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I also had a similar experience, I didn't know who said what in front of the leader, and the leader suddenly talked to everyone in the whole working group except me, and the content was directed at me, and I also experienced anger, pain, and hesitation, and chose to remain silent. I don't think so, because I didn't whisper to the leader or try to curry favor with her, and although her deliberate alienation and suspicion were obvious, I preferred to pretend that I didn't know what to do.
And I think the most important thing about this is that you don't have any slack or problems in your work, and don't try to use you"Capabilities"Or "resources" to blackmail leaders.
After so much time (from the beginning of the year to the present), this matter has slowly faded The leader expressed great affirmation and praise for my work and achievements during the meeting a few days ago, and his attitude was even much softer than before this incident I think that any normal leader still has the most basic judgment ability The so-called long-term people's hearts Your character is seen by everyone, and it is not something that can be affected by a few words that catch the wind and shadows, and there is also the work and business things, even if everyone is slack, they are okay And you have to give it your all, because that's going to be the most important factor in determining where you belong, no matter what time it is.
It's not good advice, it's just a little bit of personal experience that I hope will help you, my dear friend.
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He who is right and wrong must be right and wrong.
Method 1: Let her wind and rain blow, I will not move like a mountain. Pretend not to hear, and you'll be busy when she talks about you.
Then he said helplessly, "What do you say?" Over time, she will naturally stop talking to you.
Because no one likes to be dumb. But your confused, stupid comments will follow for a long time.
Method 2: Justice is at ease in people's hearts. Let time tell. Respond to change with the same.
Method 3: Resign and leave. But this little thing is not fair, and you will have to mix it up in the future workplace.
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It's nothing, it's very simple to have a good relationship with her, usually buy her a drink once in a while and invite her to dinner (don't be too expensive, otherwise you'll think you're interested in her .......)And when she suspects that you say that she is not, you jokingly say, I don't have this hobby, I am a Siwen person, I swear to the lamp, she will not do anything to you, just go to work with peace of mind, no pressure, don't care about the imperfect system, just take care of the things within your own work.
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Hello. Personally, I think when she doesn't talk nonsense, you ask him some other questions at work. Anyway, you're going to get her off the hook.
You say she's a person. Like to say. I think no matter what you say, he'll be able to do it.
If it's okay, you can buy it, buy it, and put it there to eat.
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When she speaks ill of others.
Learn to change the subject.
When she whines, talk to her.
Expressing understanding of her feelings.
Look at her from a different perspective.
Maybe she'll get along well with you.
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Basic Principles of Being:
Rule 32: When someone says bad things about someone in front of you, don't talk and keep smiling.
Article 33: Do not speak ill of another person in front of others.
Do it, basically, and you're good to go.
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Today's society is very complicated, it is better to be true to yourself, as long as you are not weak-minded, it is not a big deal, such people will have their own end sooner or later.
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Do your job well and maintain a good working relationship, I believe that leaders are not fools, and they will not just be hearsay
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Is it? You're sure you're not right and wrong. As the saying goes, those who are right and wrong must be right and wrong, and when wood becomes the handle of an axe, they will cut down its kind.
Now I hear you say how hateful people are, isn't this called right and wrong? Those who are pure are self-purifying, and sometimes this society is still beautiful.
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Treat her to a meal! Praise her more! Turn her into your slave!
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There's no way, either change jobs or please her.
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Refuse to confide in her! Say you're not interested! Don't want to hear it! Be direct!
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If you're unlucky, just admit it, this kind of person can't buy it because it should be lived, or if he can change departments and jobs, he can try it.
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There are still such people in the world!!
I suggest you resign. I'm the most annoying person about this kind of person.
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Cow ghosts, snakes, gods, respect and stay away! We'll talk about it when we can!
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You can do what you have to do Be a person and do things with a clear conscience.
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It seems that your leader is no better, so let's change jobs...
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Resign for a job....The best option.
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In the office, all the colleagues are women, which is a very special work experience. For a man who rents a single man, this situation can be a little embarrassing and may also make him feel uneasy. In this post, I will share some of my experiences and feelings in such a work environment.
First, female colleagues are more detail-oriented and collaborative than their male counterparts. In my job, I often need to work on tasks and projects with my colleagues, and I find that my female colleagues are very good at this. They are very attentive and patient, they care about every detail, and at the same time, they will give a lot of valuable suggestions and opinions.
They are constantly communicating and collaborating with me to ensure that every project is completed successfully. In this environment, I also paid more attention to detail and collaboration, and learned to work better with my colleagues to make projects go more smoothly.
Secondly, female colleagues are more patient and tolerant than male colleagues. In my job, I sometimes make mistakes or don't do a good job enough. However, my female colleagues were always patient to give me guidance and help instead of blaming or criticizing me.
They were very tolerant and understanding of me and made me feel very warm and comfortable. In this work environment, I have also become more patient and inclusive, and more focused on communication and understanding with colleagues.
In addition, in the office, there are all female colleagues, and the working atmosphere is very harmonious and harmonious. Everyone cares for and supports each other, shares the joys and sorrows of work, and takes care of and helps each other in life. In this environment, I feel very comfortable and relaxed, and my productivity has improved.
We can speak up in the office, motivate and support each other, and work together to create a positive work atmosphere.
However, there are some problems with the fact that the office is full of female colleagues. First of all, male colleagues may feel lonely and excluded if they work in such an environment for long periods of time. They may feel that they lack some common ground and topics with their colleagues, or they may feel that their presence is somewhat redundant.
Secondly, sometimes there are some quarrels or conflicts between female colleagues, and at this time, male colleagues may not be able to effectively alleviate and solve the problem.
Finally, building good relationships with colleagues is also crucial. In an all-female office, you may face some gender-related issues such as mood balances, personal privacy, etc. Therefore, try to avoid causing trouble on these issues and respect everyone's feelings and boundaries.
