I asked my boyfriend for advice, but I just verbally agreed and didn t act

It seems that you are really two types of people with different temperaments.

You are a person who knows how to enjoy life, and you are a very interesting little girl; And your boyfriend is a very manly personality who often doesn't care about the other person's feelings for his own business. Because it's such a personality, it's probably hard to change.

Here's what you're going to do:

1- Learn to adapt to each other and accept each other. Don't blame the other person.

2- Be clear about your opinion. If you have something you need the other person to do, be sure to tell them clearly and unambiguously. Your boyfriend is the kind of person who is good for taking orders, not for "guessing" about the leader's intentions, and don't assume that he will know what you're saying.

Vague requests like "you come with me" are not easy for him to accept, and should be made clear as: "I want you to watch a movie with me this afternoon!" ”

3- Choose another boyfriend. If you are really a girl who doesn't want to change yourself and just wants to live a small life, it is recommended to choose someone else, after all, people have.

Your boyfriend has such a special profession If you want to live a stable life in the future, or don't you want to be good Every time the criminal police go to the police, you are scared Don't you want to think about this.

Haha, that's what it takes to fall in love with a police officer.

It's your own choice.

Love and marriage are not exactly the same thing.

While you're not married, let's weigh it up.

This kind of estimation is not very capable of dealing with the world, and can only listen to others. Due to various reasons, there is a lack of learning knowledge, and character determines life, so it also has a little relationship, since it is your boyfriend, take the initiative to talk to him, talk about his heart, and see what he thinks. Come on, sister, hehe, no, find someone who is 10000000000000000 times better than him.

There is no perfect man in the world, and the perfect man needs to be transformed by a woman, and he should not stop for you, otherwise it will be very painful in the future.

To love someone, you must learn to look at the other person's problems first, and then slowly discover the good aspects, such as his strengths.

The answer to your next few questions is "yes".

But men can have no money, but to be self-motivated, women are not all very self-motivated men, you can encourage your boyfriend, tell him to work hard to earn money, a man loves you, he will work hard for you to earn money, maybe things are not as imagined, but if your family sees your boyfriend working hard to give you happiness, I believe it will also change their opinion of him, so you still have to encourage him, you can't always be satisfied with the status quo.

There's still 23, or a little more practical... Sometimes that's it, there's no way.

This is for sure, now you can't live as a farmer without money, hehe's a bit serious, but at least one thing is certain, it doesn't matter if this man has no money now, but he must have the ability to earn money, if you can't support you, love is a castle in the air, and you will starve to death.

Starved to death, what kind of love are you talking about.

It's common sense that reality isn't good, it's not bad.

You're starting to falter. I think true love comes first, material things second!

The most important thing is to see if he is kind enough to you! Rich may not be good for you!

It doesn't matter if you have more money or less money, as long as it is enough for the daily expenses of both parties.

I don't know what your purpose is in writing this letter? If you want to score, don't note the fourth article, if you want to keep it, if you want him to be nice to you, don't write this letter! If it's me, this letter is too hurtful, too literary, it seems to be 100% his fault, he will wake up, but whether he will keep you depends on whether he loves you or not

Since you want to choose to break up, but you still want him to regret it for the rest of his life, once you loved him, but now you want to abandon him? Don't you think that's cruel?

Honestly, when I read this letter, my first feeling was that you were tired and didn't want to continue. If I'm that guy and he really doesn't care about you, he'll break up with you right away; If he loves you very much, he may say to you: Can you give me a chance?

I know you may be reluctant to let him go, and I want to keep him with you. You can talk to him without talking to him once, and if there is no result, you can take out the letter, and this is also the time to test him. Good luck.

I'm sugar... Sweet to sad ...

If it were me, I would feel that the reason for breaking up is inexplicable, why should I break up if I love me. It's puzzling. But I will also feel self-blame, self-blame myself for not giving you a romantic love, men should focus on career, this is what I firmly agree with, but there must be a degree, to find a balance between family and career, can not take care of one or the other, and later even if the career is successful, then how do you make up for your family or love, as the saying goes, a man will become bad when he is rich, do you want to do this?

