Before my sophomore year of high school, I was very cheerful and outgoing, but in the past ten years

Personal advice is that you should change your mindset. It's better to do something hard and give it a try. If you succeed, you will be very confident, and if you fail, you will be fine, because you have the courage to challenge.

I used to be very introverted, afraid to socialize with others, and very cowardly. But then I went abroad to study, although my grades abroad were particularly poor. But when I came back, I was a completely different person.

Now I am very confident every day, although sometimes I am hesitant, confused, and afraid, but I adjusted my mentality a little and found a day to do all day, which was very fulfilling, and then all the negative emotions disappeared. It's back to my confident self. Sometimes when I look back on the past, I can't believe that it was me!

Another thing is to reflect on your own style of doing things. Then force yourself to change.

Well, there is a saying: people can't succeed too early! Some children are the darlings of their teachers when they first start studying, so they have many opportunities and have never experienced failure.

When I arrived in high school or college, I found that I was an "ugly duckling". I didn't learn to "lead" when I was in front, and now I haven't learned to "follow" when I get to the back, and I can only be depressed in the end.

If you want to become confident, you must first stay away from failure. Be cautious and well prepared. Be friends with successful people, and never be with depressed people, because depression is contagious!

One important thing: don't pass up any opportunity to train yourself!

If you have the opportunity to look for an article in "Youth World" 2009-5 "Unwilling to be a Chrysalis" by Xiaomi, you will be inspired a lot.

Don't pay too much attention to it、、It's not too big in the first year of high school.,Even if you leave a bad impression, it's easy to make people change.,After all, children are growing up.。

If you want to be able to speak, you must first learn to listen, and if you don't know how to say it, listen to what others say, think about the feelings and needs of the other party, and you will know that what others say well and what they say is not good, so that you can speak in a measured manner in the future.

According to your description, you are a person who is not easy to be impulsive, this is very good, there is no need to be too embarrassed if you have nothing to say, you don't know the world of many elders, but they are all from your age, and his desire to speak will be stronger than yours, so you should pay attention to the problem of not being too impulsive when you encounter a bad problem, and let the other party know what you mean. Ode to Loss.

People's ideas will change with their own strength, when you have enough strong capital, you will have something to say, say what you are good at (the other party can understand), find yourself can talk about the point of the aspect is half the success.

So don't be in a hurry, be humble and accumulate steadily.

Interpersonal relationships are very important, and it is not a bad reputation to be outgoing and wise, you have to learn everything in the hungry period, you must find a suitable entry point in the topic, you can't talk too much, talk to your peers first, attend parties or something, so that you will have experience.

You should think carefully about what you said, and then apologize to the classmates you think said the wrong thing to them, and then you should pay attention to it in the future, and think about it when you talk to yourself.

It's definitely a wrong choice to have nothing to say, you can try to be with people in the class who are more cheerful and more willing to make friends with the cave, or you can say that people are crazy, and this kind of person is talking or playing games with one and trembling, and you will feel that you are infected, or assimilated by the summoned ants.