closer to the ideal life.

Never forget, a thousand differences.

It is often said that the ideal and the reality are separated by a river, there is no bridge between them, and they can only reach the other side through hard work, some people drown halfway, some people succeed in reaching the other side, and I, like most people, was frightened back by the turbulent river before I tried hard. Sometimes when I stretch my arms and press my legs, I feel tired and return to the same place, and I am still 108,000 miles away from my ideals.

In fact, it is still very vague to think about what the ideal life looks like, there is no career that I particularly want to do, there are no hobbies that I particularly like, and many of them are miscellaneous hobbies. I like to read, and I want to have a moment of peace after work every day, so I can wander in the sea of books. I like it, I don't want to know the rhythm, I just want to be able to hear what beauty is, hear other people's lives in the song, and miss my own life.

Have a peaceful job, don't ask for nobility, just peace, and live with the people you like. Succeed in learning and satisfy your own achievements in your major.

The ideal is not ambitious, but it is close to the end of the world. I want to read, but I always can't calm down to read, and every day when I get home, I open my mobile phone to read some fragmented Weibo jokes, and I seem to know everything but find that there is nothing nutritious. **It has become more and more a tool to remember the first love, always searching for the comments of others in the NetEase cloud, and seeing that there are so many destined people in the original world, I will continue to be immersed in the lost feelings with peace of mind.

Learning has not been achieved, learning is only for the pursuit of those scores, memorizing some key points of the exam but not really understanding the meaning, and the knowledge that I have seen and forgotten is enough for me to apply.

Ideals and reality will never get closer when I can't get rid of my laziness, but will only pull each other and torture myself.

Everyone has imagined our ideal life in the future, and we also discussed with our companions when we were children, and what we want to do in the future is our common sentence, so now many years have passed, and we have come to that future, but we found that we were too naïve at that time, and our ideal, he was just an ideal.

In fact, I said to myself in my heart when I was a child, no matter what I am like when I grow up, when others ask me about my previous ideals, I must tell him that my former ideal was to have a comfortable life, I didn't say anything about how much money I had, or what kind of hero I wanted to do, because I still didn't have any ideas about these, I think it's nothing to have money, you just have money, you still have to buy what you want, what do you still have to do, I think it's too troublesome, I also don't think it's like it's okay to be rich, money seems to trap me even more, what kind of hero do I want to be, I don't have any desire, why should I be a hero? I don't think there's anything good about being a hero.

I feel that the essence of everything is my life, I just want a life that I feel happy and happy, I think it is good to play happily every day, if there is such a life, I am willing to be in it for the rest of my life. But in fact, this wish is simple but difficult to achieve, we are all busy, for a better life, but no one said that my life is better, and we are busier, our life is less. I feel that this kind of life is very far away, it seems to be close at hand, but it is actually far away.

In fact, we are all like this, our previous beautiful and innocent wishes, our ideal life, are getting farther and farther away from us, gradually, they are really just a good wish of ours, our ideals, but I hope that all of us can not forget our original intentions and go further.

Is the life you want today? Are you living the way you want to be? The answer is obviously, no! So, how far are you from your ideal self?

In fact, it may not be that far, but it seems that the courage and enthusiasm to move forward have been lost. The years are like flying knives, knives urge people to get old, people are not old, but their hearts are getting older and older. and its innocence and extreme oldness.

Maybe it's not the heart that is old, but the driving force to move forward. Those passionate moods and steaming courage have been evaporated by time and destroyed by failure.

Is the road to the left or right? Is it about to be thirty, or can you just say thirty in a chic way? Confusion and anxiety fill the whole heart, occasionally want to open, occasionally be persuaded by yourself, and then start a new round of depression and inner struggle.

After all, it is a life of entanglement, maybe entanglement is the norm, who hasn't experienced a mourning time in their life? Life is always high and low, no one can always stand at the top, I believe that no one will always stay at the trough, accept frustration, and wait for the renewed hope!