What should friendship look like between people of the opposite sex?

The friendship between the opposite sex must be kept within a boundary, not half a step beyond the thunder pool, do not have illusions about friends of the opposite sex, do not rely on him beyond the boundaries of friends, if you already have a boyfriend or girlfriend, you don't have to hide the fact that you have friends of the opposite sex, but generously let them know each other.

Everyone will have a few friends of the opposite sex, I think this is a very normal interpersonal communication, all you need is to remember your position and not be offside. You are just friends, not relatives, not lovers, and don't say or do some too intimate words, some too intimate actions, and some too intimate things.

I have several friends of the opposite sex, but I can pat my chest and say they're really just friends. When I need help on weekdays, they will take the initiative to help me deal with it; When I encounter happy events, they will send blessings in time; When they need my help, I will not hesitate to stretch out my hands to help me as much as I can.

I'm directly with them, a little closer than a general friend, and a little more distant than a confidant. But you must not think about married friends of the opposite sex, this is not only a slander of your friendship, but also a threat to your friend's family happiness, and it will also make you yourself likely to lose this friend.

Finally, friends of the opposite sex must not hide anything from your lover, otherwise it will cause some unnecessary misunderstandings. Pure friends will not be jealous of each other, but if you hide and conceal it, it may make the other party even more cranky and cause those unwarranted misunderstandings!

I think friendship is very important to me, and our friendship is divided into same-sex friendship and opposite-sex friendship. I also have good friends of the opposite sex. I feel very comfortable with them every time I spend time with them, which may be different from same-sex friendships, but they are also friendships that I cherish very much.

I think friendship between people of the opposite sex is very pure because we can talk to our friends of the opposite sex, play games, or say something about being careful. Maybe if you like a guy and you talk to your friend of the opposite sex, he may know better, because after all, boys also understand boys' hearts very well.

I'm a girl who likes to play games, so I also like to play games with my friends of the opposite sex, and this feeling of playing black with my friends is very good. Because there may be fewer girls in my class who play online games, I also made a lot of friends of the opposite sex because of the game. They can also teach me some skills in playing games, which is also very helpful for my gaming aspects.

And friends of the opposite sex do not necessarily necessarily become lovers, because we like to play together or cherish this friend, but we may not be the ideal type of each other, and we don't have to worry about being troubled by emotional problems. Because we can also eat, chat, and play together like our friends of the same sex. No worries at all.

And my friends of the opposite sex can also help me when I need help, because there are some things that my friends of the same sex may not think of, so I think the friendship between people of the opposite sex should be very pure.

It should be simple and pure. Some people say they don't believe that there is no simple friendship between the opposite sex, but I believe that there is a simple friendship between the opposite sex. Friendship between people of the opposite sex is like a brotherly and sister-like relationship.

Because I have such a group of friendships of the opposite sex. We grew up in one place. We have the same surname and speak the same dialect.

We have been together for seven years in the same elementary school, and the boys and girls in our class have always treated each other like brothers and sisters. You say we are related by blood, and indeed, we were one family hundreds of years ago. Why aren't many other students like us?

Many people envy us for having a good relationship this year, and the class is like a childhood sweetheart.

It's all a group of people from Bensan, and every time I put a group photo of the reunion on the circle of friends, someone always comments that we look like the post-90s who just graduated. Yes, we are all a group of people who are like little children, and we are all a group of people who are simple-minded and live happily. Although the boys smoke and drink, they have a gentle temper and do not look down on girls, and they all respect us girls.

In this class, we all treat everyone equally. Whoever is sick and hospitalized, we will make an appointment with a classmate who is available to visit that person together, and basically everyone is happy to attend if they get married. When a classmate got married, we also planned a campus wedding for her.

Everyone is full of love for this class, full of love for each other, and ** there is also the difference between the opposite sex. The friendship between the opposite sex, when interacting, is neither humble nor arrogant, and is full of friendship and love for each other. They will take the initiative to care for you, take the initiative to think about you, and each other will treat each other as a treasure in their hearts, cherish each other, and love each other.

Another important point is tacit understanding. It is rare to have a tacit understanding of the opposite sex. You are good to each other, and you are generous to each other, which is a tacit understanding that is more precious than gold.

A bright and upright friendship with the opposite sex, not afraid of rumors, and a way is not afraid of shadows. If it is not a pure friendship, there will always be one person who will feel the pain, and the other person who is not happy will want to stay away.

And pure opposite-sex friendship will not give people pain, but only bring warmth and love. Pure opposite-sex friendship is desireless. They are more like little partners who make progress together.

Neither side will ask for anything from the other excessively. Pure heterosexual friendship, when together, will be very relaxed, very comfortable, just like in front of the family, speak freely. But pure heterosexual friendship is also limited to being friends, and will never cross the line to interfere with each other's families.

It should be pure, if both parties are single, you can talk about everything, talk all the time, once one party is in love, the other party should also grasp the degree, don't let others misunderstand, especially don't let the object of friends of the opposite sex misunderstand.

Friendship between people of the opposite sex is difficult to explain, and sometimes one party endures to suppress the dress code to be a friend, because the other party does not love him or her, so he has to pretend to be just a friend of him. It's hard to say that I don't have an idea in my heart, and I don't have an opportunity to do a substitute one day. Such a confidant or a good friend of the opposite sex, even if he likes the other party, he will not say it, what he is afraid of is that if he says it, the friend will have nothing to do, and he is afraid that the other party will no longer pay attention to himself, so he pretends to be a good friend anytime and anywhere, and once he has the opportunity, he will push the boat down the river and turn positive.

There is also a situation where there are confidants and good friends of the opposite sex, that is, lovers are not very satisfied with each other, so they will look for or meet blue faces outside to make up for the lack of spiritual communication or care in life. If the quarrel with the person at home is unpleasant, the role of this good friend of the opposite sex outside may be to call out the person who has a drink and chats with him. or transport.

Even if one party doesn't have an idea in his heart, the other party may have an idea quietly, and it's easy for things to go wrong at such a time. Because one party has been waiting for the opportunity, and the other party is in a troubled or vulnerable time, when he is dissatisfied with the one at home, so he chats with his confidant to the emotional place, and feels that this person is better and more sensible, it is inevitable that he will be really moved.

Therefore, in the quarrels of many lovers, there is this one:You drink tea, eat, chat and play with the opposite sex outside, although you don't actually cross the line, but it seems to be better than us together, so what am I? You say you're just good friends, but why am I still so uncomfortable?

Well, if you can't understand this kind of discomfort, then from another perspective, I also have a lot of good friends of the opposite sex outside, and I am also happy to meet with them for a long time, eat and drink tea and play together, will you feel uncomfortable? Will you accept it?

If we don't care, if we give each other so much space, will we let those who pretend to be our good friends but actually like to have a crush on us wait for an opportunity to invade?

So even if you don't have an idea yourself, do you know what the other person thinks? Those friends of the opposite sex who are in contact with each other at any time and get along well at any time under the banner of friendship are often a crisis in each other's feelings. Because of their existence, when we quarrel and gamble, when we are weak and tired, they will come out to accompany us, and we who are fragile at that time can withstand their hints and warmth?

Does it stand up to the comparison?

So, when I find out that you have a lot of good friends and confidants of the opposite sex, I will be uneasy, and I will be afraid that when I have a conflict with you, those guys who like you but pretend to be your friends and confidants take advantage of the situation. Therefore, if you have to find a confidant, please don't choose the opposite sex, and please make sure that the other party is quietly liking you. Otherwise, my trust will be discounted and I will become weak.