Hello teachers! I m confused right now, please tell me what to do?

I'll help you share the burden o( o

In fact, I think the most important thing for two people to be together is to be considerate of each other, trust, and have feelings.

Although feelings can be cultivated, since he doesn't like that woman, he doesn't want to disappoint his parents.

But he is even less likely to want to let himself marry a wife, not for himself, just to please his parents, is this possible?

I know you're confused now, but now it's mainly the opinion of the two of you, if you still want this relationship to last, then please keep your firmness, love is a matter for the two of you, even if others have big opinions, as long as you insist, then you are the winner of this game, I personally hope that [you can persevere, I wish you happiness].

I feel that since he told you, his parents are in their 60s, and they are very optimistic about this woman, and hope that he will start a family as soon as possible, which means that he has made his plans, if you separate not because he doesn't love you, but because he has his thoughts and his fetters, he must be an obedient child, and what his parents say is what he says. So I want you to plan ahead for your future. I don't care which school you are a college student, now there are college students all over the place, don't think that you are superior, treat you equally, the identity of the two of you is the same, there is no hierarchy of love, so don't think that I am a college student, I am higher than anyone, think about it sincerely.

I bet he has his own idea now, divide or continue.

But I still hope you will try. I'm also from the Northeast. The men in the Northeast are still good dohaha. If you feel that there is still hope for you, try to fight for it. If it really doesn't work, let it go!

It depends on how you want to put it, if you want to fight for your future, choose your academic qualifications! If you want to get married for your own impulse! You can't have it both ......ways

He really doesn't love you anymore, he just took advantage of your kindness, so he wants to treat you as a spare tire, he makes you sad again and again, do you really care, I know you really love him, but he really doesn't love you, and he can't give you the happiness you want, leave him early, and break it off with him, otherwise you will really hurt your body.

Why bother. Although it is said that the right and the dissuasion are not persuaded, it is no longer meaningful to go on like this, and it will delay you if it goes on like this. Now is the best age of your life.

Why waste it on people like this? What he treats you as anything will always be just a spare tire. I don't like that, but I hope you understand what I'm trying to say.

I'm really sorry I think you're a little cheap Don't scold me The real feeling is that a man like this is not a man, a big boy I don't understand what responsibility is, let's leave.

After reading your words very patiently, my opinion is that the boy is very emotionally immature, he doesn't really love you, he loves himself the most. You are a very good girl, and true love will come to you. You can let go of this boy, and you have to learn to let him out from the heart!

I don't think he's going to give you what you want.

I think you're so stupid, how can you forgive him over and over again?

What kind of job you are suitable for, which direction to develop, only according to your personal ability and quality, preferences, market demand and other factors to a comprehensive analysis, we can only give you suggestions, say the general direction, you have to consider it yourself.

What is certain is that your confusion is temporary and normal at the same time. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up. To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself, that is, planning, according to your own ability and the future needs of the market.

Then set some stage goals, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step. The goal should not be too big, but it should be within reach, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

The goal can be any aspect, such as finding a job you like, or determining a skill training you need, and then setting a work-study goal, so that you can make a little progress every day, work and study steadily, and accumulate experience, so that you will definitely gain something; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try, instead of being confused and entangled, make something that will be beneficial to you in the future.

Change to individual jobs.

Because you're still young.

But the work has to be promising.

It's best to fit your interests, so that you will be like a fish in water and you will be brave enough to climb the peak.

Personally, I suggest that you don't change jobs, you can only know if you do anything, whether it is suitable or not, and youth is not to be squandered. Work hard, you will find fun, don't believe in hobbies, to be honest, in the context of Chinese education, most students have no hobbies, and even if they do, they don't have the relevant knowledge to take on their dreams.

What you can't get is always the best, and driving also has the risk of driving, car accidents, robberies, staying up late, overloading, researching, and not being able to go to the toilet for half a day.

There are pros and cons to everything, forget you to find the day to grow, find the goal of life, thank you.

You say you don't know what you like?

If you can decide for yourself how you do your own thing, you know what you like.

At the age of 18, how can you let your parents make decisions and decisions on your behalf of you in your future career orientation?

Even if you choose a bad career, it's your own choice. You can also feel the joy and sense of accomplishment of being in charge of your own affairs! Gradually, you will know what you really like and what you don't like!

If you make a mistake this time, you can correct it next time. Then change to the next class. No big deal!

You are an individual. How can you still be a puppet of your parents? Do you want to be independent anymore?

Whoever says to you should only be used as a reference. No one has the right to deprive you of the right to call the shots of your own affairs!