His father is against it, and he is so cowardly, what am I going to do?

It's hard to keep a relationship like this, unless, of course, you love each other enough. Family pressure is often the most difficult hurdle for a relationship to overcome, because there is also someone else's factor in it - this other person is your own relative, and it is difficult to choose. However, at least two people have to love each other very much to solve all the crises.

You have to make sure that you love the tower enough, whether your love can support him through all kinds of difficulties from his family, because it is you who dominates love; Secondly whether he loves you enough, whether his current change is due to his father's pressure or his own love for you, if it is because of his father, you should tolerate him and stand on the same front with him, if he does not love you enough, then.

In fact, when you are thinking about whether to continue your love with him, you should take a good look at the values of his family members, not a world of people with boundaries that are difficult to cross. His father denied everything about you just because of your objective conditions, which really needs to consider whether it is worth insisting, because you need to live with them, whether you can be respected in that family, this is very important, otherwise it will be ugly to say, even if you are together and married, it is difficult to be happy!

Let it go, if he loves you, he will be with you regardless of the opposition of his family, and he will convince his family, right? It's been almost two years, and I'm still picking and choosing at this time. Even if you really enter his house in the future, will you live happily?

Girls need to think clearly about the way forward.

Don't do what you regret.

I wish you a happy and happy day.

The officer is going to use the concept of a soldier to conquer him, and since his father has an opinion of you, you have to think for yourself if you really feel a little out of place in their family? If you think so yourself, I want to let it go, but if you think you are kind, courageous, and assertive, you bypass him to meet his father alone and talk about your heart. Let's think about it for yourself.

If he loves you, he will face the pressure with you, instead of finding fault with you at this juncture.

What's wrong with a girl from an ordinary family Isn't she worthy of his so-called officer What kind of society is it like this now If you really love each other, you have to face difficulties together I wish you happiness.

I guess he doesn't love you anymore.

Otherwise, how could they start picking on you, obviously looking for a reason to break up.

It's better not to be too stupid for women.

Break up, I don't think she loves you enough, seriously, think about it, if you pass the door in this way, you will be unhappy, because she will not defend you, when you quarrel with her family, even if it is not your fault, you are all scolded people, not worth marrying, this is my opinion, you weigh it!

You should let go, if he really likes you, then the resistance of the family is nothing, and it has long since collapsed in his insistence. So, don't waste your time on a man who doesn't have an opinion, what a woman needs in the end is a happy marriage. Don't even know what a woman needs, he doesn't deserve to be with you.

I don't know how to help you, I can only bless you. Love is very complicated, and you can't listen to the opinions of others, but he's like this, so chilling, if you can let go, let go... Will you be happy when you get married in the future?

People are realistic now, can you close the gap with them? If he loves you deeply enough, how can he be willing to give up this relationship?

I think it's better for you to give up on him.

It's just one thing, and he's no longer looking at you, and what about it in the future? The days are long, and you think about what will happen.

Filial piety is a virtue, but it is not cowardice and obedience.

What is such a man going to do? Let it go. Really.

Why did my father never feel that his actions had caused me so serious harm, he never reflected, even if I said it, he didn't feel sorry for me.

Hello dear! <>

My father never felt that his actions had hurt me so badly, he never reflected, and even if I did, he didn't feel sorry for me. Because your father has some problems with emotional communication and understanding, and is unable to feel your inner feelings. When your father's behavior causes harm to you, you need to express your feelings in time and tell him about your emotional state.

You can feel it with me. Instead of blaming or criticizing his actions, I hope mine can help you! <>

If the father is cowardly, then the burden of solving the problem can only be left to the son or daughter, and you need to be stronger than the average child. You especially have to show a strong, independent, assertive side in front of your mother, and don't let your mother unknowingly take the place of your father. Because the functions and responsibilities of parents are different.

It's already a fact that my father is cowardly, don't think about making him stronger. But you can make yourself good and strong. Like, you can't control whether you are a rich second generation or not, but you can realize that your children are rich second generation. Go for it!

My childhood was one in which my mother replaced my father, and my father became a man of all existence. I have never received a gentle and tolerant mother's love, nor have I seen a majestic father's love, my mother is as violent as thunder, and my father is cowardly as a mouse (I don't want to say that, I feel sad too). I am not gentle or strong, and I am very averse to being afraid of strangers.

In recent years, my mom seems to be unable to resist disliking my dad and my dad's family. I was really tired watching from the sidelines. By the way, the reason for cowardice really has a lot to do with the primitive family.

My father's family is very poor, his parents are farmers and have no education, and my father has only received very little education, and he has no excellent and irreplaceable skills. Sometimes looking at that cowardly and honest father, I really feel powerless. When I came into contact with my dad, I felt negative energy all over my body.

It wasn't until I started consulting a psychiatrist, consulting psychology books, and then getting back to spend time with my father that I found that this person, who had lived most of his life, turned out to be a person who had no self-care and social skills. I was shocked, suspicious, sad, disgusted, and distressed by what I found, but I knew that he could only do this for the rest of his life, and I could only change myself for the better, instead of blaming him.

After all, I believe that if he had known since he was a child that he would live under the label of cowardice for the rest of his life, he would have had a hard time living such a life. Please stop dwelling on it and don't blame your father. Since you are braver than your father, then protect him and do not hurt him.

His life is a foregone conclusion, and you still have a long way to go.

My father is very cowardly, and there is no other way to do it, when I am at home, the family is more considerate and more ancient, and I try not to recruit others outside, and it is also a kind of heavenly letter to send it naturally.

Father's cowardly words are already a fact, don't think about making him stronger. But you can make yourself good and strong. Like, you can't control whether you are a rich second generation or not, but you can achieve your child to become a rich second generation!

There is a saying that when a child from a poor family is in charge early, and his father is particularly cowardly and incapable, it has become a habit, but it does not mean that you are cowardly, so there is nothing wrong with this, and you can't embarrass your father, because we are the younger generation. The old man just goes with the flow.

No matter how cowardly your father is, he will stand up when you are in danger!

He is not cowardly, he takes a step back and opens the sky, and some time cannot be earned. Right or Wrong?

As the saying goes, the son is not ugly, the dog is not poor, don't hate your father, may be from his point of view, he has been diligent all his life, and now the probability of employment in the society is so low, and it is very difficult to make money, perhaps because of this, he has a strong monopoly on the material, be considerate of him, don't work against his parents, and study hard. Knowledge changes fate, and if you want to change the current living environment, you must study hard, so that your parents don't worry about these material lives.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be stupid to each other in everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume their own responsibilities and obligations, do a little bit for the family, and think less for themselves.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

It may also have something to do with your family situation, and your dad is also struggling, right?

Have a good talk with your dad