How to treat them scolding us behind our backs 20

As the saying goes: bad words spread thousands of miles! It's a way to behave in the world! A performance of their own quality!

If it's a good word, it can spread thousands of miles!

If it's a bad thing, it's better not to say that she's not behind someone's back! Reason: First, she will be very angry when she hears it, and her impression of you will be greatly reduced!

It's hard to change your friendship or peace of mind! Second, there is no impermeable wall in the world, and over time, it will inevitably reach people's ears! The consequences were the same!

Besides, if she has a strong sense of revenge, she will do this to you like this! If you want others to respect you, then the first thing we should learn is how to respect others first! This society, in general, is fair!

Do unto her as you would have done unto her! Sometimes, as men, we shouldn't be careful! Learn and know how to tolerate and forgive!

In this way, you will achieve twice the result with half the effort! Friends, forget all about yourself! From now on, step by step, slowly do the most important thing in your life--- learn to behave in the world, and improve your own quality!

Don't worry, leave her alone1

Girls are often like that, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, scolding you is also normal, "it's not strange, it's self-defeating", good luck to you, my dear friends, Amen.

Look at their attitude of scolding, whether they are scolding with a smile or scolding with great anger.

Laughing and scolding proves that you want to be with you, and angry scolding proves that you shouldn't let the topic of discussion be heard by them.

Women are like this, small belly chicken intestines.

But what are you talking about? If it's not appropriate for the girls to hear it, people can't help it if they scold you.

I'm a girl

If you are discussing a topic that is not suitable for girls to listen to, be careful in the future and don't let people hear it It's me, and I'll scold you too If it's just a normal topic and you're scolded by them, go to the opposite side and kick them in the door and teach them a lesson

As a boy, you're worried about this! I was really surprised!!

Isn't there a saying: "Good men don't fight women"?

In the face of slander, we should first be calm and composed.

1. Don't rush to justify.

If you are attacked and others say something bad, don't explain it urgently, let time prove everything.

2. Don't slump.

It is also a basic workplace skill to have a certain tolerance for some slander from others, because sometimes it is difficult for everyone to live in harmony with each other for their own interests.

3. Don't torture yourself.

Some people always like to punish themselves for the faults of others, and it is very undesirable to do so. We don't need to pay for the malice of others, so don't be unhappy, let alone torture yourself.

4. Don't be submissive.

If the other party is bullying and does not have the courage to attack maliciously, you must recognize the situation, don't let the other party bully, let alone make promises, only appropriate resistance can make the other party rein.

I turn a blind eye to such people, and even thinking about it makes me feel like a waste of my energy.

People are social creatures, no one likes to be lonely, and in the group we live in, you will have some close friends, and there will be some people who look down on you. These are all situations that are easy to encounter in life, and there is no need to waste too much energy to dwell on this issue.

If you are not envied, you are a mediocre talent, and if someone slanders you, you can have a greater presence in this group. I've always been the most optimistic about it, if you're not that good in a group, then you don't have any sense of existence at all, no one wants to slander you, and no one wants to waste energy on you.

When someone starts to slander you, when someone thinks that what you are doing is wrong, it means that at least you have managed to attract the attention of others in some way. If you have other people's opinions, you can change them, and if you don't, you will encourage them. But for the person who gave the opinion, it is better not to be needle-to-needle with others.

I'm not RMB, and it can't be that everyone likes me. I have long had this understanding, when I meet people who slander me behind my back in my life, I use facts to prove that I am the best slap in the face, and the-for-tat in language is meaningless, it will only make me sulk. And this kind of dispute is often meaningless, many things are said to be justified, and the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable.

If you only work hard to do your best, do everything you should do perfectly, and make people unable to find fault and complain, then your life will progress faster. When you reach a certain height, is there any point in others slandering something behind your back?

Of course, I have never been willing to share the moral high ground with their evaluations and denigrations. But if someone kicks their nose and cheek and touches my bottom line, I don't mind tearing them up.

Learn to protect yourself and work hard to improve yourself, so that life can be less aggrieved and life can be enjoyable.

What if someone is always slandering you behind your back?

When others slander him, the most important thing for him is not to be affected by this, how many people can he socialize with? It is impossible to slander you all the time, what you have to do is to prove yourself through your own strength, and this is not to show others, but to show yourself.

As for explaining something, it will only be more and more troublesome to explain, and there is a tooth for a tooth, which will only waste your time, and it is a loss to waste your own time for this kind of person.

Say to him: Nothing to be courteous, either a traitor or a thief; Nothing to make a fuss, either to go crazy or to go crazy.

Saying bad things about you behind your back just doesn't want you to know that he is talking about you, since people don't want you to know, you should treat it as if you don't know. Live so clearly that why bother, if you are tired, others will be tired.

Your kindness will make those who have a heart know and restrict, and those who don't have a heart will bring about their own destruction. Other people's business has nothing to do with us, but our attitude determines our mood. Maintaining a good mood helps to purify the interpersonal environment (this is a long process, and you can expect immediate results).

In fact, the most important thing to do is to reflect on what your words and deeds cause others to say bad things about you. Dispelling misunderstandings is a lifelong undertaking that we live in in human society. Diligent people will change their ways, lazy people can only cultivate a strong little heart that is not afraid of people's words, after all, people who are interested in other people's lives always exist objectively.