In addition, building a friendly relationship with colleagues can also make work easier and more enjoyable. You can take the initiative to communicate with your colleagues to learn about each other's interests, hobbies, life situations, etc. You can also turn to them for help and advice when you are struggling.
In conclusion, working in an all-female office can be a special and fun experience. Respect everyone's personality and style, actively integrate into the team, and build good relationships to succeed in such an environment.
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There are thousands of interests in work, and my work is so unique. "Have you ever felt this way? When classmates or colleagues are all of the same gender, everyone may feel differently. Let's take a look at a few of the feelings that may arise:
1.Some people may feel comfortable or at ease.
If a person is a woman, and their classmates or colleagues around them are all women, they may feel more comfortable and at ease because they can find more similar commonalities, such as experiences, hobbies, etc., and it is easier to connect and communicate.
2.Some people may feel a lack of variety and freshness.
If a person is in a group of people of the same gender for a long time, she may feel a lack of diversity and freshness, unable to be exposed to the thoughts and perspectives of people of different genders, and lacking in thinking from different perspectives.
3.Some people may be influenced by gender stereotypes.
If you are surrounded by classmates or co-workers of the same gender, it may reinforce gender stereotypes, increase the importance of gender in interpersonal interactions, and lead to more rigid perceptions of gender roles.
4.Some people may be curious about the opposite sex.
For some people, if they are surrounded by people of the same gender, they may develop curiosity about the opposite sex and want to know and contact people of the opposite sex.
In general, people's feelings vary from person to person. Personalities and experiences vary from person to person, so the feelings of classmates or colleagues being all of the same gender are complex, and some people may enjoy the situation, while others may not.
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You have to be more careful, women are small-minded and will tear each other down.
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The fact that all my colleagues in the office are women is what it is like to experience it only when you have actually experienced it. It just so happened that I had this experience a few years ago, and I experienced it twice, and it was hard to describe the taste, and listen to me.
At that time, it was also a short time after I graduated. The first time I worked was in Shanghai, and I was assigned to a certain sub-district of the company in Shanghai, where all but my immediate supervisor were women! I don't remember how many people there were, but about 15 people.
There are young people of my age, there are women's level, some are beautiful and some are not very beautiful, and they are not as beautiful as everyone thinks. The small team of five people assigned to me went out to do work together almost every day, such as handing out leaflets or doing promotional activities outside, which was very difficult. However, as everyone expected, I took the initiative to carry the heavy loads on their hands, took the initiative to buy water for them to quench their thirst, and took the initiative to serve them.
I'll jokingly tell them, don't think I'm going to help you get what you're getting unless you kiss me. I will help them at critical moments, for example, when sending leaflets, I need to add the customer's WeChat, and the customer is reluctant to add, I will go over to help. When I see a girl working hard all day, really hard and tired, I will buy water for her privately.
I am dealing with them on the principle of exchange, and after I take the initiative to do something for her, I will tell her in a joking tone, I am not helping you with kindness, you owe me, and you will have to pay it back later. I did it for three months, and I had an affair with a certain girl, and then I quit.
Another experience happened in the office of Fan Xian, there were five female students, and my leader was also a man, but not in the same office. Four young girls, the other is the daughter of the owner of the company, married and has children. The boss's daughter chats about her parents' shortcomings and her son's husband in the office every day, and chats very happily with four other female colleagues, and there are also many private topics for women, which I listen to very embarrassing and difficult to talk to.
I occasionally buy them snacks, like spicy bars or something.
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When you find out that your classmates or colleagues are all of the same sex, you may have a variety of different feelings. This condition can bring different effects and feelings for different people. Here are some of my thoughts and experiences on this issue.
Overall, there are too many female colleagues, which is a very happy experience for men!
1. They like to inquire about your wife, as long as you often talk about how good you are to your wife, they will praise you for being a good man.
2. Often compare you with their husbands, sometimes in the mouth, but more in the heart. As long as you compliment your female colleagues more, they will think that you are better than their husbands. Because many couples are making do, after a long time, there is also a lack of freshness.
3. Because women love to eat, there will be more sorbets, drinks, dried fruits and snacks such as peanuts and blind seeds, and men are more blessed. But sometimes, you will be coaxed by female colleagues and ask you to pay them to eat.
4. Women generally don't like to smoke, and being with female colleagues can be regarded as a kind of supervision for men who smoke.
5. They sometimes often ask male colleagues: How is my dress? Am I fat? When they are at home, they usually ask their husbands the same questions, but many men are very perfunctory. As long as you can talk a little, you can make them happy.
6. From their chats, you can know what women care about most in their feelings. It is very good for male colleagues to please their wives.
7. Knowing that you are surrounded by female colleagues, your wife will have a sense of crisis and may take more care of you.
8. Women may get carried away when they talk, so you will know a lot of their secrets. And because women love gossip, some of the words you listen to will rot to the stomach.
9. There are mostly married women in the office, and some of them, some of them, dare to talk more than their male colleagues.
10. Female colleagues talk a lot about eating, drinking, and having fun, and they are the first to know about fun, delicious food, and good drink. Men can prepare for their wives in advance.
11. Which store has ** and which shopping mall is holding activities, they know better than men. Male colleagues can also go home and talk to their wives about this matter to enhance the relationship between husband and wife.
12. The knowledge and skills of beauty and skin care, home tidying, cooking and stir-frying, female colleagues are walking encyclopedias.
13. As long as you can make them happy, if you encounter a little trouble, a female colleague will help you out.
14. If your female colleagues are older than you, you will have a few more sisters, and if you are single, you will have a few more matchmakers.
15. When the unit goes out for dinner and travel, it is a time to show the ability of men.
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