There is basically nothing to revise in your letter, and if your boyfriend doesn't have any idea after reading it, then it can be said that his current center is not with you.

After receiving the letter, he will definitely keep it, but he still advises you that it is not easy for two people to come together, and consider it carefully.

1. When I saw this letter, I felt that it was okay to write, and I didn't have any ideas.

Second, I just think you are very open, I don't see it very fake, maybe everyone will have a different feeling.

3. In fact, the way to write a letter can avoid the embarrassment of-for-tat, but it should not be the best way. After saying that, it's okay to write a letter.

Fourth, since you decided to break up, did you ask him to keep you? If he cares about you, of course he will keep you.

It feels like you're not writing a breakup letter, it's expressing your love for him.

I hope he values you, and he doesn't want to meet you.

What's missing?

You're not writing this letter to break up.

If you really want to break up, just a few words, we are not suitable, break up.

Don't contact after that.

1, if Russia is an inner man, seeing this letter, Russia should blame himself, and at the same time he will be a little moved.

2, the writing is quite moving, but the back is a little bit.

3, the writing is okay, there is nothing to modify, 4, if he loves Xun, he will keep it. If he only treats him as a friend, he will bless him.

You and I came to the world as one-winged angels, and I thought we would be perfect together, but I didn't expect that

Fuck, our wings are on one side.

My breakup letter

I'm a boy, and my first feeling when I saw this letter was that you were reluctant to give him up! Do you expect this effect?

Hehe.. Private matters are all in the open! Little fool....

No, if he doesn't love you, you can see from the look in his eyes, everyone has their own circle, you are his girlfriend, all he does is make you fit in with his life circle as much as possible. You can also talk to him and make him not so rigorous.

Boyfriends pay more attention to their personal image. After all, a lot of people pay attention to this. If you wear better clothes, walk with your head up and your chest high, people will look at you differently.

It's not unpleasant to give an opinion once in a while, but it's like that... It feels like he doesn't love you enough and is too picky.

In this way, you shouldn't know him well enough, you should know more about him and then be with him, generally two people together won't care so much, even if you dress no matter how indecent you are, it should be good in his seriousness, everyone is different, it is recommended that you understand more of his thoughts, a woman's sixth sense is very accurate, feel it well.

Being critical of you doesn't mean loving you, and caring about you won't ask you so much.

Individuals have personal habits, for example, I have a serious cleanliness habit.

Khan: Probably not, that would have been over a long time ago, and you should have learned more about each other.

89528929 Unequal Treaties:

A: 89528929 B: Him.

1.A's words are always true.

2.If there is a mistake in the case of A, please refer to Article 1.

3.B is not allowed to engage in the following behaviors without A's approval: smoking, drinking, gambling, or pickling horses.

Hehe, when did this arise again. It's okay to have fun, just don't take it seriously, or you won't be disappointed. It's definitely boring to live in front of the treaty every day, so let's live it however you want!!

Notarization by a notary public.

If he is sentenced to you later, the house and the savings will all belong to you. Hehe..

Damn, it's a mean woman again!

The new three from the four virtues: the girlfriend goes out with him"from"Girlfriend ordered to serve"from"My girlfriend is blind when she makes mistakes"from"Girlfriend makeup has to wait"Yes"Girlfriend spends money and gives up"Yes"The girlfriend is angry and has to endure it"Yes"Girlfriend's birthday to remember"Yes"Plus: What my girlfriend said was right and wrong.

He loves you, you will be willing to change for you, if he doesn't love you, you have an agreement, what can you do with him? All human beings are free individuals, and excessive discipline is counterproductive. Maybe he doesn't have an opinion now, but after a long time, he will have thoughts about you, and if another girl who is very good to her appears at this time, you are in danger.