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You can treat others the way they do.

Summary. Hello dear, when others denigrate you behind your back, here are a few ways to fight back:1

Put something to the side. This method does not directly fight back at the other party, but selectively ignores it. This shows that you are not affected by boring words and have enough inner peace.

2.Explicit threats. For example, "If you talk about me behind your back, don't blame me for being rude."

This way directly shows that you know what the other person is saying and gives a warning. But you need to be careful and don't really make drastic moves. 3.

Ignore and stay away. Cut off contact with this person and ignore his remarks. This is not a direct response, but it shows your disdain for such meaningless remarks through action.

It's a low-key way to avoid it.

Hello dear, when others denigrate you behind your back, here are a few ways to fight back:1Put something to the side.

This method does not directly attack the other party, but Fu Xiangwei selectively ignores it. This shows that you are not affected by boring words and have enough inner peace. 2.

Explicit threats. For example, "If you talk about me behind your back, don't blame me for being rude." This way directly shows that you know what the other person is saying and gives a warning.

But you need to be careful and don't really make drastic moves. 3.Ignore and stay away.

Cut off contact with this person and ignore his remarks. Although this method does not directly fight back, it shows your disdain for such meaningless remarks through actions. It's a low-key way to avoid it.

Dear, if you want to reply in language you can say: 1It's really an idle egg, what nonsense.

This direct response expresses your disdain for his remarks, whether it is good or not. 2.If you talk nonsense about me again, I'll go over and smoke you, believe it or not?

Such threatening responses, while aggressive, are sometimes a way to express dissatisfaction and warn. Of course, in practice, it is generally not really hands-on, mainly verbal deterrence.

Dear, in the face of other people's idle remarks, what we need to do is to keep a clear and cool head. You don't have to be angered or influenced by the other party's words, learn to take the initiative and fight back or ignore it in different ways. However, in any way, you need to pay attention to proportion, and do not operate the mask too much or too aggressively, and eventually let yourself fall into passivity.

Others are slandering my name behind my back.

Dear, it's best to find each other directly for a banquet to clarify. This is the most direct way to find the other party in person to clarify Lishu's remarks and raise objections. This can directly solve the problem and take it, but you need to pay attention to the appropriate tone and not overdo it.

If the other party's remarks constitute substantial damage to reputation, then legal means can be taken to resolve the matter, such as issuing a lawyer's letter to warn them, or directly filing a reputation case for prosecution. It's a tougher way.

We have to know that the people who slander you are those who don't like you, don't want you to live well, and don't have a real relationship with you. The people who will slander you are usually your colleagues, your relatives and friends, and some people who don't know you well but know you.

Recently, I found that I didn't offend some people, and I didn't intersect with them very much. But I know from other people that they are speaking ill of me, or they are suddenly not rude as if they were contacting me.

I reflected and reflected on my own behavior and felt that I had not done anything to be sorry for them. Now I understand that everyone's position is different, it's not that you do anything wrong, but that they can't get used to you, or if two people really have different positions, they will slander you in various ways and endlessly say bad things about you behind your back.

I think the best way to deal with those who slander us behind our backs is not to listen, not to step on, and not to fight. Since we like to slander our people, we don't need to pay attention to them, you talk about yours, we don't care anyway.

The wisest way is to deal with it in silence, whether you do well or not, will be said by others, it is not our fault in the first place, the mouth is on other people's faces, we have no way to stop others, but we can regulate our mood.

I like the way you can't get used to me, and you can't beat me, your slander will only make you bothered more, it won't affect me anyway, all I have to do is make my life better and better.

To deal with this kind of villain is to stay away, to have less contact with these people, not to talk too much to these people, and not to talk if it is not necessary. I run in your minds, but you roll in my world.

This is the parithing of offending a gentleman rather than a villain. Dude, this kind of person still stays away, unless you have that strength, such as a slap in the face and tell him to shut up.

The incident itself is that the boy did something wrong, you find out that he cheated and said that you are not wrong, you should tell the teacher or your parents, to deal with this matter, justice is never wrong, this kind of person should say it out loud, tell everyone, what he did, you should not be bullied by the villain, you are right, never bow to the wrong party.

See what you mean by that, do you regret it? Did you do what you thought was right, but you felt wrong because someone else said it? Whistleblowers are hateful, but repeated times are even more annoying.

How? If you think you're wrong, you put down your posture and apologize, and if you think you're right, you look at him.

It's in the past.

Besides, you made mistakes first.

It is also reasonable to be scolded.

He continues to scold you and fight him, and the reason for the fight is because he is too ink.

You should refute him, you can't let him think that you are a bully, if this boy tells you this, then he is not a gentleman at all, how can a gentleman be like this??? I didn't know the reason for finding myself when I did something wrong, and the whole class didn't care about you, who did he think he was?Could it be that he can cover the sky with one hand in your class??

Besides, you have to believe that you are right, you did the right thing at the time, so you don't have to blame yourself for this, you have to believe that you are doing the right thing, if he is still like this, then you can completely refute him, and don't let him think that you are a good bully.

It's just a little girl, don't mind, this is just jealous of you.