Hope you think of a better way.

Nothing to write about!

I'm a man who knows men best! It's written in vain! Men will talk panic! Do you think you can restrain it?

The best way is to leave him alone! I really can't see it, so I'll pull it back and educate it!

Something is wrong? Do you really love him? Or are you looking for something to show off, or a punching bag?

Hehe, my girlfriend also used this trick for me at the time, but I liked her, took care of her, and agreed to it all, it was the first unequal treaty between the two of us. If he likes you, he will change, if he doesn't care about you, it's useless to sign more, this is my understanding.

If you can manage him or he is willing to let you do it, which is something he is willing to do, then you don't have to sign an agreement at all. On the other hand, if he doesn't listen to you, what if he signs an agreement?

I'm for it! But don't forget to go to the notary office to notarize after signing, otherwise it's just a piece of paper!

Depend on... These days, men are not easy to mix.

Dizzy!Don't use this method! ~!

Ha ha. I'm a boy.

Experienced the same thing.

Sooner or later, the paper agreement will become like a blank check, with no effect.

Think of something practical.

Yes, I also want to make a regulation so that it is binding.

First things first: a man doesn't care what his girlfriend gives him. It's about whether you care about him as much as he does. So you can make him very happy when you buy valuables, but being happy is not the same as being moved!

The purpose of giving a gift is to make the other person feel touched, which leads to a sense of happiness!

Secondly, there is no way for others to tell you about gifts that can move the other person. If you ask him, I don't think anything will come of it. It's about whether you pay attention to the details of his life.

For example, I have always wanted to buy something, but I have delayed it for various reasons. Or items that are helpful to him in his work are also feasible.

Or doing something for him can be a gift. Know that gifts don't have to be material.

In short, you have to do something that moves him, and if it can be unexpected, it will be a surprise.

Keep an eye out for yourself, little sister. Anyway, I don't need my wife to give me anything. Hehe..

Actually, I just want to give you a little heartfelt words.

Do you remember the days you met.

Remember the text messages you sent during your relationship.

Remember the words you said to each other in the ** in the quiet night.

Remember every diary you wrote for him.

Give each other the memories you once shared as a real presence.

I guess it's a gift that no one can give to the other.

Thank you for asking this thought-provoking topic in your busy schedule.

Thank you even more for making me suddenly think of what to give to my deceased girl. Thank you.

Knit him a sweater, or give him a small plant, the kind you have cultivated yourself. You plant one by one. Or send a puppy, parrot, lizard, ......Small animals.

Ties, men don't have too many ties.

A secret love letter to her was written about the girl who had a crush on her for a long time during school, admired her very much, and then asked for nothing, just wanted to make a personal promise, so that he would be very excited, better than giving any gift!!

Buy two hearts to wear around your neck, give him one heart, and keep another one around your neck. Let you always "love each other".

Giving him a thousand paper cranes represents your heart for him, and it doesn't cost much. The two powers are beautiful.

He hasn't changed, it's just a state, just like fishing, you say that we don't catch it in the process of fishing, will we put bait and wait patiently for the fish to catch it? When you catch a fish, the fish is already our thing, and you will spend a lot more time looking at it and feeding it with a lot of bait? No, right?

Why is that? Because we know that it can't go away, it's already ours. People are the same, you are already her girlfriend, he knows that you have him in his heart, he also has you in his heart, so you don't have to stick to it every day, the man is afraid of being tired, you can take the initiative to care about him, to contact him, many times it is not necessary for the man to hurt us, to coax us, two people together is mutual, you can also take the initiative.

What you do for him he will see, two people together don't care too much about who contacts whom first, who cares more about whom, who cares more about whom, people will be stingy when they think about it, so be generous, understand? You can also tell him what you think, but don't lose your temper, depending on what he says, if you treat him well when he's busy, he knows it himself. He will compensate you when he is free, and it is important to communicate more!

Hope it helps you with your troubles at this time!